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Are you letting age get in the way of making your dreams come true?
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Aug 23, 2017
On this #LittleWhiteLie Caren talks with Reinvention Power Leadership Coach Veronica Crystal Young and asks the question "Are you letting age get in the way of making your dreams come true?" Watch more shows here: http://www.TheLittleWhiteLie.com I invite you to set up time with me by filling out the form below: http://www.ConnectWithCaren.com My Direct Links, Programs & Equipment I use for my Shows & Promotion: BeLive: http://bit.ly/3p7E0DB Get Your Book In Front Of Thousands of Potential Buyers! https://bit.ly/2HJ38Qu Logitech HD Pro Webcam: https://amzn.to/362BuXP Wired Earbuds with Microphone: http://amzn.to/3p1pmOi Lavalier Lapel Microphone: http://amzn.to/3p9EFVo Blue Yeti USB Mic: https://amzn.to/395hExi ATR2100-USB Cardioid Dynamic Microphone: http://amzn.to/3qzEy5A LED Video Light Kit: http://amzn.to/360Qg1w Neewer Ring Light Kit: http://amzn.to/392bON2 (Some links on this video page may be affiliate links that can result in small commissions & help support the channel, they DO NOT cause you to pay any extra money for an item)
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welcome to the little white lie digital
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network with Karen Glasser the little
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white lie is all about the lies we tell
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ourselves about getting older and how to
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love the age you're in
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hello everyone karen Glasser here and
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we're going to ask is are you letting
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age get in the way of making your dreams
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come true
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great question and who better to ask
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answer this question is our special
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guest today her name is Veronica crystal
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young she is a reinvention powered
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leadership coach and a member of this
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prestigious international coach
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Federation
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she is also a professional actor how
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cool is that she's a member of sag and
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AFTRA and a professional singer which is
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how we kind of
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really connected because I sing as well
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with the country music duo Christo
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whisky how cool is that performing in
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the Southern California area and I know
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that she has a special gift for all of
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us today that's along those lines
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Veronica specials specializes in
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teaching successful professional women
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to gain clarity on their life path and
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in fact her motto is don't let age or
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past trauma abuse or define you and so
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without further ado let's go ahead and
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bring Veronica in hello Veronica how are
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you today hi how are you Karen I am
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doing so awesome it ought to be a sin
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hi I'm not a habit I'm really excited
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that you're here because we really
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relate on so many different levels but
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Before we jump into the question I have
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a question for you Oh Veronica what is
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your little white lie oh gosh I have so
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many but as it relates to this show and
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singing I would say that I I did not I
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did not feel I was good enough and I
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thought I was too old to start singing
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again because I last time I had sung was
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ten years ago in a musical I did a lot
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of musicals growing up and I was hidden
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in several big bands and I stopped it
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like ten years ago and I thought oh my
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gosh
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I'm I'm too old and I'm like where did
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that come from
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I think it's it's all these shows like
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The Voice and you know an American Idol
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and they're all so young and and I I
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bought into that whole stigma of you
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know well you're too old you you you
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who's gonna want to see you who's gonna
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want to see you perform so I was like oh
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my god so actually I just I just bit the
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bullet and I met a wonderful man five
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years ago and we had something in common
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- that that commonality of loving music
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and singing he plays guitar and after a
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year of going to open mikes we started
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our band and we've been singing ever
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sense and it's incredibly fun I think
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that is awesome I think that is awesome
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so okay so we're going to be talking
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about not a living age get in the way of
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making our dreams come true so I have a
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question for you let's talk about agent
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and dreams what do you believe I mean
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what do you believe about how they
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connect agent dreams you know I I
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personally feel my dreams are there
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they're the same but a little different
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than they were twenty thirty years ago
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obviously we all evolve we all have
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dreams when we graduate from high school
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when we graduate from college when we
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dread when we after a divorce or you
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know crying each age we want to read we
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want to reinvent ourselves we want to we
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want to try something new I've always
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loved being a singer it always was a
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connector for me I loved the fact that I
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could influence feelings and other
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people by singing it get brought up
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emotions and I love that um I think that
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is so powerful and and to be able to
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share my feelings with them so that part
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of my dream hasn't changed but my dream
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of being a superstar I get that and I
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don't know it's a matter of being
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realistic or is it a matter of just our
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dreams change or we want different
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things what do you think tuppenny I
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think it's it's a it's a combination of
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both I think I know for me when I was
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growing up mom I god I want to be the
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next you know you know a huge superstar
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you know Christina Aguilera or whatever
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and and right now I don't have that
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passion my passion right now is
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different it's coaching it's it's
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performing it's performing to smaller
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crowds and and you know success is
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really a frame of mind and it's it's
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what successful for you I mean there are
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some bands and some people that sing
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that singing every every weekend in a
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coffeehouse fills their soul I
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understand I know and who's to say that
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that is not so wonderful for them that's
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not a failure to me that
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success because it's a success for them
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so I think that's when it comes to our
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dreams we always define what our dreams
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are and if you want to go big go big and
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if you don't want to go big
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don't go big right the choice is up to
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us quite frankly so any tips on how do
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we go about that how do we dream then
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how do we dream small how do we dream
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big I think it's it's you set your goal
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and then you figure out the steps to
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that goal that's that simple and you
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know what the biggest thing is decide
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yes
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decide you know what so as we're talking
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about just the side the right side
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because the reality is you can say oh I
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want to do this I want to do that I want
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to be oh I want to you know what just
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decide to take the steps to do it and
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then and that's that's you hear a lot of
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people where all I want to do this and I
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want to do that well what are you doing
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about it right I have a question how do
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we get past those societal influences on
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age so okay let's just say now we've
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decided right and we're going to do it
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now what do we do because there's a lot
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of societal you know things going on out
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there what do we do about that you know
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I think it's a matter of knowing who we
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are and being comfortable in our skin
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and knowing that we're fabulous we are
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you have to have the confidence in
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yourself you have to have going forward
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it's like I I can do this and doing the
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little steps to do that and move forward
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and move out of that uncertainty just go
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for it
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and you know what I know everybody knows
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this you you the more you do it and the
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more you fail the closer you are to the
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totem you are through your goals you
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know what I love that and there's a
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quote that I that I use all the time and
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it comes from a friend of mine Andrea
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wall she wrote a book called gopher no
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and she talks about failing your way to
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success yes you know and I always think
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about that because look
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failures we've all had failures and if
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we can look at it as a way to fail our
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way to success so listen I have a
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question so how do we make conscious
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choices today for who we want to be now
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conscious choices yeah that is my thing
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what a surprise I don't know hello under
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what conscious choices means you have
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you have gone in into yours into your
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soul you searched your soul about what
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is the reality for you what is important
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to you what is going to be important to
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you and why a lot of times when we
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figure out what's important to us and we
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go you ever heard of the seven wise oh
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no I thought 7-eleven wives no no no no
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that's a totally differently different
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thing okay but but the seven wise are
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about every time you have a choice about
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something and how you feel about
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something ask yourself why and then ask
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yourself why again and then ask yourself
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why again and why again and you get down
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to the core of what your what your
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choice is all about and it usually it
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usually shows you why you're doing
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something and you can really really make
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a conscious choice yes that's really
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what I believe that's really what I feel
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that's really what I believe and I'm
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going for it oh my gosh I love it so
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Christine just wrote does anyone feel
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that conscious choices get a little more
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difficult as we age great question what
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do you guys think down there and then
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post your comments whether you're here
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live or on replay what do you think as
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we get older it gets harder you know I
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think I can answer that at least for me
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as I got older my conscious choices
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became easier because I realized that my
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choices
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define who I am and if I really know who
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I am I can make those conscious choices
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and move into that direction I
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yeah I you know what I think I'm just
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like you that way you know I'm sixty and
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as I've gotten older the the decisions
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are actually easier because because I
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think I have shed all that past up above
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the shoulda woulda couldas is supposed
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to sand too you know the why did why
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didn't you and I've said that and I
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think that maybe it is age and what
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you're saying obviously is very true
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mm-hmm any other thoughts about this
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topic before we share with everyone how
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they can get in touch with you um I I
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just want to leave everybody with you
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know do what feeds your soul do what
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what lights you up it's it's it's who
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you really are it's it's the core of
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your being and don't be afraid to shine
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don't be afraid to share it we're never
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too old to show who you know I have a
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comment about clothes I thought I saw a
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show the other day about about you know
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what to wear over 50 oh I'm looking at
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this show and I'm going really I don't
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know about you but I show up at forever
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21 still because I love their clothes
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Veronica why do you think this whole
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this whole movement started because of
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that we got kind of sick and tired about
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being told what we can and can't do so
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right young money so you know what
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Veronica we mentioned and we'd mentioned
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a couple of times that you're a singer
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and then you're in that you have this
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you have this amazing band you just did
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a wedding this weekend I know and you
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sent me and I'm gonna put this link in
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the chat right now you set me a special
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gift for all of our listeners and our
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viewers that they can click on it and
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listen to you actually sing this song
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what song are you singing in there you
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know well you know it's it's it's um
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it's a remake of a Dolly Parton song and
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actually Whitney Houston did it to I
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will always love you but
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change the words a little bit okay I
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will always love me and I'll give you a
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little explosion and and because I was
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at a great retreat several years ago
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called wine women and boots and it was a
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bunch of entrepreneurial women were
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getting together about you know
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networking and all that wonderful stuff
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and I got up and I sang and I hadn't
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sung as I said for ten years I want to
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sing I'm feeling something and I got up
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and I say I changed the words to that
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song because it was all about
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empowerment and for ourselves and
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getting rid of the Fred in our head you
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know gremlin that's always you know on
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our shoulder which you know I named him
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Fred in my head he's got a name and he I
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don't like him and I got up and I sang
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and this song is sung to him about I
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don't need you
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I love me so I know it's kind of corny
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but it was really fun doing it and the
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PERT one of the people that were was
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running the the retreat she said oh my
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god I want a recording of that so I did
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it for her and I sent it to her and it's
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only one verse but it's really kind of
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fun and corny and you know hope people
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like it I'm sure they will so guys so
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take a look in the thread I actually put
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the link it's a little bit Lee that's
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the short link and it f it's bit dot Lee
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forward slash crystal eyes with capitals
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on each word so go check it out go it's
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absolutely a gift from the beautiful
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Veronica Thank You Veronica now if
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you're wondering how you can get in
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touch with Veronica I let me put some
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links up on the screen you can go check
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her out at crystal eyes coaching calm or
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if you want to learn more about the
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entertainment that she's doing crystal
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eyes entertainment calm how cool is that
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go check her out on Facebook at crystal
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eyes LLC and I know that Veronica you're
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gonna actually put one more link a link
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to your group because you have a group
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on Facebook so after the show you're
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gonna go in there and you're gonna put
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it in there and people will click on it
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and go join you I will and it's called
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women of power and purpose women of
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power and purpose objection your dream
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yeah I think
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I'm in the group I think it's an awesome
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group you know there's so much value of
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having a sisterhood and being able to
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connect with other people of like
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sensibilities I want to thank you for
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Annika this I know this is was a little
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nerve-racking for you the first time
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you've done something like this you are
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awesome congratulations you did great
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I was so fun yeah I really don't I know
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that you took time out of your busy day
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and guys out there we know that you're
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taking time out of your busy day and you
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actually made a choice to click that
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button and join us today and for that we
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are eternally grateful so go out and
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give somebody an awesome day yeah can I
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say one thing
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absolutely lots of things I want to sign
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out by saying you're wise beautiful and
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passionate and youth is in your passions
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no one did it oh my gosh that is
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certainly marching orders guys so going
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to get it join us look on the next
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episode of the little white lie good bye
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everyone bye
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