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Jan 30, 2020
Women in the Front Seat: How to Own Your Fear and Fuel Your Future! Caren Glasser goes live with Cinematographer and award winning Director Indy Saini on this Super Boomer Lifestyle Show! Check out more shows here: http://www.carenglasser.live Follow us on Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/carenglasser Follow us on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/carenglasserlive Follow us on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/carenglasser Visit The Super Boomer Lifestyle store: https://thesuperboomerlifestyle.com/ #womendirector #womeninthefrontseat #indysaini My Direct Links, Programs and Equipment I use for my Shows and Promotion: BeLive: http://bit.ly/3p7E0DB Get Your Book In Front Of Thousands of Potential Buyers! https://bit.ly/2HJ38Qu Logitech HD Pro Webcam: https://amzn.to/362BuXP Wired Earbuds with Microphone: http://amzn.to/3p1pmOi Lavalier Lapel Microphone: http://amzn.to/3p9EFVo Blue Yeti USB Mic: https://amzn.to/395hExi ATR2100-USB Cardioid Dynamic Microphone: http://amzn.to/3qzEy5A
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Lasser and welcome to the super boomer
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lifestyles show I welcome guests from
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all around the world to share how they
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are maneuvering through a world that
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worships youth and shames the beautiful
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process of Aging and today is no
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exception we are welcoming
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cinematographer and award-winning
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director InDesign e to the show and the
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topic is women in the front seat how to
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own your fear and fuel your future if
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the reason why I pick this is because
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it's called destinations of a lifetime
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it is a coffee table book but the reason
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why I pick this is that my guest and
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you're gonna meet her in a few seconds
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she is a traveler she loves to go all
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over the world and she's done some
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pretty amazing things and I thought this
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was a great way to kind of honor who she
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is check out this book it's 225 of the
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world's most amazing places it's I
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believe it's on sale right now at that
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great price $25 and 52 cents I don't
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know where they come up with these
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numbers anyways go check it out let me
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know what you think and we're gonna just
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keep going all right so our guest today
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is indie signee she's an award-winning
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director for the short film the lesson
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she's an emmy-nominated symud
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cinematographer as part of the
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cinematography team for the Nat Geo
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documentary Ice Bear which was filmed
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near the Arctic Circle about the effects
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of climate change on polar bears she has
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worked for more than a decade as a
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camera technician and onset colorist on
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movies and TV including Gemini man
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wrinkle in time Twin Peaks Pirates of
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the Caribbean I could go on and on and
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on she's worked with directly directors
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including Angley David Lynch
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oscar-winning DPS John Tull from
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Braveheart and Dion
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maybe from Memoirs of a Geisha she's a
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long time motorcycle writer remember
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that because we're gonna be talking
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about that for more than two decades in
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fact she did a solo cross-country
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motorcycle trip from Boston to LA
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filming her upcoming documentary women
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in the front seat which is currently in
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post-production and we welcome in indict
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Indy to the show right now come on in
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how are you doing today I'm doing great
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thank you I'm so excited that you're
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here thank you I'm excited about your
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documentary I'm excited about who you
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are as a person and before we jump into
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the topic I would like to first share
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what I say a super boomer is and I'm
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gonna turn the tables right on you so
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that you can tell us what you say a
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super boomer is so when I talk about
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super boomers I talk about not more of
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what they are not super boomers it's
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more how they show up in life and that
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they're fearless and we'll talk about
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that with a just watch me attitude so I
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went curious how would you describe a
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super boomer I would say a super boomer
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is somebody who constantly tries to
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seize life somebody who wants to no
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matter what age they're at as they keep
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growing
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they keep expanding and they take life
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they keep moving forward and attack life
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fiercely so and I agree I agree I again
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may be my fearless is more like a fierce
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kind of thing but I totally totally like
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that um let's jump into the topic and if
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you're just tuning in we are sitting
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here with Indy signee she is talking to
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us about her new documentary that that
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is in post-production women in the front
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seat but let's talk about how you
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started doing this in the first place
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you grew up wanting to make movies why
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and how did that happen
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I'm not really sure what initially I
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started to think about movies but I wear
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them very young age
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that there weren't role models that
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represented me as a girl and I wanted to
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be part of being able to change that I
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wanted to create content and direct
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movies that are more representative of a
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greater landscape and then oh that's
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what you're doing and that's what I'm
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trying to do yeah I do I felt that way
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from a very young age so how did you get
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started let's say you were talking to
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young women out there and you know they
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have the same mindset how did you get
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started well I think actually nowadays
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it's much easier to get started because
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there's access to being able to create
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your own content like at your fingertips
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literally with phones and very
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inexpensive cameras but I would I mean
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in the way I started the same way I got
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a video camera and started making short
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films got together with a bunch of my
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friends we called ourselves practice
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based productions as we were practicing
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making film you know we were working on
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our craft and working on our
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storytelling abilities and yeah I guess
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getting better and better at trying to
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express our voices and making the kind
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of stuff that we believed in I love that
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I love that so what is your passion well
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I would say I have multiple passions and
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I would say in my documentary combines
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my two greatest passions one being
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filmmaking and and telling stories like
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we were talking about that I feel like
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are not out in the media yet and are not
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representative of the themes that I
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believe in which is like cross-cultural
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exploration and identity and women's
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diversity and motorcycling which is a
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huge passion of mine clear clearly and
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clearly you're an avid traveler and
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adventure tell us some of the places
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that you've gone
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I have been fortunate enough to have
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been to over 40 countries now well on my
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bucket list when I was in my 20s was
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two-year long backpacking trip around
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world and took a year off with my
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partner at that time and literally with
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you know three outfits in my backpack
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traveled around the world completely
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low-budget sometimes a dollar a night
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homestays and I've been living in New
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York at the time and actually our trip
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around the world was cheaper than what
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it would cost to live in New York for a
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year because we were traveling you know
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and also when you're traveling in
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homestays you really get more immersed
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in the culture right you get to know
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much more of what the life is like as
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opposed to if you're in hotels or more
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removed from it I would say some of my
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most favorite places you know are still
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in Europe like I love Italy and I love
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Prague well you'll be happy you know
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that we have quite a few visit of Ewers
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from Italy we have a great viewing
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audience in Villa so maybe you know
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they're gonna when you go back there you
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know you'll have to check that out
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how do you pattice how has that changed
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how you show up in life the fact that
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you have gone to you said over 40
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couldn't how does that change how you've
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showed up in life um well I think one of
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the love about travel is that it
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challenged you and it now I want to do
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like mentally and emotionally but it
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challenges your perspectives and you
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know we all tend to get really caught up
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in what our own our views and our
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opinions are of something and and how we
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see the world in the moment you get
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outside of your own everyday reality you
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realize that there are lots of different
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ways to experience the world and lots of
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different ways to see the world and what
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you maybe thought was like a foundation
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for thought it's completely different
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when you walk into a different
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circumstance and so travelling has
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taught me to
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rotten how I view things and and allow a
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lot of other possible perspectives to
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come in and that's um see one of the
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things that I also like about filmmaking
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is that like drawing in those
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perspectives you know you can help other
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people to see them when they're not
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necessarily going to other countries so
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this is a topic I told you we're gonna
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talk about before we got on because I'm
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fascinated by it and like we're gonna
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talk about fear and you know I was talk
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in terms when I described a super boomer
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I talked about I'm fearless right and
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you I'm gonna ask the question because I
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kind of know the answer can someone
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actually be fearless do you believe that
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there's such a thing I used to be a real
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advocate for being fearless and I mean I
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used to have t-shirts that would be like
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you know fearless fearless on them yeah
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I was constantly trying to be fearless
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and actually the first time that that
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was reframed for me was on my motorcycle
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trip I met a woman in Chicago whose name
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is tamale sap who's in them in the
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documentary and the way that she
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expressed is she's like oh you know I'm
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not fearless I'm full of fear but I
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would call myself courageous and there
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was just like a little light bulb that
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went off because there is you know fear
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is something that is actually healthy
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you know and it's something that you
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know as a motorcycle rider like if I
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don't have fear I think that's when
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people start to make mistakes um and
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that's when you know bad things can
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happen if you if you really aren't
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paying attention to those you know
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natural the instincts of of fear but if
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you if you say okay I'm afraid I am I'm
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really afraid but I'm gonna do this
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anyway yes you know that is like to me
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makes it actually a lot more sense you
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know you you approach like bold and
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courageous with that knowledge of fear
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that you have embraced and you walk
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forward with the fear and you take on
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life and all of its challenges so you
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probably would go by the the adage that
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feel the fear and do it anyways yes
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absolutely
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Hildur Ferrand do it anyways so that
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kind of brings us into your your
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documentary and you know your tagline is
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women in the front seat determining
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their own destinations and before we
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talk about it I actually want to show to
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our viewers a two-minute reel from your
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documentary that is so awesome
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so guys here it comes I'm gonna drop
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we're gonna actually be here but we're
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gonna put this right into the the show
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and I'm going to go ahead and start it
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every single time insisted sheer rushing
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yeah
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I ride as a mixed-race kid I didn't have
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a community and when I first learned why
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the motorcycle it was transformative
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I read motorcycle all with a bunch of
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data base share assistant innings and
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it's a group of about 13 girls now it's
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complex and Mike's because every one of
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our writers has someplace I've always
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been on the backseat and I just decided
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it was time to get in the front first
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email before I was young I thought it
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was cute to be on the back I guess I
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would call myself previous courageous me
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means that you get scared and you still
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do whatever you wanna do so I drifted
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over to third right true and they don't
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know how to get back in a car you give
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people permission to make your life
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choices and that's not okay in those
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early years of writing is where a lot of
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inner strength don't want to tell the
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scene about that it really set me up for
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success now and in life to be able to
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take a look at what you actually want
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and what your heart is calling for and
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allow yourself to just feel like yeah
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okay I'm gonna go do that that's pretty
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awesome
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they can fake this this sport isn't me
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but the sudden
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[Music]
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Wow
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that's all I can say wow I want to be
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women and yet I'm I am actually fearful
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of motorcycles but I like what they
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stand for and what you stand for let me
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put some comments up Lisa temple says
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yes if we have the courage to push
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through our fears and take action then
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we can fulfill our dreams Amen Lisa
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that's awesome
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Joey said Indy when you first started
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crossing the country on your motorcycle
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you faced your fear in a big way and
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alva says fearless versus courageous I
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that was that's my super boomer moment
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actually fearless using the word
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courageous you did 5,000 mile that's
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crazy that really is kind of let's talk
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about let's talk about how this came
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about how did this whole thing come
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about women in the front seat um well I
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had wanted to make some sort of project
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about women motorcycle riders for at
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least five years before I did the trip
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and you know had talked other people and
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had put together different formats for a
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project but it those ideas were rejected
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by men and boardrooms who couldn't feel
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like actually what was said to me was
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nobody's interested in that and so I
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just decided that because I know people
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are interested I'm interested I know
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that there's other women who were
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interested and as I you know discovered
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doing my trip and since my trip it's a
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lot of men who were interested in
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hearing the stories of women motorcycle
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riders too so it it was almost when I
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decided to do the trip and and shoot the
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film there was a certain of a
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spontaneity to it I had a project a film
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that I was going to go do that went away
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and all of a sudden I had this period of
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time and I was like okay so I'm gonna
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I'm gonna do it now and when I started
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it I didn't know exactly how it was
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going to play out I sort of had this
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idea of I was gonna capture these
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I think we're having some connectivity
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issues okay you're freezing over there
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Indy okay there you go
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keep going okay so yeah and you know as
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like most things evolve and change that
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you don't you know you don't know ahead
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of time right it became something
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completely different like once I was on
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the road and meeting the women I just
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there were so many amazing stories like
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halfway through the trip I was like oh
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this is something much bigger than what
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I thought it would be and what I started
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out to do well one of the things that
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you you write it was it was so much more
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than just driving their motorcycles it's
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it's driving their lives right yes
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yeah and part of what I you know part of
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what I wanted to do with it was you know
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like women in the front seat it the idea
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was that like to express women who are
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making choices leading their lives on
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their own terms but then as I was
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meeting all these different women they
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were doing it in so many different ways
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to you know it was inspiring to me and I
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had a lot of struggles along the way as
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Joey mentioned facing my own fears and
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getting very tired and questioning why I
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was even doing it and it was the women
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that I met actually that kept me going
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and I have to do a call out to this
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amazing woman who I still to this day
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haven't met who's a motorcycle rider I
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felt her who when I was in Chicago and
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having one of my darkest moments I'll
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say she's got on the phone with me at
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like 5:00 in the morning like the
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morning before I was heading out from
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Chicago and gave me this huge pep talk
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on how important it was what I was doing
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and how worthwhile it was and I mean and
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she was a stranger like every single
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woman I met on this trip they were all
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strangers when I started out and they
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all welcomed me into their lives and
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they all supported the project and they
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all like shared their own spirit
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and their own vulnerabilities and did
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you find it surprising that that women
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were actually supporting women because I
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know that we hear stories out there that
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we are you know women are the worst to
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other women and so it sounds like though
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in this situation you actually had women
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who were supporting you on this journey
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yeah in a huge way I'm not so much
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surprised like I find that always in my
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life you know I I always like women do
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support women and I think that's a
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little bit of something that sort of
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like popularized in society
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I would agree I don't think that's
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actually reality I find that my women
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friends and when I come across women
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colleagues like they're very supportive
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and it's a very strong community of
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women helping women so what did surprise
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me maybe because I'm I tend to be shy
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and expressing myself you know on a
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deeper level I was amazed that like I
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would walk into these women's lives and
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they were so open with me like that's
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something that's difficult for me like
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it takes a little while for me to you
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know peel the layers for other people
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and these women were were so willing to
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be honest with me about their lives and
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that just sort of blew me away well and
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let's talk about that I mean we you're
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an introvert yes I am and we were
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talking so am i and so how did how did
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that work for you out there when and you
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said that you were welcomed and and did
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it did that make it easier for you
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because you are an introvert that they
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were so welcoming um it did yeah I mean
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that was like one of the things that I
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didn't think about before the trip um
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you know I just had this sort of this
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driving mission that I had to do this
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thing and of course like getting it
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already with the motorcycle gear and the
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camera gear and and finding you know
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very good at logistics I can nail
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logistics so I got a little logistics
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worked out and all of a sudden I started
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going up these strangers homes I was
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like oh shoot I gotta talk to the people
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did he get in here it it did be easier I
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wouldn't say the showing up got easier
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uh my first moment with everybody always
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was very difficult for me yeah but I
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would say the talking to people I got I
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got more comfortable faster oh that's
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good oh yeah it was so hard but yeah
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yeah that's because I found as I was
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going that people were so welcoming so
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as we're sitting here we're talking to
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Indy signee and about women in the front
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seat and and her documentary that's
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coming out and I know that you you did
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some crowdfunding for this as well to
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finish up the project that's been closed
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but if you're watching the show guys and
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you're saying you know what I want to be
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a part of this I want to help Indy to
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get to that last piece because you're
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almost there I mean right yeah just some
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music and things like that if you'd like
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to donate to this and be a part of this
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this wonderful wonderful thing that she
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is doing you can actually go check her
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out at her website
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Indy K sign a.com and you can contact
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her there and actually find out how you
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can actually become a part of this I
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would encourage you to follow Indy write
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on Twitter at Indy sign II and also felt
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follow her on Instagram on in so I call
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it AI J it's in DK sign II and I go and
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join her Facebook she's got a Facebook
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group over there page women in the front
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seat if you forget the Facebook it's
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okay just put it in the search comment
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column and if you want to see more about
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this whole story I'm gonna put the link
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down here because that's a lot of words
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and a lot of images there but go and go
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check out the entire story because it is
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fascinating what you have done and where
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you have come from and where you're
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going I'm gonna go ahead and put this in
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here right now the link is now in the
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the comments over there any any last
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thoughts or anything that we haven't
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mentioned that you would like to share
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with the audience about this or anything
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else well I guess one of the other
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reasons for the documentary and why we
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call why I call it women in the front
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seat is that I mean it is a specifically
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a documentary about women Otis nickel
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riders but the concept of it and we
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talked about this in the documentary a
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little bit is that it's it's really
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about just being free in your life and
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having the freedom and the permission to
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make decisions that are important to you
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so it's not necessarily only about
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motorcycle riding it is about taking
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your own personal freedom to live the
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life that you want to have that is
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that's the bigger message taking control
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of your life taking droughts life and
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and doing it yeah I want to thank you I
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am fascinated by what you're doing I you
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know I think I mentioned I'm afraid of
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motorcycles maybe I need to become
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courageous not not fearless but
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courageous about it but I am fascinated
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that you are a woman and that you have
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so many women that you actually feature
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in this documentary that get on their
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bikes and they you rode 5,000 I mean
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that's I want to say that's crazy
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but it isn't I mean it isn't crazy this
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is something that you wanted to do and
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you did it and I am you have to be proud
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of that accomplishment yeah yeah I'm
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excited about it and I'm excited that I
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did it it was on my bucket list
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I totally love that I want to thank you
24:05
I know that you were all over the place
24:06
right now but I want to thank you for
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taking time out of your crazy schedule
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to hop on this show with me today I
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really encourage our viewers to go check
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out all the different things that are
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going on go check out what's going on I
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put the link in here
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the bitly down here in the comments
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click on that go take a look at it and
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then come back and write some comments
24:24
in here tell us what you thought and and
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because if this is fascinating I don't
24:29
want to thank you I'm gonna drop you
24:30
into the green room because I have my
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super boomer moment okay well I want to
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thank you so much it was really an honor
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to be here Oh
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pleasure my pleasure truly so I'm gonna
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drop you down don't go away
24:42
I'll be back with a second thank you so
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this is this is the time that I talk
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about my super boomer moment and I was
24:49
going to talk about something completely
24:50
different but when I we were defining
24:53
that whole word of fearless versus
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courageous because I use the word
24:57
fearless fearless is my actually my word
24:59
of the year of this year I use the word
25:01
fearless I have a t-shirt you know as
25:03
Indy said that says furless my
25:05
definition of super boomers is that word
25:07
fearless and after hearing this
25:10
conversation about maybe changing the
25:12
conversation and that it's more about
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being courageous and I really really
25:17
really like that I think I'm gonna
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change my language about that and I want
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to thank you indeed because it's
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actually gonna change how I describe
25:24
what we're doing here and so I thank you
25:26
for that guys as you're as you're
25:29
watching this and and you're paying
25:31
attention to what's gonna hide you again
25:33
I'm sorry as your pal what's going on on
25:36
the show let us know where you faced
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your fear where you've done something
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courageous where you were doing
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something where it's it's actually
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identifying and creating this this world
25:46
that you live and I'd love to hear what
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you think and as I say every single week
25:50
I want to thank you for making the
25:52
choice to spend your time with us today
25:54
because we know that you have a choice
25:56
and we thank you for taking that time to
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spend it with us
25:59
and so I like to say go out and give
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somebody an awesome day and we'll see
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you next week on the next episode of the
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super boomer lifestyle show goodbye
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everyone
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