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How to Have Unstoppable Grit with Danielle Cobo
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Feb 19, 2024
We are going live with Transformational Speaker and Career Consultant Danielle Cobo. We will talk about having unstoppable grit and some tips on how to break through the roadblocks standing between you and achieving your goals. #unstoppablegrit #daniellecobo #bestsellingauthor 📌 Subscribe to the Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@carenglasser Check out my website here: http://www.carenglasser.com Follow us on Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/carenglasser Follow us on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/carenglasser Follow us on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/carenglasser Follow Danielle here: https://linktr.ee/DanielleCobo Get the book "Unstoppable Grit": https://amzn.to/3STp4KO
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hello everyone Karen Glasser here and
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welcome to the show do you know how to
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have Unstoppable grip let me say that
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again because that was a tongue twister
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do you know how to have Unstoppable grit
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do you even know what that means can you
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even say that 10 times fast I don't know
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but today we are talking about that and
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more with transformational speaker and
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career consultant Danielle Kobo welcome
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to the show boy that's a tongue twister
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it is a tongue twister I finally got it
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out welcome Daniel thank you for joining
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us today how are you I am doing
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fantastic how are you doing today I am
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doing great I'm really excited that
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you're here because we're talking about
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your new book that just launched and
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some great news we'll talk about that in
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a second but first let's talk about your
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journey how did you get here you're a
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former Fortune 500 senior sales manager
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um you are an acclaimed speaker
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best-selling author and podcast host
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what don't you do tell us how you got to
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where you are today well I started my
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career in medical sales so I spent 15
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years in medical uh device sales and
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Capital Equipment Sales before leaving
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the corporate world and then becoming a
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speaker and an author and a whole lot of
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hats that I wear that I did not
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anticipate I would be wearing one day if
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you would have asked me three years ago
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would I be here today I would have said
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absolutely not how fun is that though
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because literally whatever you put your
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money into you're doing and that is a
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great example for all of us so we're
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going to jump into the book because I'm
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really excited this book is called
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Unstoppable Unstoppable what is wrong
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with me grit what does that mean
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Unstoppable grit is so Angela Duckworth
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does a definition of grit which is
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passion and perseverance towards
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long-term goals and I believe that grit
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is when passion and perseverance to
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long-term goal and when setbacks occur
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it's the action to take a step forward
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and continuing to move forward so it's
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but in order to have grit I believe it's
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important that we have Clarity on what
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our passions are without Clarity it's
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really hard to have grit now you say in
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the book that there are seven roadblocks
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that are standing between you and
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achieving your goals tell us one what
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would be one roadblock one of the
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roadblocks is the H the apprehension of
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others opinions so so often we are so
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there's maybe a risk that we want to
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take in life maybe it start stting a
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business maybe it's going for a
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promotion maybe it's uh whatever
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personal goal that we might have but we
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start to hesitate because we start to
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worry about what other people's opinions
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are versus really looking in and what's
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going to be fulfilling to us and so
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apprehension of others opinions is one
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of the
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roadblocks so what do you suggest to
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people because if we all have that um is
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there a tip that you can give us that
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will at least alleviate a little bit of
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that what I've what I I've learned in
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life is there's always going to be other
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people's opinions but if you live your
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life based off of other people's
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opinions you're never going to live live
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the life that you truly desire and truly
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want and you know there's going to be
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people that are going to judge you and a
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lot of times that judgment comes from
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their own insecurities inside so don't
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let other people's insecurities hold you
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back from pursuing the goals that you
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want in your life so how would you
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define the word goals because I I know
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that a lot of us say well I don't have
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goals because I don't ever achiev them
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you know the beginning of the year I
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have my goals and then 3 days later I
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forgot what they are how would you
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define a goal and how how do people
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actually stand on track for those things
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yeah it's interesting so one of the
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reasons why I had the book launch now
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specifically this week is because by the
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second research shows by the second week
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of February 87% of the people give up on
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their New Year's resolutions and it's
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because people set out and they have
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these goals but then they give up on
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them so how do we break free from that
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right yeah so um in so one of the ways
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that I look at what are my goals every
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single year I create a vision board and
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it's an exercise that I have done for 20
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plus years my kids are six years old
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they are now starting to do it as well
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and I believe that when you are
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intentional about writing down your
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goals
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and actually putting in and writing down
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what steps you're going to take to
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achieve your goals that is going to help
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you achieve your goals but doc there's a
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researcher um a psychologist Dr Frank
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Niles and he says that it's not a matter
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of just manifesting your goals by having
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a vision board when you have something
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that is in front of you A visual
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representation it creates top of- mind
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awareness that is going to remind you
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every single day of what you're working
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towards so those moments when you're
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feeling deflated and overwhelmed or
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you're feeling like I don't know if I
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can do this having that visual
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representation of not only what your
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goal is But A visual representation of
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also what are you going to reward
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yourself when you achieve that goal is
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gonna help create top mind awareness so
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my vision board sits above my desk I can
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look at it right now it sits above my
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desk every day well you know what
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Danielle my vision board actually lives
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on my desktop
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computer I actually uploaded so I look
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at mine every single day as well and I
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call my goals intentions I guess I don't
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want to like get too too I'm going to a
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goal it's an intention and I do the same
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thing as you do I have those steps that
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get us to the intention if you are
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tuning in right now we are talking to
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Danielle Kobo we're talking about her
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new book Unstoppable grit I said it
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right break through the seven roadblock
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standing between you and achieving your
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goals if you have a question or a
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comment and you want to chat with Daniel
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make sure you put it in the comments and
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we will put it up on the screen now you
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say that it's not just about reaching
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your goals it's about who you become in
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that process so can you elaborate on
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that yeah so I went through a series of
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Life altering events in 2020 so in 2019
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my husband had served a year deployment
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in Iraq at the time my kids were between
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the ages of one and a half and two and a
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half years old so January 26th he comes
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back from
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deployment and it was a lot harder than
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what we had anticipated he was a
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different person coming back from War I
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was a different person was used to
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making the sole decisions of all the
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parenting and now I've got to have
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discussions on our parenting Styles and
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he you know when he left they were
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drinking out of bottles they were
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learning to walk they were saying their
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first words he comes back and they're
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formulating complete sentences they're
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talking back and throwing temper
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tantrums so it was a big shift for us
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and right when we started to find our
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Rhythm March 8th I lost my mom my mom
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had actually passed and she passed away
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from suicide
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so
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she yeah I I was absolutely devastated
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when I found out the news and and and
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mainly because I couldn't believe that
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she was in so much pain that she felt
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that the only decision to relieve that
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pain was to take her life and it's a
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permanent solution to a temporary
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problem and so and I say her life was
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taken from her because I do believe it's
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related to mental health it is not uh
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she didn't commit suicide she was taken
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by Suicide and so right after that March
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13th Global pandemic shuts the world
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down the uncertainty of what is life
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going to look like how long is this
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going to last what is this virus and
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then the company that I was with was
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acquired by another organization and I
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found myself in a very toxic work
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environment um and so these series of
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life-altering events within a six-month
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period completely shifted the way that I
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looked at my life and how I wanted to
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show up in life and also who I wanted to
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be I had tied my identity to my paycheck
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to my job title to my sales Awards but I
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wasn't necessarily happy and it wasn't
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until I was writing my mom's obituary
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when I started to think about what would
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it be like if somebody was writing my
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obituary what do I want to be known for
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and so one of the exercises I typically
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will take people through when they're
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trying to get clarity on what they want
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their life to look like is I call the
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Legacy exercise where you write your own
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obituary from the perspective of a
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colleague and from the perspective of a
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family member and you write down what do
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you want people to say about you when
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you when it's time for you to pass well
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Daniel you already know I was going to
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ask you this question and that was how
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do you want to be remembered I had no
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idea that you were going to say what you
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said so I just want I'm going to jump
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ahead to that for a minute and we'll go
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backwards so I'm sure you did the
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exercise yourself how how do you want to
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be
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remembered I want to be remembered for
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making a positive impact in the world so
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one of my greatest uh what is the most
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fulfilling to me is when I am with
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somebody and I start to hear them talk
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about themselves it's like the limiting
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beliefs that they've had and being able
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to provide them with the tools to break
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through those limiting beliefs and see
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them pursue goals that may they may not
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have thought about or they've been too
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scared to or they've been apprehended of
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of pursuing and to see them do it an
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accomplishment that to me is is very
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fulfilling so I would just want to make
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a positive impact in this world and feel
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like I'm making a transformation in
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people's lives and I'm sure that's
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exactly why you do this you want to
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break through those roadblocks and and
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you want to make sure that they can
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achieve their goals at least put them on
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the road to achieving their goals let me
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put up um some very impressive stats uh
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the book is live right they can go over
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to Amazon I will in a second put up that
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QR code but it's a bestseller in women
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in business it's a bestseller in job
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hunting it's in the new release number
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four in women in business number three
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in job hunting number 44 in motivational
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self-help first of all let's just
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applaud yay you that is so awesome how
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does it feel to be a best-selling
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author I it's still sinking in it is
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still sinking in um I had it's it's so
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rewarding to see that a putting a year
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and a half into writing this book but
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what's the most rewarding I mean it's
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nice to see best bestseller what is the
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most rewarding is when I'm receiving the
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text messages and the word that I
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consistently hear from people that are
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that have had the opportunity to read
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the book already is this book is
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transformative wow so that so that was
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your purpose and it has been received
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very very cool so we're talking about
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your book right now and um I want to let
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people know that they can pick it up
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right now there's a QR code if you've
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never done this before and you're
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looking at a desktop or a laptop get
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your phone out turn the camera on and
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scam this it will take you right there
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if you are not on your desktop but you
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are on just your phone don't worry about
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it just when you get off the show you
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can screenshot it and you'll be able to
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go right over to Amazon because that's
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where it lives it's on Amazon it's
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Barnes and it's everywhere right it's
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it's everywhere so I'm going to give
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everyone to call to action right now
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because we would love for you to go
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check out the book pick up a copy of it
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and don't forget to leave Danielle a
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review on Amazon it helps get her to the
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number one bestseller that we know that
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we know that she
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is okay so where have you been or where
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do you want to go that inspires you or
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motivates you at this time in your
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life I believe I I said when I was
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writing the book that I would never
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write another book but because it was
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such a long process I mean I would wake
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up before my kids would get up in the
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morning it'd be dark outside there was
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times where there was a category 4
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hurricane headed towards us and I had my
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computer hooked up to a generator and I
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was writing this book and I told myself
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I would never write another book and
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sure enough I have carved out time to
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write another book so I excited for the
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next congrats on that no you said that
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you pivoted um you went from being in
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corporate world you know doing all the
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things that you do and then life changed
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for you and it no longer was satisfying
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what was that pivot like I mean I can
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only imagine going from
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corporate wearing the the the nice
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clothes right doing everything that
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you're supposed to do and then moving
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into what I would cons you're you're an
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entrepreneur you're a small business
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owner you're solopreneur what was that
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like the pivot work going for working
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for somebody else to working for
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yourself
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terrifying and still is and still is you
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know I would been I was thinking about
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this the other day I had been in my
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career for 15 years I had been a manager
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for seven years so I had reached a point
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in my career where it was kind of
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starting to feel like second nature I
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knew what to expect I you know
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challenges that were coming my way I had
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dealt with them before I knew how to
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respond to it but as an entrepreneur
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it's almost like you're starting all
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over again you're taking all the
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knowledge from your years of working
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corporate and my experience of helping
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other businesses grow their businesses
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and be successful but doing it for
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yourself is very different I went from
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let's really paint the picture of what
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corporate life was like I had a company
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car I had stock options I had a
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six-figure salary I had commission I had
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health benefits and now all of a sudden
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I'm starting from me I am responsible
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for generating everything for me myself
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my family right and it's ter terrifying
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it absolutely is and every time I think
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back to oh it would be so nice to go
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back to corporate and kind of have that
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security and that cushion and I always
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ask myself but would I be fulfilled in
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the same way that I am today and I just
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don't know it this point because my job
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is so fulfilling at this point you know
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if you're if you're tuning in right now
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we're talking about facing the fear and
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doing it anyways leaving and in your
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case Daniel left corporate life and
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became an entrepreneur if you're an
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entrepreneur a solopreneur you work for
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yourself let us know how you're doing
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this is this fearful for you have you
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ever been in corporate life before and
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now you're um by on purpose or maybe not
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on purpose now an entrepreneur I used to
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laugh that entrepreneurs um are not
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always entrepreneurs on purpose no they
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sort of landed there right and and um
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and it's it's hard so if you're if it's
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hard for you let us know what you're
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doing um what would you tell somebody
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right now who's watching this show
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whether it's Replay live whenever you're
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watching this what would you tell them
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right now to get off the
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dime and and start following their
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dream when you believe in yourself other
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people will believe in you too and I
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believe that in those situations where
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you're wondering whether or not to
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pursue that business pursue that
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promotion pursue whatever goal that
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you're trying to achieve you never want
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to look back and wonder what if you
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never want to do that so at least try
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before you even give up on
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yourself good good good answer um I'm
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sure our our viewers are wondering how
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do they follow you so we're going to
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give them some information you can watch
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us again and again and again you don't
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have to write it down but if you want to
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you can go visit Danielle at her website
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at Daniel Cobo kobo.com you can visit
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Danielle on LinkedIn at T Daniel Cobo
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you can go to her YouTube channel to the
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Unstoppable grit podcast and I want to
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talk about the podcast before we get off
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um you can also uh visit you on
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Instagram and Facebook at the Daniel
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Cobo and also on Tik Tok and Twitter
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without the the Danielle coobo as I like
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to say you are everywhere now we didn't
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talk about your podcast but let's talk a
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little bit about the podcast is the
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podcast uh an extension of the book did
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the did the podcast come first and then
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the book or did the book come first and
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then the podcast podcast came first so
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it started off as dream job with
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Danielle Cobo podcast and then when I
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released the book I rebranded the
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podcast to Unstoppable grit podcast
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because it's all about how could you
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thrive in all areas of your life how
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could you build a career in life that
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you love and that's where that
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Unstoppable grit comes from and so the
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podcast has 158 episodes it's rated the
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top 5%
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globally and um I and I've I've had
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amazing guests on the podcast and so I
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had that before writing the book but the
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podcast inspired the book okay so they
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can find that everywhere that podcast
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can be listened to Spotify Apple you
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name it just go put that into the search
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Unstoppable grit podcast it will show up
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any last minute thoughts for our
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audience that you would like to
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share I would say if you're thinking
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about it do it don't let anything stop
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you believe in yourself
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try it you never want to live your life
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regretting and wondering what if because
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as long if you pursue your goal and
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maybe it doesn't work out at least
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you'll know that you tried before you
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even gave up on yourself so do it just
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do it as Nike says yes not to steal it
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or anything but just do it Daniel thank
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you for taking time out of your very
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busy week because you're launching this
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week and I know it's very very exciting
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I want to thank you and I want to thank
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our viewers you have a choice as to
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where you spend your time you chose it
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with to spend it with Dan and I today
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and we are thankful for that go out give
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somebody an awesome day and we'll see
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you next time on Karen Glasser live
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goodbye
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everyone
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