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hello everyone Karen glass here here and
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welcome to the little white lie we're so
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glad that you're here if you're on
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replay if you're just watching this
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later on in the show I'm glad you're
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here too so I would like you to make
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sure you make a comment down there so
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that I I know that you here ask a
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question I just I love that we have so
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many people to come on and join in the
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show whether live or not to like well
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we're all like roll so in I'm really
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excited today because today we're going
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to get why not why not have a guest on
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our little white lies and our guest
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today is Alexandra Levin she's the
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co-founder of the back 40 now the back
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40 philosophy is radical they basically
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the premises the best is yet to come and
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they won't it be fine and I happen to
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love I love the song and I love the
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statement and basically it says that
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whatever will come before us has no
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bearing whatsoever on what's about to
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come in the next step the next face of
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our life it's a radical renewing of the
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mind into belief and action to play big
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the back 40 supports midlife errs that
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would be me to cause the second half of
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life as an inspiring radical and
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purposeful best path but the best is yet
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to come babe and won't it be fine I'd
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like to bring in our guest Alexandra 11
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how are you Alexandra oh joy to be
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honest well I'm really happy that you're
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here with us you know we've been doing a
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lot of work together and it dawned on me
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I keep talking well here's here's my
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transparent moment I keep talking about
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my little white lie and it it's not so
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little at the moment and you know it's
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all about it's not just about your hair
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right it's not just a little white lie
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it's how you choose to show up and you
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just did a blog post called i'm in love
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with my wrinkles and I thought oh my
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gosh this is a perfect perfect time to
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invite you Alexandra to be on this
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facebook life and basically say why why
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are you in love with your wrinkles
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what's that all about
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accident I've been talking about being a
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hundred bicycles and by then I heard in
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years ago that's going on today and my
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and anything that I said over but wont
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to pay to getting here but just I knows
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her in circles but I am never got my
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reasons consumer and I know my favorite
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bagel you so handy Nero was planning to
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go to enter a little treasure was before
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in his room and what is happening
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because i put it up and may include a
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tremendous need to suffer in half
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remember to go out about myself i didn't
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suppose virginia how these mystical
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already location the farthest thank ya
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fer do not okay i didn't want her to say
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that game in rain / / / to attend gia so
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31 praying oh ok prepared in him run a
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chance with children she makes I was
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dead then she chose to go and she has no
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concern of life she is the Janice km her
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two children aged Europe and I can't win
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system trust to work and to work a
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little too literal of sugar and pinnacle
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it is wonderfully inches budget or I'm
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cradle frame I love that I really love
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that I i think that when we can just
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show up in who we are how we are no
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matter whether it's a wrinkle whether
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it's our little white lie whether it's
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you know whether we wear five-inch heels
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or we wear clothes that we're being told
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by the media that you're not supposed to
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work something out over a certain age I
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mean really what's that all about and
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and I want to bring up Clairol I mean
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claro still around is the hair products
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but back in the day clairol would
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confine you to wearing subdued colors
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and dress like your age what's that
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about do you think that's changed or has
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it not changed vision of any beverages
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LT still is good for the rest of the
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world I don't become any dresses because
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of this expression but animal Khalifa
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children and so I mean what do you think
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about societal norms you know what used
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to be normal is not normal anymore well
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look at our world right now nothing is
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normal do you think women are giving
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themselves permission to show up a
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little bit differently right now hurry
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each other social cop and the labor and
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we are so collision and each other and
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our energies are full yeah i would i
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would agree we're having a little bit of
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connectivity issues with your camera
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right now so hopefully we're going to be
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able to get through the rest of this i
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have a question to ask you what's the
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one thing that you would like your
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network people that you know our family
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members what would you like them to know
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about aging and beauty what message can
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you give them because you learn each i
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can come two paces Oh
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being in love with his toast and being a
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publisher stuff that looking for an oil
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is our drug never seeing all the
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different that's a great message I mean
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that really is a great message be
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yourself step into your who you are try
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making put blinders on as to look for
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staying out there I mean we've been
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talking for weeks now that that this
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whole how do we show up in the world is
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changing we have the young people who
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are drying their hair white and silver
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and gray because they want to look like
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I guess me I don't i'm not sure i'm not
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sure i don't know why and and we've got
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you know women of my age you know 60 and
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over who who are saying i want to have
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white it's not that I want to have white
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hair but I want to be exactly who I am
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so I'm taking some real positive things
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out of what's going on right now is that
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we are we are giving ourselves
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permission nobody else has to give us
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permission we are giving ourselves
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permission to show up in a way that
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makes us feel like we're not faking it
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for a lack of a better word I mean how
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do you breathe holy in common people
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think and in her confirmation I'm going
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to her mission on purpose pishella
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absentee okay yes exactly you know we
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want to thank everyone that comes on to
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these every week we do that they're very
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short and here's your call to action how
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are you showing up differently how are
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you our viewers how are you showing up
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differently in life are you giving
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yourself permission to show up the way
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you want to show up not the way you
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think you're supposed to show up post it
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in the comment or go check out the
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little white lies and I'm putting up the
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links up here the little white lie you
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can see our blog post you can see these
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facebook lives and I want you to go
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check out the back forty calm forward
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slash top dash ten dash hips and get the
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top ten tips from the back forty what
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are they going to get me top ten tips
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got popsicles am half bad radical
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getting hired all in favor say on i
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can't sleep i want to live a radical
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second half you ear off at Alexander
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thank you for taking a few moments out
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of I know your foreign early busy
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schedule he's getting ready for the
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women's conference later on this year I
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want to thank you for being with us
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today I want to stake our viewers
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because you have a choice I know you
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have a choice as to where you spend your
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time thank you for spending it with us
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and we'll see you next time on the next
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little white lie goodbye everyone
