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Feb 27, 2020
3 Tips to Finding Your Fire! Caren Glasser goes live with Podcast Host, Heather Hansen O'Neill on the next Super Boomer Lifestyle Show! Check out more shows here: http://www.carenglasser.live. Follow us on Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/carenglasser Follow us on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/carenglasserlive Follow us on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/carenglasser Visit The Super Boomer Lifestyle store: https://thesuperboomerlifestyle.com/ #personaldevelopment #HeatherHansenOneill #FindingYourFire #superboomer™ My Direct Links, Programs and Equipment I use for my Shows and Promotion: BeLive: http://bit.ly/3p7E0DB Get Your Book In Front Of Thousands of Potential Buyers! https://bit.ly/2HJ38Qu Logitech HD Pro Webcam: https://amzn.to/362BuXP Wired Earbuds with Microphone: http://amzn.to/3p1pmOi Lavalier Lapel Microphone: http://amzn.to/3p9EFVo Blue Yeti USB Mic: https://amzn.to/395hExi
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and welcome to the super boomer
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lifestyle show I welcome guests from all
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across the globe to share how they are
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maneuvering through a world that
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worships youth and shames the beautiful
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process of Aging today we are welcoming
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podcast host Heather Hanson O'Neill to
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the show and the topic is three tips to
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finding your fire might even be more
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than three tips we're gonna see if
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you're here why we're delighted you're
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here live make sure you comment below
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all right we're gonna introduce our
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guest I'm so excited for our guest today
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she already had me on her podcast I was
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so excited to be on the podcast
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I've known this person Heather Hansen
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O'Neal actually for quite a while we met
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years and years ago when I did some
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events and we have recently been
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reconnected she's a speaker and author
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and adventurer and entrepreneur and she
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uses her action-packed experience to
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fire up audiences on her popular podcast
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called from fear to fire and she likes
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to say that she's the igniter of inner
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fire we're gonna find out what that
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means but in the meantime let's welcome
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Heather to the show and she's popping in
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right now here she is hi Heather
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hey Karen how are you I'm so happy to be
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here I am so happy it ought to be a sin
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come because I always like connecting
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with amazing people and you are one of
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them we always like to start the show
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with a definition of what a super boomer
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is so I'm going to start because the
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super boomer is not defined by their age
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they're defined by how they show up in
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life
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fearless with a just watch me attitude
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that's how I describe a super boomer
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Heather Hansen O'Neal how do you
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describe a super boomer well I love that
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your description has an effort and it
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fearless that I love so much but the way
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I think about super boomer if somebody
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who has earned their confidence with an
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experience that includes success failure
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and everything in between and they own
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every part of them and their own
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decisions and their successes I love it
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that is a great definition and will pop
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it into the blog post once that goes
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live thank you for sharing that God is
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if you're if you're listening live go
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ahead and tell us how you describe a
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super boomer if you're on replate let us
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know how you describe a super boomer I
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would love to hear what goes in your
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head when somebody says you're a super
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boomer love to hear that so today if
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you're just tuning in we're talking to
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Heather Hansen O'Neal about tips to
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finding your fire so let's just jump
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right in when you say you're a big
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nighter of inner fire what does that
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mean exactly well you know it what I do
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is everything that I do is wrapped
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around helping people light what's
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inside of them so that it can come out
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and they can be a beacon to others and
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sometimes it involves removing something
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so they can see it sometimes it just is
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a refocusing but other times just
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Fanning the flame that's already there
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to make it bigger so that they can don't
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take on the world whatever it is that
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they want to do you're clearly
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passionate about that right a little bit
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only been you literally just
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no component ended you light up like
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fire on the screen
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let's you know we I titled this tips
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right I the three tips and I know you
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have so many tips but we're gonna touch
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on a few tips today about finding your
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fire so one of the things that you say
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about finding your fire and one of the
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tips is to be aware of and honor your
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intuition and energy how do we do that
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well you know I think I'm gonna take my
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own personal example because I am a
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highly highly intuitive person who has
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suppressed it for a period of time
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because I thought I was a little crazy
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but once I embraced the crazy and
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realize that when I listen to my inner
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voice that's when I make the right
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decisions for me that are in alignment
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with my values and my character and so I
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help other people look at what it is for
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them okay you just said embrace the
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crazy I love that you're up there
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listening in this and saying yes I'm
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going to embrace my crazy I think I
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actually had a post the other day that
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I'm really happy I love this embrace the
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crazy that might have to be my super
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boomer moment okay
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what's another tip well okay so I think
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that a lot of people have so much
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they're looking at all these strategies
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and all of these things that are out
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there and they're trying to take action
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all these things but they can't because
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there's something blocking them and so I
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think the second tip is to really look
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at what might be keeping you from taking
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the right actions and that's typically a
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fear a limiting belief an assumption or
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a judgement and so when you really look
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at those things and kind of bring them
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up from the subconscious and then you
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can decide if you can use it if you need
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to kind of shift your perspective on it
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or if you need to let it go completely
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so that you can move forward effectively
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with the strategies and there's that F
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word again right there's the fear but
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there's here and you know I like to say
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I'm fearless
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I spoke to somebody the other day who
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said there's no
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such thing as being fearless everybody
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has fear and as a matter of fact which
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was a different way of looking at it
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it's the fear that drives us but I love
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the word fear I I think that when we
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show up attempting to be fearless doors
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open it's true and that you know it took
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me a while to get to the point where it
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calling my show from fear to fire
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because a lot of times people start out
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they're like oh I'm not afraid of
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anything
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and I realize they're not my people you
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know the people that are drawn to me are
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the people that are okay with being a
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little bit vulnerable being tracing who
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they are oh my gosh so true when I say
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on fearless what I mean is is that I'm
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gonna have the stomachache I'm going to
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feel like I'm gonna throw up but I'm
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gonna do it anyway what is that
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expression feel the fear and do it
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anyways I love that one it's true though
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I mean how many times have you
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approached a situation or or something
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that's happened and you know it's just
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making you nauseated you're nauseous
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because that's how I get no I mean I
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literally get nauseated but you know
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that you have to do it anyways how do
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you do that
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how do you make sure that you can do
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that okay well I practice on a daily
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basis and I've gotten so good at it like
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I jump out of airplanes and I do crazy
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things that's the adventure part of my
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bio but you know you know I want to let
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people know that they don't have to do
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that but you really do need to practice
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being uncomfortable so that you're ready
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when you need to be fearless you know
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there's there's there's that shift once
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you can become uncomfortable fearless is
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just a nanosecond behind it it really is
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it is my colleague of mine a Joey
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Garrity likes to say uncomfortable is
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the new comfortable yes that's true
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you're not feeling uncomfortable maybe
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you need to go do something mm-hmm and
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out of your comfort zone so was another
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tip we said three tips so what's number
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three well I think that focus and energy
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you know people downplay energy so I'm
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gonna focus on that one for a moment
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beak
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you know we need to own the energy that
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we bring into a situation we need to own
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the energy that we bring your presence
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that you bring to your interactions your
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relationships and you know people don't
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realize that they may be emitting an
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energy that's negative or complaining
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and they're actually repelling their
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their clients and opportunities and when
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you're aware of your energy and you
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bring out the love and the and the good
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positive energy and service you will
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attract you will magnetize opportunities
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to you so really be aware of how to use
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that consciously you know that's so
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interesting when an expression that I've
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used in the past is do you live in the
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red sea of scarcity or the blue ocean of
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abundance II and I think that kind of
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goes to what you're talking about right
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now is that when you approach things
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with scarcity and with this clear that
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literally paralyzes you you it does come
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out in the way you network it comes out
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in the way you communicate and we've all
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been there
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I've been there that you can recognize
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it on other people so much faster you
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don't realize that you're doing the
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exact same thing a really quick analogy
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I'll bring my hands up into the screen a
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lot of times people are clutching
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they're holding on to something that
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they don't want to lose they don't want
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to lose the you know maybe they're
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they're running a little short on money
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so they're holding on to the last bit or
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love or whatever it is and then you
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don't have any opportunity to bring more
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so when you release your attachment to
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it then then more can come in yeah it
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really is
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it totally is a game-changer so I like
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to ask my guests all the time why do you
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do this what did your why you know I see
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people every day that are unbelievably
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talented and beautiful and special and
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they don't know it and they're not
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taking actions to to cultivate it and to
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share it and when you share when you
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really look at and and and you know take
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a hold of and light that fire inside of
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what's perfect about you and then share
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it that's purpose that's your purpose
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right so my why is to help people who
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don't see it yet be able to find that
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confidence that energy that that purpose
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that they need to fulfill what they're
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supposed to do in the world you know and
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that's that's so um it's so important I
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hear people all the time say to me but I
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don't know what my purpose is I don't
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know I don't even know what I'm
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passionate about I don't know do you
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have any like a tip for that what's
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somebody what do you tell them I just
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did this I just had a summit and I was
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doing a power talk on it and I spoke
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just specifically to this so if you
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don't mind I'll share it here so I think
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that that's one of the biggest things is
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that people don't know and they're
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really getting freaked out by the people
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who do know cuz they're feeling this
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pressure but it's because there's so
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much noise everybody has something
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everyone has a gift and when you use
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that gift you can follow your purpose
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right but if you don't know it's because
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there's so much noise out there
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distractions you're going by other
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people's priorities instead of your own
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it's just too loud so when you can turn
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that down and then turn up the the knob
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the volume on your heart then you'll be
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able to feel it you'll be able to hear
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it and you have to do that because it's
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there and when you're doing when you
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cultivate that practice of doing that it
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will get louder and louder and then
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it'll get insistent and start nagging
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you at 3 o'clock in the morning until
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you do something about it I love that
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that last part in particular it's true
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you keep you up at night right as it
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really does it really does aura wakes
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you up in the morning and in my case
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let's talk about your podcast we've
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alluded to it let's talk about the
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podcast how long we've been doing this
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for oh gosh um about a year now and I
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just have the coolest people on this
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podcast you being one of them you did an
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amazing episode just so authentic and
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real I love it I highly recommend people
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check that out but I just have just
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really cool people that are drawn to
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share their story because it doesn't it
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doesn't actually have to be just experts
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to what I want bring
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you know it's anybody who has gone
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through a challenging time of fearful
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time and they learned a lesson that
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someone would be able to learn from and
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and be able to use in their world
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because we all have those things and
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there are heroes all around us so do you
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have favorites I don't know it's like
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saying who's your favorite child
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okay that's Karen or we'd say that do
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you have favorite topics that you like
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to talk about yeah I do I like to go
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deep so you know there's there's quite a
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few topics that are very
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business-related and that's awesome
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because I work with a lot of business
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people but I think that when the guest
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expert or whoever it is can go deep and
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look at that that thing that really
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scared the hell out of them that that
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was just devastating and they felt like
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they couldn't get up that's the part
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that's where the real emotion where the
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the listeners get so invested in them
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and they feel them and they connect to
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them and that's where the learning comes
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from I love it because they resonate
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right no not every guest is gonna it's
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gonna resonate with me but some guests
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are going to resonate with me because
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they're speaking to me even though
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they're not they're speaking to the to
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the whole world that that are is
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listening but they're speaking to me and
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that I think that happens with your
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listeners right your listeners would say
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ah I really like this one because it
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spoke to me and resonated within me
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because I'm that I experience that I
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love that you're doing this the podcast
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is called from fear to fire and for
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those of you who want to go what you do
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I'm telling you you do want to go check
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talking about this before there's
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there's different people named parts of
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um any last-minute thoughts anything
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that you'd like to share about this
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whole fire thing and and fueling our
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fire here don't be afraid of it you know
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once you you know you find that inner
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fire and you should start to share it
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with other people it just
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you can light up the world and you can
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make a real difference a real impact and
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you don't have to be afraid of that
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because it's always been within you all
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Long's great advice great advice I want
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to thank you Heather I know first of all
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you're not on the west coast so it's a
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totally different time for you I want to
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thank you for taking the time to join us
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on the show today so many important
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things that you shared with us guys
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don't forget to go check Heather out on
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anything check her out tell her that I
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sent you Heather have a great rest of
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the day I am going to do my super boomer
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moment we already told everybody what
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it's gonna be so I'm gonna drop you back
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down in the greenroom and then I'll
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bring you back up after the show
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thanks again Heather thank you all right
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isn't she amazing I just absolutely
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absolutely love her one of the things
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that I always do at the end of the show
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and I'm just bringing up here is I'd
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like to talk about my super boomer
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moment of the the show and so without
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further ado I'm just gonna talk about it
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embrace your crazy oh my god I love that
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embrace your crazy because we all have
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it we all we all have our craziness I
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like to say let's just I'm just being
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craziest I make posts about being crazy
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crazy is not a bad thing crazy is just
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when we're excited or were we're doing
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whatever we're doing don't look at crazy
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as a bad thing embrace that uniqueness
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that's in you that we also call crazy so
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that's my super boomer moment of the
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show we want to thank our guests for
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joining us because we know that you have
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a choice and we're thrilled that you
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decided to choose to join it with us we
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would love for you to follow us on
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instagram at karen Glasser you can
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as well at Karen Glasser you can also
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we just love that you joined us today
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because we know that you have a choice
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and you chose to spend it with Heather
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and myself today
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for that we are eternally grateful go
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out and give somebody an awesome day and
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we'll see you next week on the next
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episode of the super boomer lifestyle
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see you next week everyone bye bye