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S2:E2: What Does Age Look Like?
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Jul 18, 2019
On this episode of The Little White Lie Caren and Hollywood insider Joie Gharrity talk about age and what it looks like. They cover the following topics: Self-care The important role confidence plays in how we show up How to incorporate rituals into your everyday life that will support your inner game and external games. Joie Gharrity is the Founder of 113 Branding Digital Studio. She worked for 15 plus years in the entertainment industry for top studios such as Sony Pictures and Walt Disney Company, just to name a few. She is also the host of the popular live show, the Hollywood Spotlight Series featuring television, film and online Hollywood industry influencers. My Direct Links, Programs & Equipment I use for my Shows & Promotion: BeLive: http://bit.ly/3p7E0DB Get Your Book In Front Of Thousands of Potential Buyers! https://bit.ly/2HJ38Qu Logitech HD Pro Webcam: https://amzn.to/362BuXP Wired Earbuds with Microphone: http://amzn.to/3p1pmOi Lavalier Lapel Microphone: http://amzn.to/3p9EFVo Blue Yeti USB Mic: https://amzn.to/395hExi ATR2100-USB Cardioid Dynamic Microphone: http://amzn.to/3qzEy5A LED Video Light Kit: http://amzn.to/360Qg1w Neewer Ring Light Kit: http://amzn.to/392bON2
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what does age look like we discussed
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that question and more with my very
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special guest
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Joey Garrity on this episode of the
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little white lie welcome to little white
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guest today is Joey Garrity and we're
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going to be talking about a topic that
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she and I talk about all the time it's
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all about age right it's all about age
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but let me tell you a little bit about
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her first she's the founder of 113
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branding digital studio she worked for
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15 plus years in the entertainment
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industry
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four top studios such as Sony Pictures
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and Walt Disney Company just to name a
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few and she is also the host of the
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popular live show the Hollywood
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spotlight series featuring television
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film and online Hollywood industry
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influencers so without further ado let
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me invite my special guest
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Joey Garrity into the show hello Joe
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Joey how you doing today hey Karen thank
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you for having me
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well I'm really excited that you're here
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and you know that I like to start the
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show always with this question and so
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Joey Garrity what is your little white
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lie well I actually done or haven't had
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up to recently a like a facial routine
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so in other words I would just kind of
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you know take my makeup off and I
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wouldn't buy any kind of expensive like
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lotions or anything like that and I get
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asked all the time people are like wow
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your skin looks amazing
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but there was a point especially
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recently and we talked about this but I
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was just like that's gonna have to
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change yeah I get that you know what I
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kind of resemble that that remark
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because me too
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i-i've been I what I like to say I'm
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really bad girl I spend all these years
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until I hit like I don't know 60 and I
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said hmm
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I think I'd better start taking care of
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this right barely even put on sunscreen
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I'm like this is this might be an issue
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this might be an issue
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it is definitely I think an issue but
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you know what I mean you're a beautiful
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woman and I think that that this is all
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part of that whole age question what we
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do to ourselves and what we let media
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tell us and we let other people tell us
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so that's really the topic for today so
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we're gonna we're just going to go right
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into the the subject let's talk about
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I'm just gonna find this right now there
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are four things that we're going to talk
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about when we talk about what does age
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look like right so the first thing is in
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our marketplace yeah bracing that super
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boomer thing right so let's talk about
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how many times that people come over to
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you and say or they say it to me all the
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time they say you don't look your age I
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know I'm just what the heck is that that
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always bothers me and I'm like am I
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supposed to take that as a compliment I
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guess I'm like because I don't take it
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as a compliment and here's what I want
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there's what we were talking about the
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other days as I was I was asking Care
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Month
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how many times have you walked up to a
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man and asked him his age like honest to
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god like just think about that for a
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second I couldn't even count on my hand
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unless of course they were like you know
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super young and hating on us we're like
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how old are you
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it is rude it is rude it's just it's
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part of society though I think that
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society wants us to stay forever young
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whatever that word young means right
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yeah yeah like it's it like it's a bad
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thing that like we're supposed to stay
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sixteen eighteen and thirty coming up
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god forbid we go over that god forbid we
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go over that and I love to when men will
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kind of like beat around the bush when I
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know they're gonna they're really just
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trying to figure out how old I am so
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they ask me what you know what year I
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went to high school
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are you kids ever say that to somebody
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else you know or how about the comment
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that 60 or is the new 40 right Oh 50 is
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the new 20 or 30 I don't know what that
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means because quite frankly when
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somebody says that's not what 60 looks
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like is there it in the dictionary does
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it say 60 looks like this I don't know
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right cat just blogged about this it's
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such a great blog and she talks about
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how that statement is annoying and I'm
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like Thank You cat it was like so
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authentic and I totally agree
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again why are we on ticking clocks and
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yet it would be it would be looked at
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rude to ask anyone else about this
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particular question so true so okay so
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here's the question as we get older how
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to respond to the society message and
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because that's that's really it how do
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we then show up when we're being
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bombarded constantly oh yeah exactly
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well one thing is as I will tell you
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what's helped change my mindset and
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really helped me get over the hump is
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self-care I didn't have a ton of
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self-care clearly I was not taking care
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of my butt you know but now it's the
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ritual of every single day around the
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self-care because there's something you
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talk about all the time - Karen I think
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is really beautiful is confidence yes
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being confident in your own skin and
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being confident about the way we're
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walking into rooms and how we're walking
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out of rooms right very times the way I
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think that we handle all this and I
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really happen to believe that women are
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gorgeous
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at any age there and that is part of the
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confidence thing I did a post in a show
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about that about going to Las Vegas and
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feeling very invisible and very not
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confident about how I looked when I was
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growing this you know hair out and I
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really felt there was a shift for me the
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minute I said well you know what I'm not
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gonna let anybody tell me how to look
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just watch me and that confidence came
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in and it totally changed it changed my
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game yeah it did
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it does it really does it goes back to
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the South kerogen about because when you
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walk into a room you got to walk in
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there like you own it
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right so with these questions these
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backhanded questions I don't worry about
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them anymore and by the way as soon as
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someone once they get past these
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ridiculous questions and they just ask
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my age I tell them very carefully I'm 50
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and then they go and you don't look 50 I
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don't then they go right back and you
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know what I don't just do that you know
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I'm gonna be 62 this year a couple of
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months and I already tell people that
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I'm 62 I go out of my way a six months
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before I turn the next stage I'm already
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I it's like I dare people to say you
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don't look that age or really or or you
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do look that age in some cases you know
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but why is this even a conversation that
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that's what it really gets me that's the
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part that gets me how is this even
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become a conversation by the way I think
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my mom is one of the hottest women on
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the planet yeah right she walks into a
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room and everyone is like Hello race
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honey she's stunning inside now exactly
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because she's confident she walks in and
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she holds herself and here's the thing
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is I've had some women say to me well
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when they quit asking I'll be really
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upset and I'm like really I mean you're
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gonna be so cat just said and I'm gonna
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put it up just for a moment but it will
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block the whole screen so I'm just gonna
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put it up because I want cat to see this
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up there but then I'm gonna move it down
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and actually read what it says as part
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of my modern goddess workshop homework
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was to appreciate our bodies while we
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put on lotion I'm already getting
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nervous so when I say when I hear that
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that we caress our skin while putting on
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our face creams that we slow down and
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pay attention
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loving wherever we are is so key Thank
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You cat that is so important it is so
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true and it's again it's these rituals
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you know when I was younger I didn't pay
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any attention to the rituals because I
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didn't think I really had to write I
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wish I would have done it when I was
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younger because I would have not maybe
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had to jump cliffs like I've had to in
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the last ten years you know to catch up
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with all these rituals so I do oh and
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encourage everyone no matter what age
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are out there
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to find these kind of rituals find these
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kind of tools these inner game and
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external games and and and incorporate
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into your everyday life it will change
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your life almost overnight
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hi I'm interesting it's so interesting
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to me how fast things will live I I so
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agree and by the way guys if you're
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whether you're listening live or on
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replay if you want more information
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about Joey just put Joey in the comments
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and like magic something will pop up and
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you'll get to have more information
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about Joey just one of them cuz I put
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that up there oh my it's like magic it
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is totally magic so I wanted to ask you
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you you have you have worked and
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continue to work in a male-dominated
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world Hollywood is male-dominated we all
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are reading the news we're hearing the
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news we're hearing what's going on what
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was it like living in a male-dominated
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arena in terms of the whole age thing is
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it eat is it harder for a woman as they
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get older is it harder for a man as they
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get older or is it the same it was a
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nightmare
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hmm it was it was it was a 24-hour
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seven-day-a-week nightmare in essence
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that it's not just that but there's a
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lot of stars yeah right so the starlets
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would get younger and younger and
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younger and even though your career was
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progressing faster faster and faster you
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couldn't help but walk into a dinner or
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a brunch and be like holy moley the
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prettiest the prettiest typically moved
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there right so age does become such a
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center stone but not just age your
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weight your hair you know your you know
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the way you know the way you dress
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anything that has to do with anything
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right about your physicality it becomes
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a center of focus and I'll tell you
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Karen is a what really start happening
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for me is as I started to kind of lose
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myself and all that ah lose myself in
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all of that and then I was just like
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this is full dot dot dot
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I just feel a shot-up of us you know
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we've been we've been friends and
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colleagues for a while and we started
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live streaming together and
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and part of you know conversations
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between friends and colleagues we talk
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about a lot of different things and I
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know several months ago you asked me you
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know what are you doing
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what do you cuz I do know Brett I did I
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was just saying I was like what what's
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happening here and where do I buy it how
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do I get it and then you're so kind and
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you started sending me products generous
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I would just like products were just
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showing up like laughter I'm like I love
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this this is amazing but however I have
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to be honest with you if you hadn't just
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knowing you and you hadn't done that I
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probably wouldn't have given as much
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leverage because I'm very slow to try
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new things but this has been a complete
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want everyone out there to know about it
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because it's part of your your company
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I'm smart it is part of my company and
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so you know I want to throw up a photo
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yeah so what we're talking about is
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this has been a huge game-changer for me
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and again I want to just say this out
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I do work
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it works I don't say this lightly and
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I'm not a big make up work where anyways
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and never have been I don't wear any
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anymore I slap on some lipstick I you
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know you get older you get age spots you
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do you get lines you do whatever you get
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and and it is what you get is really
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smooth me out yeah yeah it has it's it's
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I'm such a fan of it that I've turned my
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mom onto it I've turned my sister onto
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it I mean people are like because I am
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that girl then just like I don't talk
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about products at this level especially
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when it comes to beauty products right
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something like a facial a face cream but
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I cannot say enough about this product
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and therefore I was just like I'm
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jumping in I'm jumping I I and I've
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never jumped on a team like this ever
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that it actually the reality is Joey
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called me and she said this stuff is
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really great I want to do this I want to
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know more about it and we decided really
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to come on have you come on the show and
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let's talk a little bit about it because
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it really is something that I'm really
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proud of I stepped into the CEO position
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of this company I'm smart while I'm
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doing the little white lie you know and
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that is also a statement it says we
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women can do and then can do anything we
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want with you well yeah we're mold we're
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doing a lot of multiple yeah I'm putting
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it so cat says she's totally willing to
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try these out what you really should cat
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it and I'd love to hear what you guys
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say and truly you know put put me Joey
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just like Joey not even the whole world
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Joey Garrity just Joey in the comments
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and we make sure that you get some
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information or if you want to know right
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now you can go over to 113 Hollywood him
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I love that name Hollywood him come and
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you can check out the products go check
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out face I have the people like asking
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me for this product right because
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because I have the travel size to you
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and I was like no and usually I'm very
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generous and I was like hell doesn't
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know I'm like I am holding on as you
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know you and I are gonna be traveling
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pretty soon and I was just like he
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cannot be a day without this yeah it
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really does make me feel good and here's
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the thing it goes back to south care
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right it goes back to self care it's not
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about a
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it's not i literally kicked that to the
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curb a couple months ago right when I
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turned 50 I at first I was like whoa you
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know I just leaned on my inner gape and
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I was just like this is who I am and I'm
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like and I'm proud of I actually think I
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look better today than in my 30s I
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really do I swear to you because of the
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self-care and then my inner game and the
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inner beauty and like me embracing my
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life with joy and not being stressed out
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like it used to or self-hatred right
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never skinny enough never pretty enough
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no those days are now that doesn't creep
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up once in a while but the self-care
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portion of it helps to keep it quiet it
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does it absolutely does and you know
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even as I got older the self-care is not
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just for the what you put on your face
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it's what you put on your feet I used to
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wear five-inch heels mm-hmm not good for
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your body not good for your feet at all
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and I used to say if I ever stop wearing
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five-inch heels and I have definitely
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gotten old and and today my mindset is
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completely different I'm not old
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I'm just smart I win glad shoes smart
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[Laughter]
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you're wondering how to get product and
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you want to chat try this out definitely
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go to 113 Hollywood hem and while you're
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there and while you're looking around
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I'd like you also to make sure you check
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out Joey and and see all the amazing
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things she's doing go to 1:13 branding
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dot-com and also check out the Hollywood
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spotlight series it is an amazing show
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she's had some amazing guests on there
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directors and producers and these are
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really great people that she knows from
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her past years in the industry and
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jumping back in the industry because I
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know you're back in the industry and you
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were working with these directors and
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producers and sharing your brilliance so
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please go check her out over there any
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last words you want to share Joey no I
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just want to also share out there too
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that Karen and I are gonna be heading
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down the Hollywood yes we are we are
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we're heading down the Hollywood one of
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the directors that a client of mine
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we're going to be on our set we're gonna
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be doing live shows from there and it's
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gonna be super exciting and so much fun
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and then we're
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and also do a party celebrating our
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shows and doing live shows from there
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too so this one that just you know say
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congratulations to both of us because we
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put a lot of time and energy into this
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and it's just it's been the most wildest
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craziest fun ride ever it's only just
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begun we're gonna get ready to rock and
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roll with Joey thank you so much for
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joining me on the show I am just so
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excited that we we work together we play
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together and I look forward to seeing
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you next week when we go down to
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Hollywood I'm gonna drop you down into
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the greenroom
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as we finish up the show see you later
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so guys this is the super boomer moment
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these are this is the moment in the show
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where I say this is something that
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really struck a chord with me and I want
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to share it with all of you and that is
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the idea of self-care you know look as
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we get older I don't think we get old
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old we get wiser and I consider as my
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friend Cindy Joseph said rest her soul
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that she considers all of these things
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wisdom her wisdom lines and her wisdom
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age spots and and it doesn't mean that
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we can't take care of ourselves and it
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doesn't mean we can't have self-care and
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we can use products that are going to
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help us but at the end of the day we
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should be confident about who we are and
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take good care of our bodies inside and
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out and lastly I just want to thank you
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because we know that you have a choice
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as to where you spend your time and I
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want to thank you that you chose to
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spend your time with Joey and I today so
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go out and give somebody an awesome day
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and we'll see you next week on the next
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episode of the little white lie good bye
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everyone
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you
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