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welcome to the little white lie digital
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network with Karen Glasser the little
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white lie is all about the lies we tell
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ourselves about getting old and how to
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love the age you are in hello everyone
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we are trying this again this is Karen
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Glasser I am so excited about this show
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I can hardly stand it and we're just
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waiting to see if people come in before
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I even keep going on this because oh my
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technology can they see you I see nobody
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I see nobody hold on I'm going I'm going
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into Facebook per second hold on
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they can see in here you know okay um
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they can hear us yeah they can see you
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it's okay thank you thank you thank you
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thank you okay so we're gonna end up
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editing this so I'm gonna go ahead and
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cuz we want to start this the way we
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actually wanted to do this so guys be
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patient with us for just a second I'm
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glad you can see us okay welcome to the
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little white lie digital network with
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Karen Glasser the little white lie is
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all about the lies we tell ourselves
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about getting old and how to love the
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hello everyone karen Glasser here and
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thank you for joining us again we are so
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happy that you're here this is such an
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exciting day we are launching the
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premiere issue of the little white live
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digital magazine and I've got lots and
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lots of amazing contributors here that
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are going to be sharing some thoughts
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and then we are going to do the reveal
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of the magazine cover so as I always say
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if you're here on replay make sure you
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let us know put comments down below
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because we won't reply back to you all
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of our guests take today we'll go in and
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reply back to you and go ahead and share
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this to the network out there click that
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share button either on your mobile
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wherever you are go ahead and send it
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out I am really excited about the first
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guest that I'm going to bring on today
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and the reason why I'm excited about it
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is that she is basically the big reason
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that we decided to do this magazine so
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I'm gonna go ahead and bring Joey
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Garrity in she is from 113 branding she
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is the founder she's a brand strategist
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she's a marketer she's an author she's a
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speaker and she is the visibility Queen
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that is why that is why we all love Joey
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well how are you Karen and really great
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and I love love love that we're both
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weeds right because we're all not
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collaborating absolutely and and this
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all came about back in May at the
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California Women's Conference right and
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we started having this conversation in
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the rest is history right we were just
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we were people first like that's the
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alive is because Karen have been really
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encouraging me and supporting me to do
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it and that was a game-changer so we
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together and then I was just like why
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don't we do a magazine it would be so
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fun to get other collaborators out there
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other weeds and other people that they
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could be sharing their tips and
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strategies so that every so everyone can
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have a ha moments and and it's amazing
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because from that within a very short
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amount of time we have this amazing
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premiere issue I keep saying it because
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it's so so exciting so exciting Joey I
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would really love you to give a shout
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out to your a team I mean because we
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couldn't done it without them yes the
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113 branding a-team Heather Robinson she
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is a genius designer and she just is so
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generous with her gifts and talents
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thank you so much Heather and also
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Angela Mosley who is also an editor and
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she's always so generous with her gifts
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and tones Thank You Angela so much again
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we can't just alone right that'd be
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impossible right we can't we can't and
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you know what quite frankly I wouldn't
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want to at this stage in my life as now
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that I know what it's like to
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collaborate and to work with amazing
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people why would I want to be a lone
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so Joey I just want to thank you for
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just making this happen you are awesome
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and I so appreciate you I appreciate you
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in the movement and I'm so behind this
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movement kara because we really want
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women and men out there not to get
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caught up in these stereotypes right
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because that's what slows us down out
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there and we don't thrive in the store
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together if we're getting caught up in
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old stories and robots that's so true
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it's so true so I'm going to go ahead
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and drop you out into the lobby and I'm
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going to bring in our next guest
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so our next guest is one of our
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contributors in the magazine her name is
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Kat Willeford and she's a pioneer in the
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field of coaching and transformational
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self-development and she's appeared as a
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guest expert on the Maury Povich Show
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and she's coached on LA's ABC talk radio
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amongst many many many things so I'm
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gonna go ahead and we're gonna bring Kat
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Williford into the show how are you Kat
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no so so so so so so exciting I can say
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that lots of times so so so so so
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exciting you can't say that so many
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so when you were on the show with me a
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while back one of the questions that we
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asked was what are you hiding behind
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those masks that you wear so tell us a
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little bit about these masks why do we
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call them masts and what are we hiding
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you know I love what you and Joey were
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talking about earlier because we were
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talking about the lone wolf right you
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know we're talk about the lone wolf and
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I think for women in particular but I've
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seen it in the men I work with as well
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this idea that we can go it alone
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actually brings up our masks and they're
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based on the shame or the embarrassment
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that we feel that we actually might need
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help right and so the masks hide our
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vulnerability they hide the fact that we
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all need to ask for help I mean I am so
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living that right now in this moment I'm
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in Port Arthur Texas helping my mom deal
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with her home after harvey's floods and
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you cannot do this alone and so it's
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really had me thinking and the work I'm
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doing with my clients even as I'm on the
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road is all about let's not pretend and
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those masks make us pretend they make us
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pretend that we can control everything
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that's the chief operating officer of
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control one of my favor I I think I wear
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that one too and her sisters perfection
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ista and the steamroller you know we can
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get in that mode and what that does is
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it halts collaboration I guess the key
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here of what we hide is our
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vulnerability and what's under that is
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of course our fear of enough are we
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enough do people see me as enough and
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ultimately that question can only exist
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if we are questioning our own worth if
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we're questioning am i giving enough am
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i doing enough am i and here we go with
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the litany am I pretty enough am i
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skinny enough am i do I have enough
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money whatever those messages are by any
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of us they poison and they make that
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so important what you're saying and I I
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know that you have so much more to say
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and for those of you who want to learn
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more about cat Williford and find out
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what her little white lie is make sure
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that you click the link that I'm going
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to put in the description up there after
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the show go and get that magazine a
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little white lie virginal magazine own
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it because you're gonna find out more
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about cat Willeford thank you so much
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for joining us today cat and thank you
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Karen for the service you're doing for
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all of us oh thank you right back at you
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so another one of our contributors her
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name is Darla Claire and I'm gonna bring
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her up in just a second she's a pioneer
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in the field of coaching actually she's
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not she's a lifestyle architect who also
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coaches there you go sorry about that
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she's an entrepreneur with over 30 years
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working in the business and after ending
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a 25-year marriage she chose to reinvent
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herself and her lifestyle so we're gonna
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go ahead and bring Darla Claire into the
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show and here she is hey Darla how you
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doing today I am doing great I'm so
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Caryn's I am so excited for you to be
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here as well you know we we all have so
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many stories that we we tell ourselves
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and that we are actually living through
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right now as well and one of the
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questions that that we talked about on
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the show was actually okay I've designed
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my life now what and we had a really
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great conversation tell us a little bit
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about what we talked about well we
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talked about there's so many and I'm
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including myself in this there's so many
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women and that have dreams and desires
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and they want it and they designed a
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look they they've got it planned out at
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what it is that they want you know once
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they've discovered what it is that you
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want what kind of lifestyle you want the
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key is is like how do you get actually
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make it so you can be successful and
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then you can make it and not stop short
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I used to I used to design my life or
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make plans and for some reason I
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wouldn't be able to follow through with
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them they never happened to me until I
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started actually introspectively
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thinking about what is it that's
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stopping me what are those things that
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going on in my internal mindset which is
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our subconscious mind that's stopping me
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which is limiting beliefs negative
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emotions and so when once we clean
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things up so they're not a hindrance to
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us and we can have be empowered and then
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the other thing that we talked about is
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also then having what you want out there
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the design to life or that design
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business that you want to be so powerful
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that it pulls you instead of push it
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instead of you being pushed by anything
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negative that it's pulling you towards
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your goals and then you get what then
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you get that lifestyle that you want and
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we all want that right we all want to be
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able to have something to strive towards
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and to be pulled towards which is why
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what you do is so important any other
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tips that you want to share well the one
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of the things that I think I'm important
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at least for for me and and my clients
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too is to take the time to do an
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inventory just like Katt was talking a
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little bit about those masks that we we
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wear a lot of them some of those things
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we are aware of them but a lot of things
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we're not aware of them it's just taking
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an inventory and and just ask yourself
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what is it that could possibly be
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blocking me from getting to where I want
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to go and and just being introspective
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and then also getting getting help when
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you need it we're all here to help each
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other so it's getting help absolutely
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hot thank you so much for that and I
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know that we're gonna have lots and lots
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of people that want to learn more about
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you Darla and find out what your little
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white lie is so as we said before make
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sure that you come back and at the end
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of the show and look at the link above
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there click it download the magazine and
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find out what Darla Claire's little
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white lie is thank you so much for
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Thank You Karyn thank you so much I'm so
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excited I love this new party that's
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happening and I love the fact that
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you're we're all supporting each other
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here I'm so excited about it
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absolutely thank you so much and so our
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next guest actually is not here he went
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to Disneyland and he was so
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ready to be on with us today that he
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actually rented a hotel room so that he
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could go to the hotel room in the middle
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of his day at Disneyland so he could get
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online and of course we know technology
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is only as good as it is on any given
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day and it was not very good and I know
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how he's very frustrated I want to tell
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you a little bit about him though his
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name is Casey Everhart he's an
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internationally recognized speaker and
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trainer and while his all of his
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kindergarten friends were grappling with
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what do they want to be when they grow
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up or maybe not even thinking about it
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he was already a serial entrepreneur he
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was selling stuff in the neighborhood to
12:47
the other kindergartners and that set
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him on the road to be one of one of the
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top income earners in a network
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marketing company that's out there and
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one of the things that I asked him was
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can you teach an old dog new tricks he
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had some really great responses and I
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know that you're gonna want to find out
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what he said so just like before make
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sure you click that link up there and
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make sure that you download the magazine
13:12
so that you can find out what Casey had
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to say about teaching old dogs new
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tricks and what was his little white
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lies and now this next this next
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wonderful woman that I want to introduce
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you to her name is Susan Jacobs she's an
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image professional who helps her clients
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increase their confidence credibility
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and profitability through authentic
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style she has been featured on
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television radio and numerous print
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outlets and I'm gonna bring her in right
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now hello Susan Jacobs hello
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Karyn Glasser and friends I am so happy
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you're here you know I've been following
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you I love how you do what you do you
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are the real deal I've told you that
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and I'm just thrilled that you're here
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and the question that we talked about
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when you were on the show was what does
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the best version of you look like and we
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it was a great conversation went back
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and forth all over the place
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tell us a little bit about what you
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thought about what people said and some
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tips that you might want to share so
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that is a question and Karen thank you
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for doing it thank you for having me
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so exciting and I'm happy to be part of
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this wee movement that we live like my
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movement so the question is you know
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when I asked my clients this my first
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style of women climb asks a question or
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what is that best version of you what
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does that look like when it's your
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favorite feel good look for you
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so parent I can tell you that one of
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three things happen the first one the
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woman can't wait to explain her outfit
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she's very excited and she'll tell me
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where she's wearing it and you know
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that's great I know that that woman has
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done the self work and she's owning it
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the second scenario that can happen is
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someone will say oh I love it
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here's my outfit you know I love wear my
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jeans I really you know I've got over
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jeans and a pair of beautiful pumps and
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a fun top and I say great so do you love
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your jeans well yeah you know not so
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much I'll say well do you wear them well
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I would I would that's the look I would
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wear double right away not there yet and
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the last and unfortunately this is the
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most prevalent response and on a radio
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show it would be a disaster but for me
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in a crowd I kind of like this because
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when I ask the question it is absolutely
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Bulova uncomfortable and they're
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wheeling around they're looking up and
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watch their fiddling with their hair
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they're looking anywhere of the bee
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because they have no idea and it's like
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okay that's good news for me because
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that's a challenge and I think you know
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what we're all in this together
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as our lesesne scats us we're going to
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and I'm going to help you put you on
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your own to do this and we're gonna have
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more fun I mean I love that put yourself
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on your own to-do list that is such a
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great great comment so I know that
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people are wondering what your little
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white lie is but we're not going to tell
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them right they have to go and download
16:29
the magazine from the link above to find
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out all about you and all the other rest
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of the stuff that we talked about and
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more information about you as well as
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what your little white lie is so I want
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to thank you from the bottom my heart
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for joining us today
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Susan thank you so much thank you love
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you guys thanks a lot thank you okay
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this is getting really really exciting
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right now I can barely stand it so first
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before we even go into the I'm going to
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show the magazine cover in just a minute
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but before we go there I have a couple
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people that I want to thank from the
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bottom of my heart the first person is
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Betty Ann green Betty Ann green and I
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have been working on all the print
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information that has come out all the
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blog posts in the content things that we
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have done from the very very beginning I
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could not do this without Betty Ann
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green she has this innate ability to
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take the stuff that we put on live on my
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shows and then to take it and put it
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into a blog post it actually makes sense
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because if you left it to me we have no
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idea what it would actually look like so
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Betty Ann green a shout out to you you
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are an awesome woman and I am so happy
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that you are part of this amazing team
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of people that have helped put this put
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this magazine out there okay so I'm
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getting ready now to throw up well no
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I'm not getting ready to throw up but
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I'm getting ready to throw up the cover
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of the magazine onto the screen and
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before I do that I have one more thank
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you and that is to Stacy Bloodworth
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Stacy Bloodworth is a gym it's one of
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those one of those times that when you
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meet somebody and you click she is a
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photographer like no one I have ever met
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in my life I actually went in and met up
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with her and she's the one who did this
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amazing cover the photo that's on the
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cover that I'm about to show you and and
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also all there are other shots that you
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might be seeing me put out there at this
18:23
point this is all from Stacy Bloodworth
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how blessed am I to have somebody who
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was able to capture me in a photograph
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that we could use on the cover of the
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magazine so who's ready to see the cover
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of the magazine say yes in the comments
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right now you're ready to see the cover
18:42
this magazine because I'm getting ready
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to reveal it right now at the count of
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three we're gonna say one two three and
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of the premiere issue of a little white
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live virtual magazine so as we we look
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at this I have to say that for me I'm
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stepping into a vulnerability here in a
19:03
way that I have never ever done before I
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am so so proud of the cover this
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magazine I'm so so proud of what the
19:10
magazine looks like on the inside and I
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am so so proud that I have so many so
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many people in my world that are with me
19:21
so I thank everyone I thank all of you
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that are out here making these amazing
19:25
comments thank you thank you thank you I
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can't wait for you to see what's on the
19:29
inside but before I send you up to the
19:33
link above I'm now going to come into
19:35
the screen because I do want to share
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something believe it or not it's going
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to be one year my birthday party of my
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little white life one year in November
19:46
so guess what we're gonna have we're
19:47
gonna have a birthday party on November
19:49
15 and you can't have a party without a
19:52
present right you have kept presents on
19:54
the party so I have a present that I'm
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going to be giving away to one lucky
20:00
it's an Amazon fire stick now the reason
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why I'm giving away an Amazon fire stick
20:05
is that you can stick that little Amazon
20:08
fire stick into your TV you can download
20:10
the free Facebook app and guess what you
20:12
can do you can watch our shows right on
20:14
the television screen how cool is that
20:17
so we're gonna be giving away a fire
20:20
stick now you may be wondering well how
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do I get myself into the running to get
20:23
the fire stick well I'm gonna tell you
20:25
right now you're going to go over to the
20:27
little white lie Network group page and
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I would have put the link up but as we
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had some technical difficulty if I don't
20:34
have it written down here but we put the
20:36
link in there you're gonna got going
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over there and if you haven't already
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joined the group you need to join the
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group and there's a gonna be a pinned
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post at the very top of the page and
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it's going to talk about the contest and
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it's going to say in order to enter you
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need to comment down below and say what
20:52
your little white lie is we want to know
20:54
what your little white lie is and so the
20:57
way to actually be in the running for
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this Amazon stick is to go to the page
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and put your little white lie
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then I will pick somebody from that list
21:05
it'll be a blind pull we'll take all the
21:08
names put them in a ball have somebody
21:09
pull and then that winners gonna join me
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on November 15th on a live show where I
21:14
will present the Amazon stick and we
21:16
will actually share your little white
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light I am so excited about this I just
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want to thank you again for joining us
21:22
today we know that you have a choice as
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to how you spend your time we want to
21:25
thank you because you chose it to spend
21:27
it with us and we are very very
21:30
appreciative of that don't forget to go
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up there and click the link and I have
21:34
one more request after you click that
21:35
link and download the magazine please
21:38
share it out to at least 10 of your
21:40
friends if you know more than 10 people
21:42
share it out to more than 10 people but
21:45
you're gonna be a part of the party as
21:47
well so go ahead and click the link
21:48
we'll see you next week on the next
21:51
episode of little white lie see you