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S2:E8 What Are The Steps To Living A Happier Life?
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Jul 18, 2019
On this episode of The Little White Lie Caren and Molly talk about “What are the 5 daily steps to living happier?” They cover the following topics: Reading & Internet: “You don’t even have to go outside the planet to learn something new every day. Open up some of the pages so you can see them.” Pro-Aging: Offset some of the natural aging. Everybody’s going to have senior moments, right? That’s, part of aging that’s inevitable, you can do a lot prevent too. Brain Power: “Using your brain every day. This is something that has been proven to actually help prevent cognitive decline, help prevent dementia, help prevent the onset of Alzheimer’s”. Molly Watts is the Co-Creator and Founder of “Five for Life and the Five for Life Planner”. My Direct Links, Programs & Equipment I use for my Shows & Promotion: BeLive: http://bit.ly/3p7E0DB Get Your Book In Front Of Thousands of Potential Buyers! https://bit.ly/2HJ38Qu Logitech HD Pro Webcam: https://amzn.to/362BuXP Wired Earbuds with Microphone: http://amzn.to/3p1pmOi Lavalier Lapel Microphone: http://amzn.to/3p9EFVo Blue Yeti USB Mic: https://amzn.to/395hExi ATR2100-USB Cardioid Dynamic Microphone: http://amzn.to/3qzEy5A LED Video Light Kit: http://amzn.to/360Qg1w Neewer Ring Light Kit: http://amzn.to/392bON2
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what are the five daily steps to living
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happier I discussed this and more with
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my very special guest motivator and
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entrepreneur Molly watts on today's
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episode of the little white lie welcome
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to little white lie everyone this is a
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lifestyle show for super boomers and
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beyond that will enhance your lifestyle
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health empowerment and more hey guys
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this is karen Glasser i am very excited
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about our special guest today Molly and
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I met on Instagram we did Instagram and
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it's it's very cool what she's doing I'm
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excited about her because of her story
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and who she is she is the co-creator and
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founder of fiber light and the fiber
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life planner which were going to be
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revealing today very exciting she is all
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about aging with optimism and living a
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happier longer life and that's her
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message that she's sharing through the
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fight for life journal and movement
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which is inspired by her father who will
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turn 91 this January and she is joining
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us today so I'm very excited to welcome
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Molly watts
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how you doin Molly hey Karen thanks for
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having me so happy to be here well I am
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absolutely delighted that you are here
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and for many many reasons
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we bonded on on Instagram we bonded on
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our mutual missions and and today I
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asked you as the very first question
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Molly what what is your little white lie
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oh well I guess my little white lie and
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I'm not sure if it's you know so much a
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lie that I tell outside but it's
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certainly a lie that I've told myself
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and that is that since I went through
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menopause that you know that it was just
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gonna be a foregone conclusion that I
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was going to gain weight and I sort of
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just accepted that which is kind of and
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then I sort of got with the program and
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started taking a little better care of
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myself and turns out that it was in fact
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just an excuse and a little why I was
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telling myself actually can you can
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still this weight if you worked at it I
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love that and you know what for our
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viewers whether you
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here on repay or you're here live how
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many of you resonate with that how many
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of you give yourself that gave yourself
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that excuse that oh I'm gonna get to
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that you know that age and I'm gonna get
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heavier and I this is there's no you
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know it's an excuse hey put it in the
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comments let us know if you yourself
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have that little light line and we've
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got Joey Joey says hi Karen hey Joey
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good to see you
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alright today we are talking about what
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are those five daily steps to living
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happier now I know that you literally
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have five steps and I'm gonna put the
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first one up I know that the first one
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is move what does that mean well we say
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daily action number one is move and it's
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it's number one for a reason because
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really one of the things that people
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fear most about aging is losing mobility
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and it's simply one of the easiest
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things to prevent as people get older
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and that's by moving everyday and that
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doesn't mean you have to go out and do
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CrossFit or run a half marathon it means
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that you have to be organic in your
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movement and you need to do it you know
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a little more today than you did
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yesterday and you start from where you
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are and you get better and there's
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numerous numerous studies that show that
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no matter how old you are whether you're
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starting at 50 or 60 or even 80 you can
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and improve your and prevent things of
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injury and your loss of mobility just
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simply by moving everyday and that's I
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mean it's such an important thing and it
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really is actually easy to do
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walking is moving right yes absolutely
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walking moving and even so much as some
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of the things that we've looked at
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organic movement like you know using a
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spoon in a whisk to to bake things
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instead of a you know a hand mixer you
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know good getting out and just getting
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into organic movement and making
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yourself stand up more instead of
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sitting down and and it can be up to do
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and ensure and going on from there and
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building and strength training and
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lifting weights and things like
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that everything helps but it's just one
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of the things that's most easily
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prevented is the loss of mobility and
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that that way that we do it is by simply
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moving and then not exactly just by
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moving just get up yeah and take take a
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movement okay so what is number two
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number two is learn and so I know you
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mentioned my dad my dad was a
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superintendent of schools my entire life
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there he is
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yep there he is about to turn 91 this
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January and just still very vital alert
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and you know he just got he's just been
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recently taking on a new challenge again
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in terms of becoming an organizer for
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something and you know he continues and
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he did learn to play the organ when he
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was in his 80s Wow yeah and the thing of
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that is is that it's you know there's so
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there's an importance there just in
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terms of you know feeling good but again
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this is something that has been proven
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to actually help prevent cognitive
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decline help prevent dementia help
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prevent the onset of Alzheimer's and
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that is using your brain every day and
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whether it's you know and there's really
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just I I think there's like no excuse
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right anymore because there was way what
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are some ways I mean the obvious ways
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Reid yeah right right exactly I mean the
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internet everybody um you know if you
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don't have your own computer most people
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can find access to the internet on at
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through the library but I mean the
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Internet has so much information and not
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all good but you know you can learn you
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can go to a site learn so much and you
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know proudly we will say that even in
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the in our planner that we have you know
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we have a learning learning tip every
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day just something a little piece of
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trivia just so you don't even have to go
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outside the planner to learn something
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new every day we're gonna write about
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that actually have an open up some of
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the pages so you can see them because
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that it as you said that number two is
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learn and there are actually something
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to learn every single day even if you
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don't want to go out and find it right
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Journal right always and it could also
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be like even learning a new hobby
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whether that's knitting or painting or
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you know those taking those steps to
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learn something new no matter what it is
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is helps actually create new synapses in
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the brain and again helps prevent
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cognitive decline and dementia so it's
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it's critically important one of the
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questions that we answer quite
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frequently on this show are you ever too
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old to do something or to learn
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something or to take that next step I'm
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sure you that long probably have some
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very strong feelings about that oh I
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definitively have yeah very strong
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feelings about that my dad is proof
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positive that you are just simply never
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too old and I think that it's something
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that keeps him you know motivated an
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optimistic and that's really about what
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we're about
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it's about aging with optimism right and
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keeping a positive mindset as you get
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older it's not that challenges aren't
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going to come along it's not that things
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aren't going to happen it's being able
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to have a positive mindset about it and
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keeping your keeping your brain healthy
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and keeping your brain you know vital
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and and trying to you know offset some
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of that natural you know I mean
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everybody's gonna have senior moments
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right there right I mean there's a
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there's a part of aging that's just
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inevitable but you can do a lot to
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prevent to to prevent things like that
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absolutely you know I'm wondering what
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our viewers are thinking right now what
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are those things that you're doing every
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day to learn a little thing let us know
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what you're doing are you reading are
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you searching on the Internet are you
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going to the library
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are you learning a new skill what are
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you doing every single day to learn
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something to keep your cells vital what
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is number three
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yeah so number three is share there it
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goes and you know again
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this is really the number one two and
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three we're really dedicated to the
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three things that we hear most often
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that people fear about getting older so
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number one is like losing their mobility
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number two you know cognitive decline
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people are very afraid
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losing their you know cognitive
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abilities and number three people are
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very worried about loneliness and
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isolation and it's something that is a
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real problem for the elderly in our not
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only in the United States but really
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across the world but it we say that it
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is an actionable habit so share is all
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about social engagement and it's about
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developing a habit of connecting with
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people and again we have so many
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opportunities in the world today but you
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know it's as simple and as easy as you
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know striking up a conversation with the
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with the grocery clerk it's as easy as
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going out and having a conversation with
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your mailman with your neighbor picking
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up a phone and calling an old friend
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these are things again it's easier you
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know as people age and your life becomes
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you know you're no longer you're no
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longer working perhaps in an office
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place you're no longer right seeing at
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the school you know that you used your
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kids grew up and you don't have that
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natural just that that you know
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automatic time where you're gonna go in
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and see each other and so you have to
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you have to work at it and it's but it
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is a habit and it is something that we
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say you know you really have to make it
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a focus and take action on it every day
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right and so number four he doesn't give
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oh yeah yeah well you know I think
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gratitude has been kind of a movement
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for a while now but there's actually
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proof again and and this is something I
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should say about all of our five daily
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actions these are all backed by science
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to not only increase longevity but to
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improve happiness so there's there's a
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reason for all of them and the number
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four give is all about being having a
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sense of gratitude and joy that you know
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and thankfulness for where you are and
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what you have and you know it can be a
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little bit challenging probably as
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people as you get older and you start to
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have some challenges or you know that's
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like I said this isn't about like going
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through life and thinking everything's
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just going to be oh oh
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you know a cakewalk it means it's gonna
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what it was I know it means it but you
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know you have to be grateful for where
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you are and what you have and again it's
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improving that the people that have that
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perspective murder able to express that
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and actually express it which is gay and
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why we wanted to have it as a part of
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writing in this in our planner you know
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and I'm we're here today with Molly
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watts
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she is the the co-founder of the five
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for life journals and we're talking
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about the five daily steps that people
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can take
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we just finished number four which give
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is give and you'll notice that I put up
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these these are the journals that we're
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talking and we'll talk a little bit
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about them as we continue on there's
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four one for each season one for each
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three months basically three yeah ninety
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days you wait for thirteen weeks and the
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I mean the book is beautiful I want to
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actually pull this down for a second so
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that you can actually I'm going to fold
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this down I don't know if we can see
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this here but it's laid out beautifully
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and each one of these daily steps are
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actually listed in the journal so all
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you're doing is it's a prompt for me I
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look at it as the prompt it's prompting
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me which one of these five things and
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number I'd is let go right let go and
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obviously that has to do with letting go
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of stress and anger and fear and regret
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and you know these are again these
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emotions are all have been proven to be
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part of some of our chronic disease
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states like hypertension which you know
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it's high blood pressure these go hand
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in hand and so being able to let go of
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those feelings and of those bad emotions
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negative stressful things in our lives
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is really important to not only prevent
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disease but also just to you know it's
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it's a therapeutic thing and it's been
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shown again people that are able to set
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a set aside their regret set aside their
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anger that's they are less they have
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less depression they
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have less you know right hype those
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things and so there's it's again it's
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something that is critically important
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and as we age I mean I think everybody
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has it's I think more common that you
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might have something that you look back
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on in your past and you regret right
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make it easy for them yeah yeah
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hopefully so do you have a slogan that
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says living your happier longer life
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starts now let's talk about that yeah
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you know what's great about all of our
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five daily actions is like I said they
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are all proven to increase longevity and
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improve overall happiness but it isn't
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it's not like something where you have
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to wait until you know you're it wait
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five years for this to take place the
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the right of way when you start doing
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these things you're gonna feel better
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and so we say you know you're gonna have
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a happier longer life and it starts now
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you don't have to wait why wait right
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why we right now so let's talk about
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your why you've already mentioned a
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little bit about this what's your why
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well you know for me if they're yes
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again um I had sort of a you know my I
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watched as my parents took as they
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started to age and unfortunately sadly
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my mom took a different path she spent
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really the last 20 years of her life she
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passed away in 2012 at the age of 80 and
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even though she reached 80 she she
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didn't do it with you know she was
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progressively getting more isolated
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getting lonelier getting more just kind
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of you know didn't move much and she
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really spent the last 20 years of her
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life really in decline and despite the
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fact my dad has had four major heart
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procedures took care of my mom
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battled prostate cancer he you know he's
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going to be 91 and he's still he's still
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going you know and he's still he's still
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growing and he still sees his life as
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something that he wants to you know be a
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part of and he wants to - he's you know
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I can't imagine I can't imagine the last
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20 years without him around
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so you know he's an inspiration and and
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that's an inspiration to all of us when
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we can first of all to have our parents
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still with us at that age yeah and I'm
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gonna be able to say and know and
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understand that they are the reason that
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we are who we are or part of the reason
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we are who we are
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yeah and I think that also what I
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realized as when I very first you know
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kind of thought about this whole thing
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is I realized that my dad had a massive
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heart attack when he was 50 years old
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and I was in high school and I remember
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it very vividly and he started taking
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actions you know he didn't just get to
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91 in a vacuum he has he has made moving
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a priority in his life he's continued to
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learn he's very socially engaged he's
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got cheese he's busier than I am half
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the time you know he's doing so much and
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he's constantly grateful he's always
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told me you know that he sees everything
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past his 50th you know 50 as as gravy
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because he's been very grateful for
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these years and he doesn't he just he's
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always I think you know he he works on
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he doesn't hold on to anything negative
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he gets rid of it in his life and yeah
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so we've been talking a lot about these
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five daily steps and we've also started
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to mention the fact that you have an
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amazing journal that's out yeah yeah I
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first of all I love the colors I love
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everything about this I love I'm a
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journal girl anyone who knows me knows
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that I I collect journals
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this isn't Brad will becoming one of my
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favorite ones because I love the prompts
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in it I love the ease of use and I love
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the ability to just get to it get it
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done and move into my day and you and so
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it's a set of for 13 weeks I'm gonna
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have a image up so that anybody can see
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it and just put it on on soullow we have
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a special offer for our viewers today
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for them to actually go pick up a copy
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of this it is just launching right now
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like right now yeah very exciting we're
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gonna send you over to shop dot five
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four light co-ceo nazi om and when
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you do that we're going to because of
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the generosity of modeling and her
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boomer in there into the code you will
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get 15% awesome yeah thank you so yeah
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and you know what it's you don't need
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somebody to be pushing you to do this
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the New Year is right around the corner
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we we all tend to think that that's a
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starting point or an ending point the
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new year to the air you can start at any
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time but it does happen to be just
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around the corner so if you were looking
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for that incentive I encourage you to
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take a look at this they're beautiful
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the colors are soothing they come in up
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you can do it in a box set or if you
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don't want to make the hundred percent
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commitment right now just get the first
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13 weeks right yep absolutely
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okay whatever dates you want in there
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you start you go in there there's a
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monthly version right there's that
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there's the week I mean it's great
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journal what are some of the hi I'm so I
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think you I mean you mentioned it so one
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of the things I really like about it is
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that it's two pages per day and really
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you can you know you can keep track of
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your daily appointments and everything
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there but the the right side of the
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planner is really all about tracking
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those five daily actions and what I've
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had what the feedback that I've gotten
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from people which I really really love
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and I love this idea is that you know by
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tracking everything and writing things
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down and actually putting in you know
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thoughts about the time you're spending
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with people or you know just even at a
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lunch date with your friend or a family
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member it's really a piece of personal
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history in the making you know and if
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you do it and you really keep track I
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mean like what a gift to give to you
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know a child your child your grandchild
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right to say oh and and this is I love
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seeing that kind of stuff written in my
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dad's handwriting you know it's
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something that can be shared hopefully
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and I love the evening of the evening
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reflections because I'm before you get
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into bed they say that our minds are
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open and what you are thinking about
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before you get into bed and go to sleep
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you dream about and you and you it just
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becomes part of you so that you're ready
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to go the next day so I love this
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evening reflection the ability to look
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back on your day and put down what you
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were grateful for and feel it and sit in
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a moment of it so that it actually
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internalize it's a beautiful beautiful
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job Molly I I'm I have to tell you very
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don't thank you thank you thank you I
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really apparent and again I am the queen
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of journal so I just I really I just
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love everything about it and I'm just
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really happy that we're here to share on
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your you know as you're getting ready to
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launch here so again you go over to shop
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dot five for Life Co put in super boomer
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and get 15% off I'm gonna actually let
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people know how they can get in touch
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with you as well because I know that
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people are going to want to know how
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they can really connect with you you've
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got a great Facebook presence they can
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go to facebook-dot-com forward-slash
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find it for a life CO that's how they
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can connect and join with you there they
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can follow you and join in the fun on
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Instagram as I do and live happier
21:03
longer and of course following you on
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Twitter at live happy longer and um and
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again you can go to the website at 5:00
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for life CO so there's lots of different
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ways to communicate and to connect with
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you and to learn about how awesome you
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guys are and what you're doing over
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there any last thoughts we will share
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with us yeah you know in part of our
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even off of five for life Co is we
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actually have our podcast too which is
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called the live happier longer podcast
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so you can find this across all major
21:37
podcast players and we have some great
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episodes hopefully you end with care if
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you hopefully people have listened to
21:45
because we've had you in our show I know
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I was gonna say and I was honored to be
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a guest on your show and I had a blast
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actually I had a blast we've been
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sharing it out so I encourage you to
21:55
listen to that as well on Molly's site I
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just want to thank you it's time for our
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super Boomer moment so what I'm going to
22:03
be doing is I'm going to drop you into
22:05
the green room and have a little bit of
22:07
a moment with mocha with my guests and
22:10
my audience out there and I want to
22:11
thank you because I know how
22:13
you are you're in launch so I'm going to
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say thank you for joining us today Molly
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all of our guests and our visitors and
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people who are watching today I know how
22:21
pleased they are that had a chance to
22:22
get to know you and go out there
22:24
everyone enjoy your five daily steps to
22:26
living a happier life
22:28
thanks so much now we're going to talk a
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little bit about that super boomer
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moment I love the super boomer moment
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this is where we share something that
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really struck a chord with me during the
22:43
show and there were so many things that
22:45
struck a chord that it's going to be
22:46
kind of hard to pick out the one thing
22:48
that I think is the the thing you know
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we we are we live very very busy lives
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and I like I like to you know as I say I
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journal I do miracle morning I'm now a
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huge fan you know a five for life I am
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one of those people that when when they
23:09
see something and they grab on to it and
23:11
if it makes a difference in my life the
23:12
first thing that I want to do is I want
23:14
to shout it out from the rafters to let
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people know that I found something that
23:18
has made a difference in my life and
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this is one of those things
23:22
I know Molly can't respond because she's
23:24
down in the green room but I am really
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really blessed I feel very blessed that
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I had an opportunity to meet Molly and
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social media and that's really the
23:32
message here for me is that don't close
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yourself off to the opportunities that
23:37
are going to roll out in front of you
23:38
maybe it's in social media maybe it's at
23:41
a live networking opportunity maybe
23:43
you've taken an online relationship
23:45
offline don't miss out on those
23:48
opportunities as they roll in front of
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you because had I not looked in my
23:52
messages on Instagram and started a
23:54
conversation with Molly I never would
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have known about this and I never would
23:59
have known about her community and her
24:00
mission and her story about her father
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how amazing is that how wonderful is
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that so my you know my super boomer
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moment is don't close your eyes keep
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them wide open you never know what's
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going to cross your path I want to thank
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everyone I know that you have a choice
24:18
as to how you spend your time and you
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chose to spend it with us today on the
24:23
little white lie we're very honored that
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you did
24:26
that I encourage you to go out give
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somebody an awesome day and visit us
24:31
next time on the next episode of the
24:34
little white lie have a great day
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everyone bye bye
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