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hey guys welcome in come on in and if
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here on the big screen alrighty guys
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hello everyone my name is Karen glasser
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and imagine this four thousand eyeballs
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staring at you on stage four thousand
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right and here you are talking about
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truth and authenticity and being the
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real you and you realize that what you
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look like it's not who you really are
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does that resonate with you I just
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turned 60 a month ago and I have a
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confession to make I'm white well
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actually my hair is white I'm a hundred
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percent white my mom turned white when
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she was 30 years old her hair just went
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white and I said to myself oh my gosh is
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that what's going to happen to me and
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sure enough when I turned 30 my hair
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started to turn white and you know I had
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a decision to make at that point do I
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want to be young because that's the
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mindset right the mindset is a young
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person does not have white hair now
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what's funny about that in this day and
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age there are a lot of young people are
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actually kering our silver and white
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because it's it's the trend it's cool
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but back in the day you did not have
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white hair in fact if you had white hair
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that meant that you were aging and I
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didn't want to do that now on my journey
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I'm really really really fortunate
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because my hair grows really fast that's
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actually the bad news own because guess
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what I was it like her dresser every
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three weeks I would sit with my
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hairdresser for an hour and a half and I
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love my hairdresser Randy if you're out
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there watching you or awesome she's
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awesome but every three weeks I would go
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in there and I'd sit there for an hour
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last time for that but again the mindset
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was I had to turn myself young again
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right by making my hair of color that I
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you know recognized as being young so as
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the years went by I became really
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visible and I don't mean just being on
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stage or with my congregation when I was
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a curvy woman in front of lots of people
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I mean like on the big screen kind of
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visible and then I started doing my web
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TV shows and I was being seen all around
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the world and people are me and that's
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one of the things that I discovered is
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is that people have no worries at all to
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look at you and say oh my god you have
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white hair or you have gray hair what's
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wrong with you you're aging wrinkles
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then I don't think and and if you want
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to kind of join in here and tell me the
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men they're here Darrell maybe you want
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to say something but men don't generally
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have someone say oh you know your hair
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is white for your hair is gray or you
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have wrinkles or you're getting old in
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fact we think that meddlin gray-haired
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kind of distinguishable right so I was
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really in a dilemma what do I do well I
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I decided to do what I had always done
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continue to color my hair every three
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weeks i would plan my events around when
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i would get my hair color really i mean
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that's that's kind of bizarre actually
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because i wanted to make sure that I
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could still see that young woman in the
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mirror with the dark brown hair the way
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I was born and look at who I'm sitting
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right now you can see this is my real
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color and I'm coming out loud and strong
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because I want to embrace this at one
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embracing ryan when I turn 60 I decided
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it was time to do it it was trying to
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take that next step and trying to show
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up as who I really was and I'd like to
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invite you to join me on this journey as
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well and I know it's not going to be
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easy and this is not something that
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happens overnight except with me with my
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hair growing as fast my guess is even
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though this is only about two months
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growth I'm already about three inches in
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my wife this is gonna take a little bit
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of time and I'm gonna have to make
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decisions on you know if I have an event
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coming up how am I gonna put a hat on or
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or what am I going to look like what
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I gonna wear you know is this the right
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time um you know so I'm getting a
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message I'm going to make sure that you
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can see me would you guys just let me
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know that you can see me someone Mary i
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see that you said you lost the live feed
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i want to make sure that my feet is
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still going it appears that it is so
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Ellen I'm putting your comment up here
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ellinger said hi Karen you look
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fantastic wish I had the courage to do
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the same you do have the courage outlet
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and I'm going to invite you to come
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along on this journey with me as I go to
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my natural authentic so and I'm looking
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at my notes because I want to make sure
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that I don't forget something to share
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with you you know one of the things a
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lot of the things that run through my
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mind let's say you know what made am I
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going to wear what kind of colors did my
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going to wear because my crowing send be
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different laughter we're different flows
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you know do I have to do something one
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of my hat's going to look like do I need
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different products from my hair but you
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know what these are all really really
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cool cool questions right because this
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is a jury that we're going to go on and
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I want you to come with me you can do
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this too and one of the things that I
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really want to suggest you is that maybe
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your little white lie is not your hair
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maybe your little white lie is you have
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been wearing pull on makeup all over
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your face forever and ever and ever and
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you really have been covering that
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interview you who you really are maybe
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that's your little white lie you know I
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used to wear high heels i used to work
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heels it 45 inches high and anyone that
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knows me Oh awesome Ellen I'm so glad
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you're going to join us on this journey
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ok I'll and I'm you got this work got
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you on recording now you're going to
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join you know and I used to wear these
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five inch heels and I would say I'm
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never gonna wear flats because that I'm
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going to feel old when I do that guess
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what I don't wear heels anymore I only
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wear flats and for anyone that knows me
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out there that knows me in my prior life
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that was me my shoes were all about me
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so that's the other thing you know your
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little white line may not be your hair
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your little white line may be something
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else what are you telling yourself that
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you think makes you feel younger right
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or makes you feel in a certain way these
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are all the little white lies so I want
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you to join me over on my
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site and i'm putting that link right
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there on onto the video set the little
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white lie go check out the site and i
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have a free giveaway it's a five steps
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for uncovering your bray it's an
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infographic just go ahead and give me
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your email and i'm going to send that
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info graphic off to you it's five step
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from making that decision to go you know
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white or to stop wearing on my heels or
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to change the way you put your makeup on
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or what your clothes look like this is
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our year all of us I want to take this
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journey with you I hope that you come
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with me stop by often on the side little
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white lie because there's going to be a
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new post every single week there's one
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that just went like right now so go
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check it out as well as these live
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videos will be put on a site as well I
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want to thank you for always being there
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and joining me on my journeys I am so
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appreciative for my network and all of
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you that are out there and I hope that
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you will join me as we uncover our
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little white line see you next time
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everyone oh thanks Ella better than any
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therapy session i love that i got to put
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that up there because that that is a
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great quote i love that this is better
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than any therapy session amen amen okay
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I'll see you all in the next line and go
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check out the site and go read the next
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post see you lit next time if you okay
