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life exposed in the most unexpected ways
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where what you see is not always what
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you get isn't that the truth
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uncorked is so proud to be on the vital
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c network so thank you vitalsy
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so what are we talking about today well
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summer of course of course and and
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honestly well no what am i doing first
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what do we do oh i have to drink
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okay what are you drinking i'm drinking
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some sarah which in the summer i i go i
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move to white wines it's too hot in the
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desert as much as i love my reds so this
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crisp enjoyable cocktail well mine's
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light and crisp too but
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it's it's a red bull peach red bull with
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a little bit of vodka thrown in because
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why bother if you're not going to throw
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the vodka in so uh cheers everyone i'm
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trying so hard not to judge but
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it's delicious i love it yeah okay
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somebody has to love it better you than
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me i know i know so we're talking about
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because it is it's summer it's summer
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and you know we've we spoke last month
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about our year we celebrated our first
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we kept thinking about that preparing
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for this show where we've come right in
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a year and one and your favorite show
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was our should i stay or should i go
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when we talked about the differences
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that we were forced to make or we chose
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to make right you know based on on our
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world and where we are a year later and
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so now we have big news from karen who
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was only staying uh yeah i was only
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staying back then because i was uh i was
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still afraid and i was still very
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um neurotic as i like to say about not
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going out but here we are one year later
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and really excited i got i got my
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passport picture taken
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i'm getting my passport renewed because
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because i'm going i'm leaving i am going
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to british columbia i'm going to
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vancouver this summer one of my favorite
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cities on the planet and i said i said
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this to you when you share that with me
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on a clear day it is one of the most
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gorgeous cities on the planet i love
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vancouver you're gonna have the best i
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cannot wait and what's even more
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exciting is i'm going with my brothers
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and sisters and what a beautiful way to
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kind of start wow getting back out in
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the world very much so you know and when
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i finally made the commitment
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what does that feel like um i felt like
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i was back to me was it hard to say to
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make to pull that final it was and then
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it was and then it wasn't it was like
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okay i i have to get out of my own way
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here and so my first step was to go
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renew my passport and it was almost like
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okay i think i'm gonna be okay and so do
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you do that like once like you ruminate
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and you and you stress and oh yeah and
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obsess over a decision and then you can
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just let it go yes once once i've made
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the decisions made i don't go backwards
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and so i'm very excited um so
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everything's in process and i'm i'm
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going away i'm so so so excited you're
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doing that uh and going in we're going
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next month actually wonderful i'm so
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excited great time to get out of here
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yeah i'm so excited going next month so
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i've never been um to this particular
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place that we're going we're going to
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this little private island um i can't
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pronounce tort whatever it's called i'm
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so thrilled i'm just so excited
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you're so excited what's going on with
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you so we we are traveling we are um
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we're cruising this month and
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from we leave from miami just a short
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fun cruise on virgin and i'm excited to
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try this trip it's like the rockstar
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suite cab yeah it just looks really fun
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and we're going to dominican republic
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and we're going with a couple other
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friends and it started out as a
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celebration for one of their friends
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50th birthdays or excuse me wedding
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because we were supposed to do this last
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summer which it didn't happen and now
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none of them are going but our friends
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and and we're we're game
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and i'm really looking forward to it i
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there are certain circumstances when i
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love to cruise and i'm really looking
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for i think it's going to be a different
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experience now the world being what it
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is and i think i'm going to enjoy it
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even more so i'm really excited i'm
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excited for you i can't wait to hear
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about the the whole virgin cruise thing
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because this is relatively they launched
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i think right at the beginning the
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beginning of the company so there's no
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when i saw that come out i literally
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turned to my husband and said we have to
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go on that and then of course everything
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happens so we will go on it but well and
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i'm hoping that it's it
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it lives up to its its printed promises
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because it looks fabulous and they are
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they have incredible itineraries in
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and they did a really cool thing
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when we we they had to cancel it wasn't
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you know just it was what it was you had
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the opportunity to get your money back
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or get fifty percent like two for one on
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a future cruise so basically we're
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getting two cruises for the price of one
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so now we just have to decide another
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time where to go let me know when you're
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going and we'll go because we'll go
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we'll definitely it's my favorite kind
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it's the my favorite kind of vacation
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i'm thinking i'm thinking um greece
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around the glacial islands would be fun
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but we'll look at itineraries that would
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be amazing go to santorini athens that'd
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be really really fun so
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so you've been traveling i mean even
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when we talked about this last year
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should i stay or should i go and we
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talked about the fact that you were to
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go i mean you you've gone and you keep
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going even these things were getting
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kept going but safely yeah and i think i
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think again what i and what i love about
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um we we view the world and we view a
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lot of things really differently and we
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respect that about each other absolutely
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we did not you know i wasn't gonna stop
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living and right um a lot of choices
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were made based on those philosophies
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right and we had some incredible trips
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with beautiful friendships and last year
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i'm looking it was but i will not lie it
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was not fun to travel i
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long it's hard to breathe i mean they're
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just there are restrictions necessary
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restrictions right that make it less
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enjoyable yeah so i'm you know i'm
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hoping that that i don't as a as we
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speak right now i don't think it's
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changed but um i'm hoping that that does
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too for flights right now by that you
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can or that it doesn't become a mandate
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or that they ease those restrictions but
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we'll see and i'm not it's not going to
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keep me from doing it so
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no and i'm actually going to it's not
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going to keep me from doing it either
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and that's that's the thing i'm i'm past
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the uh i'm scared stage okay and now i
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can't wait to go stage so what is what
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does summer kind of look like for you
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you're going to travel and everything
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but you got your family and and you do
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things with your family and your kids
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not just going solo out with your hubby
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but that's always fun that's interesting
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and both of uh my oldest son and his
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wife both turned 30 this year and they
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want to plan they're in the midst of
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planning something and we do all travel
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together a lot and we plan family but
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now as their family expands and there
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it's it's growing because of his wife's
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family and they're they spend time
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we're very fortunate all the families
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are close with their children so they
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want to spend time with each of us and
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so we kind of just i can see i've had
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friends and i would watch them like some
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they would be at christmas for a holiday
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or thanksgiving and they kind of split
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things up and that's that's what i'm
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sure we'll do and we'll just keep
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keep flowing with it all and and making
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it work how fun how fun well yeah
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well we're going to do the the trip
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next month and um my plan is because now
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i i do feel comfortable going is going
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up to see my folks because i haven't had
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a chance because of everything i'm going
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to go up and take a vacation with my
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and just start getting out a little bit
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exploring and we've had some fun while
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you've been here you know going out and
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exploring and eating some great food and
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going to great restaurants and too much
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i know i know but get back home to my
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but you can still get your clothes on so
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that's that's all good that's all good
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and i think that um you know summer
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looks different when you're working
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versus when you're retired
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you know so my my husband is getting
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ready to officially 100 retire which
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means he's gonna have a lot more
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open time and empty time and i'm not
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quite retired at this point in fact and
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i don't want to be and that's the thing
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i don't want to be retired i think a
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retired karen would be very dull karen
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we don't want to build karen so i'm i'm
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continuing to work but it's going to
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change how we travel when we start
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traveling again um you know you're
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you're working obviously clearly and
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dean your husband is is clearly working
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i think he works more than anybody i've
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ever met and he's been like he doesn't
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view himself and and life as ever
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retiring but we own our companies
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and he can and he has set up i mean he's
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getting freer right to to spend more
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time away and and i think that's how he
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views his retirement just how much time
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he can be away because he loves he loves
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his work he loves his all of his clients
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right and what he's doing and now
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with what's really wonderful is is the
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the company that it's grown so much in
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that the youth that has come on the the
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young advisors so he loves being around
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that energy energy yeah so it's even
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more fun for him yeah and i mean that's
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also part of the whole changing of
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family dynamics as well i mean my my son
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and his wife live here in the desert and
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we're hoping to be able to see them more
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often now now that they're my son lives
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in uh dana point and he'll come now now
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i'm feeling comfortable everybody's
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coming everybody coming and i know that
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you know you're you're some of your kids
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not both of them but one of your kids
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grandchild and what they live with you
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which is such a cool thing it is and and
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they came you know that's
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was was a temporary thing when they
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moved um back to tucson from l.a
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waiting for the markets to slow down so
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they can buy a house because there's
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just no inventory and the prices are
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just through the roof
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but i i do joke with them that i'm never
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letting them leave and they do kind of
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keep encroaching on rooms in our house
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and and as matthew took over he moved
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his production studio recently this into
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one of the guest rooms
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i thought he was joking with his wife
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and she goes don't worry we'll give you
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a 30 day notice when you need to
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so we may be the ones leaving and that
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let me take the house which would be
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okay you heard it here you heard it you
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heard it here first um we're really
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excited about something though so more
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trouble more travel more travel related
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i mean you talked about you're going on
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the virgin cruise um
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that's not the only cruise you're going
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on no i'm very very excited about a
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cruise coming up in september to alaska
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and it is actually through our very
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exciting new feature on the vitalscene
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network right right and this is the
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maiden voyage if you will for vita
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vitalcy travel and i will be holding
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workshops on writing on it and meeting
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everyone but what's really exciting is
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that by booking your travel through
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you're not only going it's not summer
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camp you're not funneled through with
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like you know on these tours with you
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you are with like-minded people you
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don't have to but you get so many
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so many special perks at your fingertips
11:12
a con 24 7 concierge on the crew leading
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up to the cruise lots of fun swag and
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this is all included in your in your
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booking and you get to go with males i
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mean let's let's first one the first one
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and who knows you know this is and this
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is the and they're also taught
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really wonderful cruise lines seabourn
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windstar um holland so i think uh
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celebrity or there's a bunch of them
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yeah i mean it's so exciting seven seas
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i think that's the seventh i think
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that's the allowance
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yeah and it's a really beautiful new
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adventure for all the growing vitalsy
11:47
community and if you're not part of it
11:48
hop on over to vitalc.com and and check
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out it'll be right there one thing i'm
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going to pitch her because she did the
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most fabulous interview she hosts the
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peak stage show with dave cause
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i have loved and i when i found out they
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they were also long time friends i died
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because i am obsessed with him and so
12:06
i'm just wanting to be in that room he's
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a fabulous musician and through learn so
12:10
much more about him through their
12:12
interview so check them all out see
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what's going on at vital c and um and
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get your travel there's there are a few
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spaces left it's looking up quickly i
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think everybody is on the same page
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we're ready to try we're ready if you
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you want to and if you have been you're
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ready for a brand new experience
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so you know when we were talking about
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doing the show we were talking about
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doing the deep dive and talking about
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you know what this meant at this stage
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in our in our world and getting out but
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want to mention the fact that we both
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live in the desert and it is hot during
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the summer right it isn't in fact i feel
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a song coming on but it is very hot so
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how do you do well and we joke it's a
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dry he it does matter because i i i went
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to school and lived in washington dc
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where it's very humid and so dry heat
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matters and that doesn't really bother
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me however i have noticed
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as i've aged it bothers me more and
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living in tucson is i grew up in san
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diego spent a considerable amount of my
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childhood and young adult life in the
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coachella valley right i love the desert
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heat right it just feels so good to go
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to walk outside but it feels less good
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for extended periods of time it does
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and and you've been you've been here to
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visit me during when it's i mean we had
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like 122 degree weather for like
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extended periods of time and for a
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newbie in the desert was like oh whoa i
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didn't sign up for this i don't think
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but i think you do acclimate more or
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less yeah in fact i've been fond to say
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it's only 90 right now it's so
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uncomfortable yeah even though who would
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who says that right it's 90 and
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comfortable well if you put it in
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perspective because you you likely are
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in an air-conditioned car or heated car
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as you are in a building or home so what
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it is outside doesn't really matter and
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i personally i need the sun i need warm
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college roommates used to joke because i
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was good for about two weeks
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in the snow and the cold
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and they're like you're not on vacation
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you know i'm like i need to be on this
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needs to be a vacation this cannot be
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home oh my god i do need the warmer
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weather but the really really hot
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temperatures do get to me so i do so how
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i i escape i i go i try not to be in in
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arizona in the summer obviously or a
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good portion of it as much as we can
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just you can't i spend it in the pool or
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i spend it in my backyard i i'm getting
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a slip and slide this summer oh my god i
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i'm gonna put it on my grass okay we're
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gonna get footage of that and you're
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gonna see it i'm going to go slip and
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the other thing i'm going to do is i'm
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putting an outdoor shower in my backyard
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now normally an outdoor shower means
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that you've got a pool in your backyard
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you need no i'm just putting it there so
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when it gets so hot which is you know
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during the summer i can go cool off so
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that's how i'm going to stay cool is go
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slip and slide all over my
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let's i want to talk about something
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else that we actually skipped over
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in addition to the cruise and travel
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that we've got going you've got a new um
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thing going on at vital c it's your
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mel's moments let's talk a little bit
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about that so it's a it's a it's part of
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the platform and it's my own little
15:20
space in the platform and i haven't
15:22
quite figured out how to define that
15:24
right but because it's a combination of
15:26
things and people and contributors right
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and and really it is introducing the
15:31
world to some phenomenal people where
15:34
meet the meat section that you if you're
15:36
part of the community you've already
15:38
been introduced to a lot of the fabulous
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um people i've featured in the
15:42
interviews and that will be in there
15:44
we're kind of it's really touching on
15:47
a different angle of
15:49
getting through and living and enjoying
15:51
the peak stage of life yeah it's it's
15:53
phenomenal it's fine it's been really
15:55
fun lots of great things that are going
15:57
on that i've been reading in there good
15:59
stuff so go check it out and while
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you're there i mean i know you're
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watching the show right now on vitalc
16:04
but while you're in the vital c platform
16:06
go go binge watch us i mean we're fun i
16:09
think you should go binge watch us
16:11
i think so too and while you're there go
16:13
binge watch we have a sports show and we
16:15
have the peak stage as you mentioned we
16:17
have a health show that's on we have a
16:20
business show that's on uh with with we
16:23
have some amazing amazing programs on so
16:25
go check it out and go down the rabbit
16:27
hole yeah and it's easy to to deep dive
16:29
into that totally keep going totally um
16:32
and as we say every month uh thank god
16:37
mel is our is our curator and she has
16:40
created some amazing things in the
16:42
uncork shop so go check it out at
16:44
uncork.shop some cool items and cool
16:48
keep you cool keep you cool keep your
16:50
cool yeah um in the heat and then
16:52
finally we want to make sure you go
16:54
check out the music because again mel
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this is your this is where you come from
16:59
i was going to say an old dj but you're
17:01
not old so you're simply a past dj yes
17:04
and she's created some amazing songs and
17:06
i find myself putting them on all the
17:08
time and just rocking out and what's
17:09
really fun as as we have somewhat of a
17:11
theme for each month
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i try to tailor them to that within
17:16
going back to our generational love
17:18
favorites and new music and we
17:20
let's say it again our favorite our our
17:23
obsession right now teddy swims
17:25
love god you guys have to go check him
17:28
out i it's i have to be honest had uh if
17:31
i had not heard his voice and just saw
17:33
this picture of him yeah i probably
17:35
would have said pass and moved on only
17:39
go over him just you wouldn't think
17:42
amazing heads up bonnie rate has some
17:44
new music out is yeah yeah so check it
17:46
out it's on the playlist go make sure
17:48
you check it out guys we're thrilled
17:49
that you join us today and every month
17:52
on the second tuesday any last thoughts
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i think that i'm grateful to be where i
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am this year we made it we made it
18:01
through the year and and i'm really
18:02
happy for you karen to be going out i
18:05
thank you i worry about everyone that
18:07
that was isolated i do i do so i'm
18:09
really glad you're getting it i am
18:10
excited too and one of the places i'm
18:12
actually going to go is come visit you
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so that i didn't i didn't say that but i
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really am going to go do that now that i
18:18
i can come out go out everyone and give
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somebody an awesome day we'll see you
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next time on the next