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how they are maneuvering through a world
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that worships youth and shames the
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beautiful process of aging today we are
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welcoming vegan chef and fitness
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enthusiast chef Babette to the show and
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the topic today is three ways to love
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your life right now if you're here live
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we're delighted you're here light let us
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know that you're here live if you're
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here on replay just as good let us know
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that you're here replay and of course as
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I say every single week share share
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share share we would love to have
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everyone out there the more the merrier
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our guests today I've been looking
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forward to the show for quite a while
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this woman is is amazing her name is
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chef Babette and at the age forty she
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changed her diet and cleared up her
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health issues now at 69 years young she
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can still do a four-minute plank with
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ease oh my god really I can't even do
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ten seconds she owns the popular vegan
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restaurant in the heart of Inglewood
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California called stuff I eat and so
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without further ado I bring in my good
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friend as of now chef bad bad and here
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she is chefs welcome to the show I am
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new that you're here so Before we jump
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into the show we're gonna we're gonna do
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a definition I always like to do a
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definition of a super boomer and what
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are they so in my definition I say the
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super boomer is not defined by their age
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they are defined by how they show up in
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life they're fearless with just a watch
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me attitude so I ask you
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chef Babette how do you describe a super
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boomer well hi everybody
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I was super boomer it's a person
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continues to reinvent themselves and
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live their best life no matter what age
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you are I love that definition and you
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truly are a walking illustration of that
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so in just tuning in right now we are
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talking about ways to love your life
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we have chef that that on and we're
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going to go ahead and jump into the
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topic right now so how can we love our
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life right now well right here right now
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is where we are and this is what we've
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got and we've only got moments
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guaranteed to us so it's in my opinion
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that rather than blow my moments being
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depressed uptight about what's gonna
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happen a year from now right or six
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months from now or as president Trump
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says by Easter I'm just gonna take it
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second by second cuz that's what I have
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warranty to me and I don't want those
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those moments squandered so I you know a
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girl you stay in the moment and you and
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release the pettiness and stop worrying
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about what happened two weeks ago and
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what may happen two weeks from now and
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stay right here right now and take
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control over your thoughts yes I want to
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be you I don't want you I know I have a
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tremendous amount of energy and it's not
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even that you're just infectious the way
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you you should you show up and I know
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that our viewers whether they're here
3:29
live or on replay or at some other time
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down the line they're gonna be saying
3:34
the same thing the first thing you're
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gonna say is how the heck do you do a
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I pointed with one minute and every
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single that's how I started doing situps
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oh no no push-ups pushup I started with
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I would add a push-up and so of course
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you know I've been up to 60 before I at
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one point I thought I'd do enough
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at what age I am but they had to be
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quite a bit of push-ups I tell you I
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chair you might challenge me and and
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it's so far off because I promise you I
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will be 70 December 7
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2020 and and I decided before they shut
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my gym down I said you know what I'm
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gonna do I am going to get myself in the
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best shape ever and by December 2020 I
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am going to look better physically then
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I looked all of 2019 and and I'm going
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to compete I think I'm going to compete
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I think that's what I'm going for
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I know watching can I invite you to come
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I would love to correct a so that you
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catch us up at where you're at and if
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you were in fact competing we can let
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you know so that they can actually go
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yes and watch you right that's what I'm
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talking about when I talk about
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reinventing yourself and and and you
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know don't don't hold back on yourself
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age is just a number it's an attitude it
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doesn't you know I don't know about you
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I mean you just told us you're gonna be
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70 I tell people halfway through the
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year I'm already the next age group
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because you're so excited about getting
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there right oh my gosh what's the
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yes alternative so we're gonna do this
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why are you doing this why do you arrest
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Iran why are you a fitness enthusiast
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why are you out there telling your story
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you know Wow like my life has been so I
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would like to say rich even after all of
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the things that I've been through I've
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been abused I've been molested I've been
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on drugs I I've lived a complete full
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life and so now I'm at that point in my
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life where I have an opportunity to heal
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to share and to so I'm on top of the
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I mean what's better than serving up
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plant-based food you don't have to kill
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anything to to serve it you just make
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good tasting food and you make people
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happy when they're eating it I just you
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might turn me you might turn man
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Hey so you have a cookbook out and you
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have a restaurant for let's first talk
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about the restaurant and I love the name
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of it it's called stuff ie
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what happened isn't it cute it is where
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did it come from why did you call it
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stuff I eat because it's the stuff I eat
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and believe it or not I was doing some
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catering I was in a play and I catered
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for the group of people in the play and
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I thought I'm gonna start a catering
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company and and they were like yeah you
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should come with the name and like I'm
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just serving this stuff I mean somebody
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said that she beat the name and so it
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you just just hung around and I've got a
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little jingle let me sing the Lu jingle
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horn this stuff I eat stuff I eat if you
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don't want me try the stuff I eat 114
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North Market Street in Inglewood
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California oh my god I love that I love
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it and you're open you're doing you're
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doing takeout right now we're doing
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takeout only now business is not what it
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was but we're staying open we're staying
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open for our employees we're staying
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open just for the community just a habit
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there because there are not a lot of
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vegan restaurants in our area yeah yeah
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so um you know we'll get through it
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we're just favoring it out day at a time
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I go in super early sanitize everything
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once I get in there prep the food and
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then I jet out of there I quit right
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right is the stat the rest of the staff
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is coming in and you mentioned that you
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were doing deliveries in yes so we just
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filled out the applications and my
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husband spoke with some of the companies
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and yeah we're gonna start the delivery
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so you know I'm gonna say this because I
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don't you know I I don't like it
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actually when people say to me you don't
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look 69 let's just let's just go there
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for a second you look phenomenal
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thank you I don't think it just happens
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by accident I mean you know you're
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working at it and I just and I just
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would like to say back at you you look
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phenomenal too and I I just you know I
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feel like I don't look like I looked
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when I was 20 I don't look like I looked
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when I was 40 I don't look exactly like
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I looked when I was 50 but I'm enjoying
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the process it's not about it's not so
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much about the aesthetic and ethics it's
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about how I feel it's about my quality
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of life now if I happen to look great
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to the average eye that's wonderful I
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don't even have a primary care physician
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I feel amazing and I am into life's
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quality not so much longevity because
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I've done if I don't want to live ever
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and be flat on my back and can't move I
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enjoy a good quality of life
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and and that's what's important to me so
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when you say you know look or you look
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good to be and it's like yeah it's
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absolutely not to be 69 you just look
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fabulous then you go it doesn't it
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doesn't have to be 69 I'm just I'm happy
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where I am and that's I think that's
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what comes across more than anything
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I am just grateful and happy where I am
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I know more now I've been through so
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much in this journey I know more now
10:09
then I don't know it's just it's Harriet
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love it don't you like and I but in case
10:22
you're wondering we did not call each
10:24
other to say what are you wearing today
10:26
for the same exact color so a lot of the
10:29
lines that you were just saying if you
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could go back to 20 would you no no I
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would not I would not go back to 40 no
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no things that I know now and ever all
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so much that I've learned even when it
10:48
comes to meeting people that I've been
10:49
married four times this is my fourth
10:52
husband already reason I was married the
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three other times is to be because I
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didn't know to take my time
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and to pay attention to the signs
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because people tell you who they are and
11:06
they tell you who they they are very
11:08
quickly alia they believe them it's true
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yeah it's so true so no not too many so
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physically now then I was when I was 20
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you know and whenever I asked that
11:25
question I always think in my head what
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I wouldn't go back either unless I had
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all the knowledge that I have right and
11:32
everything that I have going on right
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now I might but I don't think I'd
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actually go to but who wants to go back
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go forward and I yes so I mentioned that
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you have a book and I'm gonna go ahead
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and put the book in rain it's the right
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way I want to do this book is called
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cash in on cashews oh my gosh I love
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that I'm gonna be ready to put the link
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in the comments for those of you who are
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thinking you know I need to go get that
12:03
I need actually money they can just give
12:05
it on Amazon well that's a link I put in
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great yeah that's that cameras on link
12:10
go ahead and click on it you can or you
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know Google the in Amazon the words cash
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in on cashews I'll I personally love
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cashews I always have a big bunch of
12:20
why are cashews so great for us okay so
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well cashews is a great nut it's a it's
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a it's a good nut now now I have two
12:29
completely forgotten exactly what the
12:32
cashew nut besides protein but there's
12:35
something else really really great about
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the international but let me just tell
12:39
you why I decided to do this book I
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learned about soaking cashews especially
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when I started making a lot of raw or
12:49
live recipes use the cashew nut a lot
12:53
for sauces and that sort of thing and
12:56
brynn I just realized how unbelievably
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versatile the cashew nut is I mean I
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would soak it and whatever flavor
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I needed that nut to take on it would so
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I started making desserts with it and oh
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have a massive sweet tooth my mother fed
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us so much sugar she put sugar and
13:20
everything when she cooked it and I was
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just completely and totally addicted so
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we decided we chose agave nectar in the
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restaurant it's worked for us and we're
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in an area where there's a lot of
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diabetes and that sort of thing you turn
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up to spike your blood sugar and all
13:35
that kind of stuff so you know the
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cashew B the agave nectar worked for us
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I started making these icebox desserts
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and they went from parfaits to pies -
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Wow techniques - I can make almost
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anything cashew nut yeah
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thirds are phenomenal so I wanted to
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share because look big chef Babette is
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the title but I'm self trained mm-hmm we
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just did it in the kitchen and we had a
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menu that we thought people would love
14:10
especially if they were trying to
14:12
transition and so I decided I was going
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to make these icebox desserts and I was
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going to share with everybody because it
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was so easy to do and that's how caching
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okay cashews came about if somebody goes
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to your restaurant can can they get
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these desserts yeah and now I what I
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normally do is I still use the cashew
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nut a lot I have to have them but say
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for instance I'm gonna make a regular
14:38
baked cake I will take the cashew nut
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and make whatever icing I need for the
14:45
cake whatever nut butter yam it could
14:50
just be something I'm hungry you're
14:53
making so again the book is called cash
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in on cashews by Chef Babette
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go check it out there's a link there or
15:06
go onto Amazon alone and go check that
15:09
out do the tip chair with boomers
15:13
available a tip that you want to share
15:16
with our boomers about moving and and
15:20
you know I think that's the one thing
15:23
that always frightens me I watched my
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my mom um the classic standard American
15:32
diet for the most part and did worked a
15:37
lot but after a while she stopped moving
15:39
huh and I noticed that it just got rough
15:43
for her she wound up with having to get
15:45
both of her knees replaced whenever we
15:48
went to the supermarket she was she
15:50
always had to have the shopping cart
15:51
because that was her Walker yeah she
15:54
just didn't it just didn't work out well
15:57
for her movie and then I would watch the
16:02
TV ads for Life Alert you fall in the
16:05
shower you fall at the park
16:07
there's nobody and so I had a
16:13
conversation with myself that um
16:16
whatever you do unless there's some type
16:20
of injury now I'm not I'm not making fun
16:22
of anybody or speaking to those people
16:24
that have had injuries and and this is a
16:26
results I'm just talking about us when
16:29
we stop mm-hmm sit all day at work then
16:32
we drive home and then we get home and
16:35
we throw something in the microwave oven
16:37
and we sit down in front of the TV and
16:40
we just never move right and I just
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decided no if I get down I want to be
16:47
able to get back up without a life alert
16:50
and so for me I always advocate movement
16:56
you don't have to get out say for
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instance you're 45 years old fifty years
17:00
on you just haven't been doing very much
17:02
of anything don't get out there and
17:04
start trying to run on pavement this is
17:07
what you're saying this all the time
17:12
it's totally unnecessary a walk get some
17:17
fresh air I don't I don't run on cement
17:20
anymore if I'm gonna do any running it's
17:23
gonna be at a walkers pace in a running
17:26
mode and I've had her to run some heels
17:30
so that I have to dig deep and breathe
17:32
that's important to we shallow breathe
17:35
most of the time so we make one
17:37
breathing well so I'm like running dirt
17:42
and like I said I stay you know at a
17:43
walkers face a running mode and I see
17:46
people right now on cement I will not
17:49
run on submit I will not run on cement
17:52
it's just it just wrecks my knees money
17:56
no I don't want to feel bad after
17:57
workout I want to feel good so in this
18:00
today what's going on with everything
18:02
that's going on I would actually
18:04
encourage people we're all obviously in
18:06
our homes and but you can still go out
18:08
onto a hiking trail and in a park as
18:10
long as you keep your distance and walk
18:12
even it's so important that the tree and
18:17
breathe for sure sunshine we don't give
18:20
enough sunshine you know we're so cooped
18:23
up all the time but but even through
18:26
this whole thing I get up at like I'm up
18:29
like around 2 to 22 and 2:30 and at 3
18:34
o'clock I know it's my hour to work out
18:37
yeah and so I do my workout for an hour
18:41
right here in the house now I may step
18:43
out to jump rope but other than that I
18:47
get it in and I got it in so hard
18:49
yesterday I'm sore actually today I got
18:52
a really good workout in
18:53
but I'm just saying come on y'all get up
18:57
your if you're if your might we're not
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old we're not old no we're not on not we
19:04
are definitely not old what's your
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superpower I'm fearless that's my
19:07
superpower I'm fearless
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pictures oh mine together fearless - I'm
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really fearless I just like there are
19:21
things that I want to do they they they
19:23
call it a bucket list that the kind of
19:26
things that I want to do I want to
19:27
skydive I want a mountain climb be able
19:32
to bungee jump oh my daughter did that
19:34
she absolutely loved it know what that's
19:37
like you know so yeah fearless and and
19:42
to just step ahead and do it go for it I
19:45
would I totally agree if as you guys are
19:48
listening in in your
19:50
how can you follow chef Babette you can
19:53
go over to Instagram and follow her at
19:55
shift that you can also go to Facebook
19:59
and you can follow her there at
20:01
facebook.com forward slash Babette Davis
20:04
official and of course you can follow
20:07
her on youtube she's got some great
20:09
YouTube videos out there and just search
20:11
in the youtube search for chef Babette
20:13
official and as I said our our pic of
20:17
the day is this book and you can go pick
20:20
it up this is this is my personal pick
20:22
of the day I hope that you will go get a
20:24
copy of it and then let the chef know
20:27
what you think let her know what you
20:29
think will follow her and then send her
20:31
a message because I know that she wants
20:33
to hear from you I would love to you
20:36
yeah well thank you you're awesome
20:39
you're totally awesome do many
20:42
last-minute thoughts that you like to
20:43
share we're at the end I can't believe
20:45
we're already twinning them went by so
20:48
yeah yeah I think maybe we're just we're
20:50
running running running so my thought is
20:53
for us to to love each other I think
20:58
more than anything on the planet today
21:01
we're lacking enough love I think we get
21:05
caught up on some really unimportant
21:07
crap like I think it's time for us to
21:11
get over the color of skin I mean like
21:16
we should be done with that we are one
21:23
in this yes yeah yeah all the same that
21:28
you know since that created you created
21:31
me and it made no mistakes and right now
21:35
I just want to embrace love and honesty
21:40
yeah thank you for that I I think that
21:44
those are great but it's a great message
21:45
for our viewers whether you're here live
21:48
you're on replay take these words to
21:49
heart yeah this this is we are in a very
21:53
interesting time and if we take these
21:55
kind of thoughts and internalize them
21:58
and make them heaven I think we're gonna
22:00
be in a better place yeah I want to you
22:02
what we're going through color isn't
22:04
that important is it is it is not
22:08
we are only people words that are on
22:10
this planet I want to thank you I want
22:12
to throw for coming on and joining us
22:15
today I want to encourage people to go
22:17
out and visit the restaurant go do some
22:20
takeout if you're in the neighborhood
22:21
when delivery is going but follow follow
22:24
follow here okay paul karen thank you
22:28
thank you i see yourself - thank you
22:32
and same right back at you i am going to
22:34
drop you into the green room as i finish
22:38
alright here leave okeydoke all right so
22:45
this is the time that we talk about the
22:47
super boomer moment something that my
22:50
guest says that really strikes home and
22:52
the thing today that i want to focus on
22:55
is the idea of just move just move you
23:00
can go out don't you know don't go out
23:02
in the pavement go hike go take a walk
23:04
just do something move at any age
23:07
because the more that we move the
23:08
healthier we are going to be thank you
23:11
for sharing that with us today
23:12
that is my super book more a moment of
23:14
the day I want to I want to thank
23:17
everyone I know that you have a choice
23:18
as to how you spend your time I want to
23:20
thank you for spending time with us
23:22
today I am eternally grateful go out and
23:25
give somebody an awesome day and we'll
23:27
see you next week on the next episode of
23:29
the super boomer lifestyle show goodbye