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How do we show up in the world when the media plays on your fears?
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Apr 19, 2017
Hello everyone! Caren Glasser here and Welcome to The Little White Lie Movement. On these weekly FB lives I invite my guests to share their stories, expertise, tools and tips on how we all can embrace our authentic self, talents, and gifts and say YES to embracing our Little White Lie! Let’s connect at http://www.TheLittleWhiteLie.com Today we ask the question: How do you decide how you're going to show up in the world when the media plays on your fears? Joining me today is Joie Gharrity. She is the founder of http://www.113Branding.com and is a Brand Strategist, Marketer, Author and Speaker. She worked in the Hollywood entertainment industry for 15+ years at top companies, such as Centropolis Entertainment and ABC Studios. She was hand-picked by the ABC Studio President to launch the first multi-media startup business for The Walt Disney Company. Upon returning to the Bay Area Joie was inspired to launched 113 Branding. She integrates her strategic branding and marketing vision with both the creative and business sides of the entertainment industry. Her techniques and strategies help entrepreneurs globally become more Visible and Influential. Some of the things we talk about: 1. One of the big topics online and off is how you're going to show up in the world when the media plays on your fears? 2. You and I have had many conversations about this. What do you believe? And you can do this too. So…. What do you think? How do you decide how you're going to show up in the world when the media plays on your fears? Post in the comments. With the Hashtag #LittleWhiteLie My Direct Links, Programs & Equipment I use for my Shows & Promotion:
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hello everyone Karen glass your hair and
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ado I'm really really excited excited we
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introduce my guest today her name is
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Joey Garrity she's the founder of one
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per 100 branding and she's a brand
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status strategist marketer and author
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and speaker today we're going to be
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answering the question how are you going
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to show up in the world when the media
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is he playing on your food now if you're
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here on replay we're thrilled and
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delighted make sure you comment directly
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below there because we're going to
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respond we're going to make sure that
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your your love just because we do love
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you and we're thrilled that you're
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joining us even after the fact if you're
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here on the show live answer the
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question we want to hear what you think
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how are you going to show up in the
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world when the media plays on your fears
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so Joey has been identified the HIV
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studios president to launch the first
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multimedia start a business for the walt
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disney company she has worked in the
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entertainment industry for 15 plus years
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and then when she decided to leave she
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started her company 113 branding we are
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so delighted to have her on with us
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because she knows stuff she's really
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know stuff and so without further ado
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Joey welcome to the show thank you Karen
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thank you for having me this is a great
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topic by the way
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such a great topic and we were having
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some technical difficulties so I was a
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little distracted as I was getting ready
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to go live and that's why I put you one
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behind the same so that you can get
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comfortable back there while I was
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talking to the crowd so we're really
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delighted that you're here we're gonna
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be talking about this really really
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important question about the media so
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let's just jump right in what do you
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think um well I feel that there is some
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medium at media out there that's just
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not keeping up with the times and I
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posted not so long ago I you know I used
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to get like dozens and dozens of
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magazines still delivered even though I
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do like the virtual and I saw some of
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the covers and I was going through it
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and I was just like I'm so deleting
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these magazines i got like i am
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subscribed right away because they had
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these very very I mean I just feel like
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the girls are just getting younger it's
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just crazy even from when we were
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growing up right but they were so young
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playing dress up and I was like they're
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so out of touch of what's going on out
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there right now and yet and yet they're
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still in essence just pushing it out
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there and I was it was really it really
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took me back and I really took a hard
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look at the media and where that where
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that was going right now so are we
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supposed to be paying attention to the
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media yes I don't I don't know how we
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couldn't I mean it's just everywhere you
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know as I was just talking something
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this morning about last time in LA and
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how there's just billboards everywhere
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especially up and down Sunset Boulevard
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right and it's just they're just endless
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billboards and I was and I was telling
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them about how you know how not living
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there how much how I kind of forgot
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about it a little bit about the
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billboards but yet every billboard had
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like a TV then there was like a perfume
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ad and this meant so it really can
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redefine for me how media is really good
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dramas I mean last time I was I mean I'm
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traveling a lot for business right now
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and I sounds at the airport you know
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they just have monitors everywhere now I
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mean just you can't sit anywhere in the
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airport they're not being monitor so of
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course like media is constantly you know
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and you know showing up everywhere we go
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you know and I I personally have felt it
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and I know we have an angle and I
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apologize for that not sure what's going
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on so we're going to try to pretend like
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we don't hear the echo and keep on going
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you know as somebody who's on the web TV
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MOBA time it's really hard not to
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attention affection to the media oh yeah
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that was that was part of this whole
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well you know I forgot to reveal that
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was part of the whole thing here with
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this little white lie is how am I going
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to show up on a web TV show or how I'm
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going to show up standing on a stage how
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am I going to show up anything if I look
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old and then really it's really a
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challenge and in the industry it's
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really a challenge so how did you deal
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with stuff like that as a woman in in
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the industry and you work for a lot of
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studios how did you deal with the whole
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you know how are you supposed to show up
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every single day and the judge based
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upon what the media is telling us it was
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a very well I don't know very many
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people in general bed or in the media
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dealer too well frankly it's it's it's
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it's just something that you just with
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and you certainly are reminded
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constantly about getting older and right
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on there as a lot of ageism and we see
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it even with the actors and actresses
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today the last a few Academy Awards
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anyone that watched them the last couple
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years you see more than one actress
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bring up the fact that it's hard to find
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a role for the one they pass a certain
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age right now so it's really prevalent I
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mean it's incredibly prevalent but
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here's the thing you know Karen that I
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found that why i feel like you know that
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they're there seems to be a lack of lack
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of you know being in touch out there is
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that if you do not create content that
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people can see themselves in that that's
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relatable then who you creating content
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for after well just what doesn't make
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any sense yeah I agree Nancy Ferrari
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says we're being funded by medias
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constantly you are so right Joey we are
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so right yes yeah we certainly are you
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know
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and if we saw a lot of the UC allow this
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going on to in regards to even marketing
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in just so I was sharing whistle another
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day how I was looking for older more
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mature women marketing images and how at
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first was very hard for me to locate
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them so that I could create at you know
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different marketing out there and when I
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did find them I was estatic you know
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it's like well real women you know that
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look like you know like like like you
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and I right that are walking through
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this world and therefore we're creating
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more of an emotional connection out
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there because it's relatable it's just
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going to be more relatable so Susan
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Jacobs says the current is changing I
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believe women of a certain age at which
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I guess see us are killing it whoa we're
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doing it don't know you know I kind of
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want to ask the question and I want to
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ask the question are we too old when
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what we're doing oh I know well you know
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I mean listen I get asked this question
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often from many many many clients or
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just out there in the marketplace when
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I'm keynoting etc so this is a very
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prominent question right now I always
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immediately say no absolutely not we
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need to be heard and seen at every age
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in every state of our journey on every
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part of our journey because this is how
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we're relatable I personally think it's
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only through the expertise that takes a
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minute right and so what was happening
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was is that especially with the whole
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startups in Silicon Valley and that kind
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of thing I feel like there was this kind
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of mythology or you know point of view
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that was going out there if you're not
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this age how can you be part of you know
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how we're moving forward in the future
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and I'm just like well first of all if
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you don't have your if you don't have
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expertise and you only have one type of
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like minded person that is running a
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company or who are part of the crew of
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running the cup
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what do you think is going to happen
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after a while you know yes and that's a
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very fair question to ask I mean one of
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the reasons that I did what I did with
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this is what I did with it what's really
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to make sure that I grenade on this trip
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Janeiro and kept doing this regardless
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of what people are dead and in fact this
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whole things that have been to a very
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interesting phenomena I have somebody
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stop man o streets somebody stop me on
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the street I'm hearing that echo and its
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really kind of throwing me off here kind
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of it said there was a partner's work on
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Saturday oh my gosh I love your hair I
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was like that's what I cool that's
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really cool and cool and then she said
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and how do you do that how do you do
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that right and I find I just wanted to
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see Lola older than dirt and that's what
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happens when you become older than dirt
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but this is a constant reminder it
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doesn't really matter what's on the
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outside it's getting out it matters how
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we show us right I will show up right
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yeah it's really it is all about
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confidence but it's also about finding
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our purpose right right and I feel like
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that what a big part of my brand is
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encouraging women to step out of the
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shadows and stepping into the spotlight
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and shining really bright and you know
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sharing their unique point of views and
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being seen and being heard this is how
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we create a fabric out there community
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that's amazing it's spectacular it's
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magnificent you know and I feel that the
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ageism that's going on in media that
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again is completely out of touch in my
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opinion the ages and that's going on
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even in you know in you know politics or
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is going in you know it really is kind
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of everywhere that what they're missing
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the boat is is that they're missing out
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on other people out there being
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relatable right well Joey I mean I don't
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know if it's a secret or not a secret
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you're the one who pushed me into my
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spotlight you know I work with you you
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are my marketing maven I mean you're the
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one who said you have to step into this
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you have to step into your own power and
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that whole thing about looking for
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images of people there are a little bit
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older
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I don't know for somebody else when I
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know that was a channel for my projects
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as well finding images and women that
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were not your 20 year old girls right
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well cool right oh absolutely i mean but
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when I did you know when I was able to
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locate them what a story that we were
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able to tell right Karen and you know I
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was very inspired by you you were on one
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of the virtual coffees I do in my bigger
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facebook group and you like you were
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talking about the little white lie and
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I'm like that so cool like I'm like I
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like this off and then you announced how
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you're like I'm going to go gray I'm
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going to do a publicly I'm gonna do it
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virtually and I was like Bravo sister
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Bravo to you but what you really did you
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got us all thinking and I mean you're
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asking us so what's your little white
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light and I was just like wow okay this
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is this really as part of the movement
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of the authenticity of you showing that
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virtually and showing us on your journey
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and sharing what it's like to go great
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on your journey and then us mate taking
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a harder look at ourselves and saying
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what's our little white lie right
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Network and we're covering all sorts of
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topics I mean we're covering plastic
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surgery we're covering a technology wait
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a great show last week on technology
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we're covering Media we're to be
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covering mortality we're going to be up
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around ages and all the different things
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all the different thing that we address
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as we get older and then the movement is
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not about how is he not out of me how
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does he it's telling people that you can
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be any way you want to be any way you
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finally be right and that that's
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actually what's going to set you apart
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on the marketplace so what I found what
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I find to be very important about this
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movement is by you asking that listen
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this is a hard-hitting question by the
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way like what is your little white light
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I mean that's that that that's a
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hard-hitting question but by making
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people think and redefining and let me
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tell you there's not a day that goes by
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that I'm not thinking about my little
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little white lies all right right you
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know I'm not thinking about am I going
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to do plastic surgery some day you know
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I've never done Botox but that there's
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like Botox commercials that are running
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like every
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two seconds right now I don't know what
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is going on with that but that's a big
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trend again right now you know I mean
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when I go shopping what stores I go into
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you know and and how is that wreath at
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redefining me or am I going to just keep
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going the stores that I love which I do
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anyways I think you go surface i love I
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don't care who they're selling to
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because i liked friends right right and
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I understand what you're saying I think
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how about our audience I mean do you
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honey resonate with what Joe is saying
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are you going to stop going into those
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stores that you love to go into because
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somehow you think that maybe it's the
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wrong age for you are you going to do
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things differently because committee is
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telling you that you see aunt Ellen edge
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anymore with your thoughts down there we
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really want to know Joe and I are going
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to be coming back over there in
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responding back again if you're here on
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replay replay love you make sure you put
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your comments in there as well before
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before we start to wind down I want to
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make sure if it will know how to get one
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into Joey I guess they can go to 113
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branding I put a link up on the Zambia
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ok idea say that we gotta do is oh hell
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no okay because I deserve I agree with
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her too she's an amazing image stylist
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and I'm putting in her hello there
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people I love yellow coach anyways yeah
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you know people can also find me on
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facebook and i have a group called
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brandy from professional business women
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that you know it's very lively that's
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incredibly interactive you know Karen
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somebody you want to say that this this
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is what I've done for myself and this is
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an intention I set for myself in order
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to get past some of these hurdles right
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of getting older and the media and the
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kind of fear that they that that
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literally this is strategy there okay so
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this isn't by accident they literally
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sit down there like how can we pour some
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more salt into the fear model of getting
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older okay for women so what I've done
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is is I've done with it you know I have
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cancelled every single magazine like I
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will not let one magazine cover or
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magazine show up to my home anymore
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absolutely
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I've also got I also gone as far as to
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like making it setting my intention of
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what I read and where where I'm going
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online virtually and where I'm getting
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that kind of feedback and news from you
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know and then to be frank with you you i
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only watch HBO and Showtime and things
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like that I don't watch any of the local
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channels anymore so that makes me very
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extreme to some people out there but
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because i was so indoctrinated into the
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media and it's taken me several years to
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own my confidence to let myself the way
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I am because it really can get in your
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head and into your spirit right about
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you're not good enough you're not skinny
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enough you're not then and you know
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you're not young enough dot dot dot do
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you say I take drastic actions and that
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it you know I think drastic but I don't
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think it's that drastic do you think
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that we as individuals can change the
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culture out there can i change the
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culture can you change the culture can
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all of us who are out there with this
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message of you know ignore the media not
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ignore the media but but more than let's
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be smart think about what really works
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for you can we make change is what I
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want to know do you think you can make
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change yeah through our influence
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through our influence but together as a
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community you know it's all gonna it all
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comes down to influence because bottom
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line is that our dollar matters how
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we're spending our dollars mattered you
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might maybe maybe one person like myself
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just saying I will no longer have these
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magazines come to my home maybe that
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doesn't seem like a lots of someone out
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there but when it becomes a bigger of a
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triple a you know a like a wave effect
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out there in the community it will it we
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can send the message and like if you do
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not start putting people that look like
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my someone that I can relate to in a
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magazine I will no longer purchase or by
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that which is all sold by ads and so it
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becomes a statement that we're making
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and let me tell you coach does not want
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us to make that they do not want to
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not to purchase these magazines were
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there adjure in it michael kors does not
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want us to do this ain't howl mcklein
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does not want to do this and here's
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something else too and then and then
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I'll get off this box for a second but
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but but recently i posted about a window
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dressing i saw i won't name the brand
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but it was in downtown san francisco and
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behind it it SAT behind a thousand plus
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thousand plus outfit and you couldn't
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really read the words because the outfit
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was covering up the stand of it and said
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we should all be feminists and what it
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said to me is you this brand thinks that
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this is a trend that we're in right now
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but they leverage that trend that I'm
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going to walk into that store and what I
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said to myself is these are empty
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calories and hey you are trying to sell
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me right now and not only well I'm not
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walk into your store but I will never
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purchase another garment from you again
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now again I'm just one person one person
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but what I want it but my statement
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online was this is not a trend now we
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are not going away right oh my gosh and
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you're not going to put us back in the
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shadows exactly and this is not a fluff
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piece and it was one of the
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conversations I remember you and I
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having way back when we started talking
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about how we were going to market this
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is that I didn't want to be a fluff
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piece I didn't want to be just a thought
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that just what people said oh it's about
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coloring her hair she's got white hair
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big deal it's not a big deal and that is
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I mean I think what you're talking to
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this is not what we're not going away
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the movement is not going away the
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little white wine movement should be
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getting older movement we are not going
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away we finance ebrary when we fight
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Nancy Ferrari nope that's right Nancy
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I'm not going anywhere and here's the
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thing that if we're more mindful about
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where we put our dollars and cents you'd
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be surprised of how fast that people on
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the other side of the media who aren't
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taking this seriously will take us very
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seriously amen amen and amen so if you
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want to get in touch with joy Garrity
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which I know you booty which in my view
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my go-to person you wanted
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route 113 branding brands and while
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you're at it go over to the one white
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guy come and answer the question either
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here in the post or on your blog post
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it's going to come out next week all
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about this conversation answer the
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question things about how you're going
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to show up I know how you're going to
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show up playing on all of your fears
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like you have feelers work are they
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playing on your fears on how long is
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going to show up Joey any last words
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before let me go anywhere they invited
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me for weeks so you know I just want to
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thank you Karen because it really just
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take courage to step into our spotlight
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but it takes even more courage to make a
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statement like you are right now and not
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just make a statement they get behind it
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a hundred and ten percent so thank you
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for having me on your show oh well thank
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you thank you for getting me focused
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quite frankly I really appreciate it and
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I appreciate all of you out there
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appreciate always have noticed you have
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a choice as to how to spend your client
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wait thank you for hanging with us I'll
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see you next week on the next little
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white line cuz I everyone to the white
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line to buy everything
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