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are maneuvering through a world that
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worships youth and shames the beautiful
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process of aging today we are welcoming
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evolutionary coach Karen Fritz to the
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show and the topic today is on the path
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to Van life three tips to working from
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anywhere if you're here live we are
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delighted that you're here live make
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say I'm your life and we will make sure
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the show so today we have an amazing
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we we've known each other for a little
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while her name is karen fritz she
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graduated a corporate management decades
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ago to run her own businesses she's
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average ten thousand miles a year on her
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motorcycle after learning to write at 50
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imagine that I'm scared of motorcycles
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so we'll talk about that uses the and
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Nia Graham and integral coaching to
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guide clients in designing a business
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model that fits both financially and for
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fulfillment and she invented this really
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cool game called path that instills
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business ecosystem concepts into an
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intuitive tool way she adds the
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Superbook new lifestyle to her resume
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and so without further ado I welcome
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Karen Fritz to the show hi there hi
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Karen thanks so much for having me well
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I am really delighted that you're on the
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show and as we said the show is about
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man life we're going to talk a little
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bit about that because you're no longer
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in your van and will tell will tell you
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why viewers but before we do that I like
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to start the show with the question how
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do you describe a super boomer now I
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describe super boomers actually by what
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they're not they are not defined by
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their age they are defined by how they
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show up in life fearless with a just
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watch me attitude that would totally me
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so Karen Fritz how do you describe I
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feel like it's really the ability
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to lead into the the knowledge and the
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experience that I've gained right I see
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it as having gained so much that now I
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can share it back I don't have to be
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intimidated by a culture that really
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worships youth or whatever I bring
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something that literally has never been
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experienced on the planet before quite
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like this and I want to bring it I love
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I love that bring it I totally love that
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because you are you are bringing it if
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you're just joining in right now we've
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got Karen Fritz on and we are talking
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about van life and tips on how to work
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anywhere and I want to start out by
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saying that originally this this show
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was titled tips to do do while you're on
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the road now we would be remiss not to
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say that we are in a time frame right
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now a world that is nothing like any of
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us have ever experienced I don't think
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and so you had to come back home because
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you could no longer be in your van but
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let's talk about van life first what
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does that mean van life basically it
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means the ability to live from a van and
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last summer I got a 2002 Ford Econoline
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it's just of a hand it's not a fancy
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sprinter it's nothing fancy and because
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I had no prior skill I went in and I
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pulled out the seats and I pulled out
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the side stuff and use the tools the
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power tools and put down a floor and it
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has a bed and a desk first of all I knew
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a lot of credit you know I think I do
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what a lot of people do and I say that
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men do that women don't right men take
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your tools out and and and clearly
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that's not true and that is a stereotype
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that really should not be out there and
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it's part of the whole super boomer
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thing I mean you have your tools you did
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this I kind of wish I'd asked you to
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bring a picture on so that I could show
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this picture of you and the band but as
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we said you're not in the van right now
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you are back home but that doesn't
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mean that we can't talk about this
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because we can talk about working from
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anywhere and that is very appropriate
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for this time that we're in so you talk
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about being productive on purpose what
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does that mean right it's one thing to
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be productive and and have all your
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system set up and know how to get your
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stuff done but if you're doing a whole
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bunch and hang up stuff that doesn't
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light you up it's not going to be
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fulfilling there's there's no amount of
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achievement that will make up for having
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that fulfillment within yourself and I'm
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speaking from experience there so it's
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the on purpose part that really we have
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a word that you I don't know if you made
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it up but I think you did and its
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purpose tivity right that just kind of
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frames almost everything that you do
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let's talk about that what does that
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purpose tivity actually is the name of
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my second book and its purpose tivity is
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the feminine face of productivity okay
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because it really is about finding out
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what really matters and then putting
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your time and your attention toward what
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really matters for you and the
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assumption is that you're here you're
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unique and in that the things that
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matter to you are divinely intentional
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so go there I love that I love that so
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in line with that you have this this
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game that you came up with I don't even
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like calling it a game because it's
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almost like life it's a life thing and
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it's called path so I know that you have
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it with you too I'm gonna have you do
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that right mark there's a camera there's
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the box there's the box so what I've
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done in this game is I've mapped
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different areas of business success onto
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the ecosystem because a lot of the folks
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that I work with in my business right
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are great at their thing right but they
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Oh business right and half the time they
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don't want you but when you can take and
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say oh here's an image that's about
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mountains that's about your big picture
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it's time to climb a new mountains got
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pictures about forests
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oh that's about the forest and the trees
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go get your stuff done for today and
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then the river is all about the flow of
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your own essence in your business and
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these are all pictures from my
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motorcycle travels so is that how this
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developed when you were out on the road
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I mean how how did this come to be I had
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already been doing this integrative
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coaching around your strategy your
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systems and yourself because all three
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of those have to work or either your
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business isn't gonna make money or
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you're gonna burn out and we don't want
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people burning out yeah so I've been
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doing that and then I got this idea to
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invent a game so that people could learn
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about the business side of things and in
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inventing the game I went back to all my
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pictures from my motorcycle blogging and
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my first book the art of adventure so
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that I could use those to express
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visually what most people don't get when
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they're if they're not word oriented
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people the pictures work pictures work
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and and some people are visual that way
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some people are operate by words I
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happen to be a word girl but but
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certainly I understand the whole idea of
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the visual I put a link up on on the the
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show right now Karen joy Fritz com
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forward slash path and if they go there
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what are they gonna find you'll find a
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description of the game and if you're
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interested in ordering yourself a copy
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or just talking with me about it perhaps
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playing online like this we can sure do
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that so I know that you're actually
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doing house parties I am see now that's
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part of making my business and portable
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so I can do it from the road exactly so
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that leads us right into some tips about
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we're now clearly I'm an online girl I I
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can work from anywhere and I do and I
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have my as long as I have my trusty
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webcam and my laptop or even my phone
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I can work from anywhere but let's give
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some tips out to our viewing audience on
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how can you work from anywhere we're not
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suggesting you get in a van well that's
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not what this is about right it's not
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about getting an event you can if you
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want to but maybe you want to be in a
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Motorhome maybe you just want to go take
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a trip around the world and again maybe
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not right now but you were give us some
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tips right you know even if you want to
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go to a town and go to an air B&B all
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first tip I would say is try to stay in
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each place for at least a month right if
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you're really really like moving through
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stuff at least a week but you can in
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advance you can go on Meetup and find
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out where your people are hanging out in
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that area go meet the people and then
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you have a little bit of time to
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actually create connections and have the
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coffee dates and so on so that you're
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actually building a loop and next year
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right I was down in Texas this year and
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the next year I'll be able to go back
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and have that basis right and I can
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expand from you have a bigger backyard
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no in a bigger backyard and I love that
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all right what's tip number two tip
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number two is as you build out your
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digital support system right you can't
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be hauling paper around the favorite day
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planner the client files all the things
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you have to have those digital but make
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sure you're using tools that fit your
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personality style again it's not an
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accident that you need to overcome if
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you're a visual person use visual
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digital tools those apps are out there
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if you're a people person there are apps
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organized around your contacts and who
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you love so make sure you make it fit so
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you're telling us too
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go on our phone or mobile app mobile
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device or something even your computer
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for that your laptop and Google sub a
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tool and then it's pretty simple that
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you you know start googling and cigs
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find something that works for you
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whether it's a inva is a visual app and
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you can do it right on your phone you
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can make beautiful memes and beautiful
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photographs and you can share them out
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you can they do do is now on canva did
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you know that yeah very cool
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so that's a great tip don't haul paper
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around I love that yeah
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okay this one applies to both your
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digital things and your stuff stuff the
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key is always put things where you'll be
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able to find them all right it's it's
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self care for your future self I love I
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I hate that feeling of oh my god where'd
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I put that or digging through is it in
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this box is it in that box even in my
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I had a few boxes that slid under my bed
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right this one is my kitchen box this is
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my cold clothes this is my hot clothes
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this is and knowing that when I took
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something off or when I was done with
12:19
something it went back into the box
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where I'd be able to find it again
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first of all it kept the clutter down
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and in a really small space that matters
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but it also kept my stress level down
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because I never had that oh where is it
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did I leave it at some rest stop and
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that this is this is for anybody quite
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frankly you always put things where you
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can find them and I'm I'm a you know
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I've moved several times in the last
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several years and I purged I purged
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everything so that now I know where
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things are because I don't have a lot of
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things anymore so this is a really great
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tip whether you're doing the van life
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whether you are working from anywhere or
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just working from your house right
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always put things where you can find
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them great tip great tip anything else
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in terms of working and and live
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in a you know I have another one that it
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really is like I can only give her three
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no I got so here's the other one is all
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the maintenance level stuff should do
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itself so all of my bills are on auto
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pay all of my deposits are auto
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deposited like that's maintenance level
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stuff I cannot have to be home to go get
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the mail right to go to the bank right
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so all that stuff happens I never have
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to worry like oh my gosh did I forget to
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pay the the the Comcast bill or whatever
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port and it's done it takes care of
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itself my email files itself I love it
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so you have folders at Ottoman you have
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love folders and filters like the
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maintenance level stuff does itself
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anything I can automate I do and then I
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look at delegate but first make the
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computer do the work so did you know
14:14
that the US Postal Service has a
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platform now that you can get an email
14:19
every single day telling you what email
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has arrived and what packages have
14:22
arrived I didn't know that until they
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just made this move and I accidentally
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signed up for it I didn't even know I
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signed up for it I signed up for
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everything and all of a sudden I started
14:32
getting these emails every single day
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telling me that this is what's coming
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and if you don't get it let us know so
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that's that that's right in alignment
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with that these are amazing tips it
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makes me kind of you know want to get
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out there when I when we can and do some
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of this stuff this is this is great why
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do you do this what's your why you know
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part of it is my creative impulse and
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comes from diverse and novel input so
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travel to me gives me the food to be
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able to give back right it fills me up
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with different things that I can connect
15:16
and then be able to share with other
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people like making a game out of
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pictures of rivers right
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who would how many people right people
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have looked at those rivers forever
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right bazillions of people have looked
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at the same thing but what I see is
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sometimes different yes perspective
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so for me it's always been for whatever
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journey I've been on whether it's been a
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physical journey or an inner journey or
15:48
a spiritual journey it always comes back
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to you how do I apply it and how then
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shall we live even if I have this inner
15:58
calm or I've done this work or cleaned
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up this part nice but how then shall we
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live right what do I bring back to my
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larger community because that
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transformation has taken place and again
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goes back to living life on purpose yes
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which is exactly what we've been talking
16:20
about do you have a superpower I do my
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superpower is the ability to see
16:28
patterns in chaos interesting right yes
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just happens to be how this brain works
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I can look at anything from the clouds
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and see pictures in the clouds and then
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to look at the way somebody's belief
16:46
system is wired and go oh they think
16:49
they're in chaos but look here's the
16:52
pattern and if we take that pattern and
16:55
we pull this string the pattern let's go
16:59
so that something more authentic can
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emerge everyone needs a Karen Fritz is
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okay that that can help you live on
17:07
purpose and and and put things in focus
17:10
I just love everything that you're
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talking about if you're if you want to
17:14
follow Karen which you should follow
17:16
Karen you can check out her Facebook
17:19
page at facebook.com or FB calm for it
17:23
slash purpose tivity I just love that
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word then also we had this up earlier
17:28
but you can check out her website and
17:32
path is Karen joy fritz calm for it
17:34
slash path and I know that you have
17:36
something that you're giving away as
17:38
well and that is if they go to Karen joy
17:42
frits calm for its last burnout what are
17:45
they going to get what I've done is to
17:48
look at what happens to people when
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they're not getting that fulfillment
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piece hmm big burnout right and
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sometimes it's because they were on the
18:00
wrong direction to begin with sometimes
18:03
it was because they're here they
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imagined a business they built the
18:07
business but in the building they grew
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and now they're bigger
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yeah and they need to dream again yeah
18:14
so I put together this comic book I have
18:17
blast building it out right but it's a
18:20
comic book that looks at how this
18:22
burnout happens and nine different ways
18:26
using Enneagram types to find your
18:29
portal into how do i reinvent what what
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is it that helps me to see my pattern so
18:36
that I can go to my next best self I
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love that I just I am just so delighted
18:42
that you were on today was a perfect
18:44
show and a perfect topic for today any
18:48
last-minute things that we have not
18:51
addressed that we really should so that
18:54
we don't leave people hanging here's my
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thought there's only one of you there's
19:02
only one in all all of the humans and
19:05
all of the designs and all of the
19:07
histories there's only one combination
19:10
of who you are and what you've
19:12
experienced and until that is honored
19:17
and brought forward and really hard to
19:20
be on purpose and it's really hard to be
19:22
fulfilled thank you do you do you just
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do you do nobody else is is as good as
19:30
you are there good is there good just
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thank you Karen I just think that I
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don't and I really appreciate you taking
19:38
time to be with us today to share your
19:42
tips of which we got bonus tips guys
19:45
awesome and and I hope that you do go
19:48
and check Karyn out because this game
19:50
that she's doing you can actually have
19:51
her when things that come down a little
19:53
bit you can actually have her come and
19:54
do the game with your with your group or
19:57
your team which I would be amazing to do
20:00
this with a team to get everyone on the
20:02
same path no pun intended
20:05
actually was very much funds ended I
20:08
want to thank you for taking time out of
20:10
your day to join us today try not to go
20:12
stir crazy oh and I'm gonna drop you
20:16
into the green room as we finish up the
20:18
show don't go away though alright
20:21
we now this is the time that we have the
20:24
super boomer moment and this is when we
20:25
talk about those the thing that that
20:28
struck me as something that I want to
20:31
remember from the show and it has to do
20:33
with living life on purpose
20:34
i I think that when we forget that we
20:38
stray we wonder we don't have a goal we
20:42
don't have a direction we don't know
20:43
what we're doing and when you have your
20:46
purpose and you're living your life on
20:47
purpose and and as I have gotten older
20:50
and as as I my purpose has changed
20:53
clearly my purpose has changed but I do
20:55
live my life on purpose because why
20:59
if you're not going to do that and so I
21:00
want to thank Karen for sharing that
21:02
moment with us and also if you're going
21:05
to be on the road and you're going to be
21:07
doing this out there I'm going to
21:09
encourage you to go out and get a webcam
21:11
for God's sake because in order to do
21:14
some of this stuff and on your laptop
21:15
and things you need to have a way to
21:17
have a decent picture this is the webcam
21:19
that I use the Logitech HD you can find
21:22
it on the super boomer lifestyle calm or
21:25
you can find it anywhere
21:27
but get yourself a webcam or use your
21:29
cell phone if you want that's good too
21:31
we would love for you to follow us on
21:33
Instagram you can follow us on instagram
21:36
at karen Glasser and you can follow us
21:38
on twitter yes at karen glass or imagine
21:41
that that's very tricky and if you want
21:45
to check out all the rest of the shows
21:47
from the super boomer lifestyle go to
21:48
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21:53
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21:54
again and all of the past shows as well
21:57
I hope that you will do that I want to
22:00
thank you because I know that you have a
22:01
choice as to how you spend your time and
22:03
I want to thank you because you chose it
22:05
to spend it with caring myself thank you
22:07
for that go out and give somebody an
22:09
awesome day and we'll see you next week
22:11
on the next episode of the super boomer
22:13
lifestyle show goodbye everyone