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S3:E3 Be Your Own Superstar at Any Age
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Jul 18, 2019
S3:E3 Be Your Own Superstar at Any Age. Caren Glasser talks with brand director Joie Gharrity about this and more on this episode of The Super Boomer Lifestyle Show! http://www.TheSuperBoomerLifestyle.com #superboomer My Direct Links, Programs & Equipment I use for my Shows & Promotion: BeLive: http://bit.ly/3p7E0DB Get Your Book In Front Of Thousands of Potential Buyers! https://bit.ly/2HJ38Qu Logitech HD Pro Webcam: https://amzn.to/362BuXP Wired Earbuds with Microphone: http://amzn.to/3p1pmOi Lavalier Lapel Microphone: http://amzn.to/3p9EFVo Blue Yeti USB Mic: https://amzn.to/395hExi ATR2100-USB Cardioid Dynamic Microphone: http://amzn.to/3qzEy5A LED Video Light Kit: http://amzn.to/360Qg1w Neewer Ring Light Kit: http://amzn.to/392bON2 (Some links on this video page may be affiliate links that can result in small commissions & help support the channel, they DO NOT cause you to pay any extra money for an item)
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hello and welcome to the super boomer
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lifestyles show this is the show where
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we talk about super boomers and more and
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this show will enhance your life your
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health and empower you and beyond I am
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so excited that you're here my name is
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Karen Glaser and I am your livestream
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host and we do this every single week we
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bring in major super boomers and we talk
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about what it really means to be a super
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boomer and today is no no we're still
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the night we're having super boomer
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today I completely lost the word I have
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no idea what I was going to say but in
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the meantime I'm gonna go ahead and
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invite my guests to come on in just a
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second but today we're going to be
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tackling how to be the super star of
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your own life at any age because how
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many people have told you that you're
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too old and we're going to just break
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that message today because you're not
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too old you can always be super boomer
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no matter what age you are our special
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guest today is Joey Garrity she is a
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brand director a livestream host she's
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an author she's an international speaker
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I'm exhausted
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Joey she does everything and she is my
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partner in crime and we just have a
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glass when we come on and we do these
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live streams
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she's got 15 plus years of studio
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experience with in the hollywood and
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with disney and her message has
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continually been and it's what resonates
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with me and it's why I just absolutely
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adore working with Joey is that we can
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be and we should be the superstar of our
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own life we should be shining the
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visibility on ourselves because only
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then can we rise higher and higher so
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today we have Joey Garrity on the show
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to talk about that and more so I'm going
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to go ahead and bring her in and say
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welcome Joey how you doing today hi
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Karen thank you for having me I'm doing
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really great well when we're talking
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about the show today it was just like a
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no brainer we were gonna talk about
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being a superstar because that hits your
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message you have a book out I mean that
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is you you have a lot of things out but
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you talked about this a lot you you'd
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not only talk about it but you go out
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there and try to show people how they
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should be shining the spotlight on
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themselves and if they don't do it you
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do it for them isn't that right so you
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know Before we jump into the show this
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is called the Super Bowl
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style show so I always like to ask what
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a super boomer means to you how would
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you describe a super boomer
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superb rumor just that does the inner
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game work and it really shows up and
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takes inspired action and never quits
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dreaming you don't like we you know we
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kick the digits to the curb we're just
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kicking to the curb is not about age yes
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absolutely not about age so you know I
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describe super boomer as being fearless
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superb rumors just they're defined by
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how they show up in life and nothing
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gets in their way they the retirement
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word is not even a real word in the
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dictionary for them and and and I'm a
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super boomer right and and you're a
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skipper boomer we do you even think
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about retiring I mean really know it
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exactly you would do your next next
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right your next net you know if you're
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here on life make sure you let us know
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your life put your comments up on the
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screen if you are here on replay make
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sure you let us know you're here on
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replay and why don't you let us know how
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you describe a super boomer what does a
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super boomer mean to you and so we're
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going to jump into the first tip that we
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talked about and that is tip number one
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believe that it is your birthright to be
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your own superstar stand in your own
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spotlight and that you can change the
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world let's talk about that what does
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that really mean yeah so I just want to
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identify that until we can fully stand
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on our own spotlight it's very very
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difficult to be the ultimate weak out in
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the marketplace right and by standing in
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our own spotlight we're opening doors
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for others to do the same right so this
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this isn't being an I it's actually the
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ultimate gift of sharing your purpose
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and your gifts and talents with the
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world because when you share others will
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share because I believe and I know you
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do too Karen that we're all connected on
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a very deep level the first people are
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to believe that you can change the world
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and I know for myself that that was that
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belief system was not there for a very
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very long time I felt that it was about
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making everyone else a superstar and
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standing in the shadows and encouraging
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and Cheerilee
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everyone else and I didn't believe that
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I had the superpower to change a world
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on any level I just did so what was the
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light switch that went on that changed
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your mind I was fortunate to start
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running with people like yourself and
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build a tribe and a network where you
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know caring where you were sharing with
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me you know your aspirations and dreams
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and I was like it was my mind blowing I
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was like right but as we as I started
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running with other spirits or people
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that were sharing their gifts and talent
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on a very big level I started realizing
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that we that absolutely that we can all
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be a game changer and more importantly
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that it's our birthright to be a game
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changer yes and I know you say that and
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I know that you are an international
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speaker and you speak a lot you made
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that your mission especially this year I
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know you talked about it a lot that you
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were stepping out of the shadows and and
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gonna start speaking again and you speak
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about this a lot and one of the things
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that I like to tell people is is that
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one of the ways to get visible and to
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shine that light is technology whether
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whether you feel you're comfortable or
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not technology is where it's hid I mean
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you can you can take that livestream
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camera you can take your selfie stick
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you can take all of this technology
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start small you don't have to start big
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but this is what I love about this this
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picture that I'm putting up here I'm
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gonna put on a solo for a second this
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actually this is really cool because how
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many of you guys go out and travel and
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you have a gazillion cords and gazillion
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little plugs and and things okay this is
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such a great travel organizer for your
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cords and for your selfie stick I mean
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you would you you we all use this right
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yeah absolutely and agree no such an
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excellent point to you Karen because it
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wasn't until you encouraged me to start
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tuning lives and you made it just simple
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we started doing them together weird out
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the limits conference you're like hey
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let's do a couple it's just like riding
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a bike
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however now I wouldn't even dream of not
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doing lives we're encouraging everyone
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on our tribe and beyond to do lives and
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I would like
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I was when they started last year and my
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time today it's just like 90 day like
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the anxiety is not even there anymore
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and you know as I think about what
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you're talking about being that your
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birthright to stand in your spotlight I
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know one of the conversations that you
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and I have a lot of conversations about
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is you know some of the times well I
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wanted like fade into the background
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right and and let let everybody else
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around me do their thing and you are
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constantly saying to me but you need to
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shine the spotlight on you because you
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are the store how many people out there
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do you think or it's got to be a big
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number of people that don't really
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realize that they are the soap star
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right yeah well what society doesn't
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encourage us to be superstars right as a
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matter of fact there oh wait there there
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is what I call the Quentin Tarantino
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myth that gets perpetuated all the time
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in other words that that they were
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they're special or that they got there
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you know just by chance or they were
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lucky you know and these are all
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mythologies that really can keep people
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in the shadows because if things aren't
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necessarily happening for them right
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away they're like okay see I'm not lucky
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or you know I'm not special enough or I
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don't have that it factor like Jennifer
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Aniston or Will Smith and what I'm out
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there and particularly my keynote is I'm
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sharing about what it was like to work
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with the stars and how they there's
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nothing more spectacular about them than
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carrying glass tonight it's you got back
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there faster they had their belief
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system told them I have the capacity the
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gifts and talents to change the world
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and I'm going to and how important is
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branding yourself so that when you're
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shining the spotlight they go oh yeah I
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know who she is like for instance you
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know we talked about this gorgeous
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cashmere scarf you know in it you know
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if you become known as the person not
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just for the content and all the things
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that you do to provide value in service
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but they recognize you because when you
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you show up you're the one who always
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wears the scarf this is a gorgeous scarf
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I mean just absolutely gorgeous
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and the video was such an important 20
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karen kids takes courage takes courage
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to walk in the room and be get noticed
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he's seen in her
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right and that's a big part of all this
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of being your own superstar finding your
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unique point of view and wearing it and
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being confident and walking in and for
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Karen and I a big part of our brand is
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our hair yes I talk about it all the
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time
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thank you yeah you know it really is
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about our hair and you know and it in
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honestly its and I know from your story
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it's a courage for you to step into your
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superstardom and just say I'm owning it
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I'm unique I'm standing in it and you
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did it on camera yeah I did it on the
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camera and you're right I mean my my
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identifying factor at this point this
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stage in my life is my hair because I
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grew it out on on you know camera and
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and it's it's you know it's white and
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silver and whatever color it is and
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people identify that with me and my
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whole show has morphed because of that
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it started out as a little white lie
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right because that's what it's no longer
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alive for me this is this is me this is
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the real me and we've morphed into the
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super boomer lifestyle which basically
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says you know what whatever that is that
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pushes you into that next next embrace
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it embrace your super boomer ISM is that
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an actual word I don't think so we're
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animate we're to coin it it's going to
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the marketing and we're gonna actually
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super boomer ISM but yeah it's hard to
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say let's jump in to tip number two
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there is no such thing as luck it is a
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myth being perpetrated in the
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marketplace you are in charge of being
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your own superstar so you know how many
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times have you been told oh my god
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you're an overnight sensation right or
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or like down in Hollywood and I believed
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it for a long time people used to say oh
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that person has enough factor that
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person has an effector never realizing
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that I had an in factor as well and
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everyone around me had an ick factor
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it's because they just got there sooner
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that they had that there and here's
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nothing - there are people that are born
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into it and what I mean by that is
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they're born into being a rockefeller
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they're born into being a Kennedy
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they're born into being a Smith now Will
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Smith's family and so it gives them an
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egg up very very quickly early in life
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and that's why I really encourage people
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out there stop comparing don't look
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around
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don't look around look at and believe
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and believe in a higher source than
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yourself and tapping into that and kick
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luck to the curb yeah yeah you work Joey
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how hard do you work would you say that
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you're just the luckiest woman in the
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world in front of you
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no we work really hard people that are
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out there shining the spotlight on
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themselves and others they're working
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hard this is there's nothing there's
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nothing now you might be passionate
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about it you might be having a great
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time working hard but there's nothing
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look about it there's not in in and I
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want everyone out there a couple things
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I want everyone to strip the word luck
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Emily out of the vocabulary but being
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willing --fill about how often you use
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it I even still have to catch myself
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I'll be in the middle of the sentence
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I'll be like oh that's so and I'll have
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to stop my face all right because not
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only society but cultures that's the
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weight the luck myth up the mythology
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around luck right right that there's
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that there's a golden ticket or that
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there's you know there's gold at the end
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of the rainbow or you know um you know
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well you weren't lucky this year so
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maybe we'll get lucky next year it is
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literally being perpetuated with inside
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of legacy culture family on top of
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family on top of family and it's me and
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how and I mean I can only imagine how
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that affects people what that is what
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happens right well what happens when
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you're young caring and all of a sudden
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the left mythology starts really
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inundating you in your inner game it
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starts impacting your outer game and
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some people I remember people growing up
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saying you know what I just never can
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catch break
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I'm just not lucky I'm just never gonna
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be that lucky person and I'm thinking
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they're immediately sending out a signal
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right what signal dressing me up good
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that's back to the mindset we talk about
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this on a regular occasion what you put
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out there is what comes back so if you
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are constantly thinking you're not good
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enough and you didn't catch the break
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and all that well guess what you're
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gonna continue not you're gonna continue
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feeling like you're not good enough the
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good stuff is not going to come to you
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so that you can see it
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and act on it and that is part of what
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we're talking about you have to take
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action you do in destiny is it isn't
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rolling the dice this is what we want it
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we want to kick people of this habit and
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again kick that bull luck oh what you
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know to the curb instead we literally
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are driving your own cars and every
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single impact every single thing that's
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happening to us we are so powerful that
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we're creating it we're creating it and
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it really has nothing to do with your
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last name your location how much money
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you were born into how little money
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where you're born it really doesn't it
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packs your mindset right but it has
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nothing to do with luck the universe did
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not drop you in and say see well too bad
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exactly and that leads us into tip
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number three and that is to identify
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your distraction so that you can replace
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them with inspired action so that you
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can actually be your own superstar I
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want to bring up one of the things that
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actually helps me identify my
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distractions and replace them with
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inspired action this is one of the
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things that I do I do yoga now I do
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meditation but I absolutely love the
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show than that so I just had to actually
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bring it up so we could see it it
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absolutely gorgeous has a really cool
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handle on it and again this is one of
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the things that I do I know you you do
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the same thing you do yoga and it's kind
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of cool that this there is something out
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there that can actually help us with
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those distractions so that we can take
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those inspired actions right well you
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know get yoga or any type of discipline
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once you identify what it does is it
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helps you to identify your habits and
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something I love about yoga is that they
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talk about staying on your own mat quit
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looking around and comparing yourself to
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other people's yoga or other people's
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mats we'll just use it symbolically
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right and I feel like I feel like there
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is something about identifying the
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habits that are the distractions because
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there are times when we think that
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there's certain habits of ours they're
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actually empowered
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but they're really sabotaging us on
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another level so true oh my gosh so true
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you know all of these items that we've
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been I've been showing up on the screen
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the yoga mat and the the travel cord
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case you know all of these things you
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can get at the super boomer lifestyle
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store and I absolutely I mean we love
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the stuff in there you and I launched
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this together we have been putting some
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amazing vetted products into the store
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including the yoga mat including you
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know the the the travel case we also
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have the this the essential and this is
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another way when you identify your
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distractions yeah you know bring
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something in that will help you yeah
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that you know a new climb in line she's
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a master of aromatherapy and she's been
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downloading me on what to use when
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you're not feeling well when you're loud
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you're a girl oh and there is scientific
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proof that smells will actually trigger
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you into having a better mood being
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happier for what for whatever reason in
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aromatherapy is a perfect way identify
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and surround yourself in a have habits
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that are luxury based that means feel
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good it is a game changer
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last night I was coming back from a
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party downtown
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and I had a choice if I could either
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take an uber pool or uber axed and
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usually I'll take the pool like I just
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will you know and last night I said you
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know what it's time that you sit in the
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member X in the in a sedan that is
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luxurious it's it's all yours and just
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meditate and just take evening in and
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you know Karen it was so interesting how
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my mind set and how things shifted just
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with that one decision I love this story
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I just really love this story you know I
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think once we we kick fear to the curb
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and we and we kick all these things to
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the curb when we stand in our spot
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language which again is your message it
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becomes a game changer and everything
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changes after that and we open ourselves
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up to some amazing opportunities out
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there you know if if you are looking to
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get in touch with Joey as I did when I
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first searched her out and and hired her
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to do some work for me and the rest is
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history I encourage you to go over to
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put this up here to her website that's
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113 branding dot-com you're gonna find
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out all sorts of information I know that
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you work with the the entertainment
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industry as well as us regular folk but
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you bring us up to that entertainment
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environment because that is who you are
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you take those same skills we can all be
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in that spotlight and that is the
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message really everyone needs to be
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known even if you have a gob I just have
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to throw that in Yeah right exactly
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exactly I really encourage you guys to
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go check out Joey's Facebook presence at
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the Hollywood spotlight series at
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Facebook just just put it into the
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search it will show up and of course
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following Joey on Twitter and Instagram
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at Joey Garrity I always laugh at this
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because it's always like the same name
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and I like that they all mix coz it's
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when we get this old you know age is
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just a number and attitude but it also
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means that we're not always remember
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everything so this always is very
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helpful for me to actually remember your
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name and make sure it's out there um any
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last any LS tips ideas that you want to
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share about this that can get people
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started with that spotlight shining all
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over them yeah it you know again believe
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that you are a star I know we're not
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talking People magazine right now we're
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talking about as we're talking about
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literally every person globally was born
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with gifts and talents to be of service
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not in service but to be of service to
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the community around you
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so when you get up in the morning I
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always encourage my clients the minute
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you get up in the morning say how can I
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be of service today love it
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what door can I open up today because
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the more we shine a bright spotlight on
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ourselves and others and opens doors for
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others to do the same
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absolutely I just love that it's
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actually beautiful you know this is the
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moment where I do my super boomer moment
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so I'm gonna actually drop you out for a
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moment and I'm gonna bring you back
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actually at the very end of the show but
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I'm just gonna have a moment so I'm
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gonna take you out and I'm going to
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bring in the super boomer moment moment
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placeholder card you know one of the
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things that I think about when I think
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about you Joey is that you are
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passionate about this you are passionate
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about shining the spotlight and you
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never navigate away from that it is not
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something that you pay lip service to
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and you just put these words out there
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and you just you think that you know
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that just because you say you walk your
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talk and for me personally because you
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walked your talk I stepped into a much
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bigger game that I never would have done
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I never truly I never would have done
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this even though I've livestream for a
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very long time doing what we're doing
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now has has really been a game changer
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and it's because of your concept of that
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it is our birthright to shine the
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spotlight on ourselves at any age I
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believe that I believe it now I might
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not have alieve dit before but I
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certainly believe it now and I want to
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thank you for bringing that to the table
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for me so I'm going to bring you back in
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and here she is here we go as we get
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ready to say goodbye because you know
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Joey and I really appreciate the fact
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that you joined us today whether live or
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on replay because we know that you have
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a choice as to how you spend your time
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and we really are grateful we really do
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mean we appreciative that you decided to
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spend it with us today because again
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your time is precious and we thank you
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for spending time with us Joey I want to
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thank you for taking your time out of
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your incredibly busy day as well to be
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on the show that's today and to
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celebrate the super guru lifestyle
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because that's what this is all about
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and I just want people to go out and not
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only shine a spotlight on your own self
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because it is your birthright but go out
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and shine a spotlight on somebody in
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your network and just watch what
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Bin's go send somebody in awesome day
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and we'll see you next time on the next
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super boomer lifestyle show see you then
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bye-bye everyone