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What Are The Lies We Tell Ourselves About Getting Older?
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Oct 6, 2017
Join Caren Glasser for the live launch of the premiere issue of The Little White Lie Digital Magazine. Joining her are featured contributors Cat Williford, Darla Claire, Casey D. Eberhart, Susan Jacobs and special guest Joie Gharrity on this Facebook Live! Pick up your copy of the LWL Digital Magazine here: http://bit.ly/LWLDigitalMagazine My Direct Links, Programs & Equipment I use for my Shows & Promotion: BeLive: http://bit.ly/3p7E0DB Get Your Book In Front Of Thousands of Potential Buyers! https://bit.ly/2HJ38Qu Logitech HD Pro Webcam: https://amzn.to/362BuXP Wired Earbuds with Microphone: http://amzn.to/3p1pmOi Lavalier Lapel Microphone: http://amzn.to/3p9EFVo Blue Yeti USB Mic: https://amzn.to/395hExi ATR2100-USB Cardioid Dynamic Microphone: http://amzn.to/3qzEy5A LED Video Light Kit: http://amzn.to/360Qg1w Neewer Ring Light Kit: http://amzn.to/392bON2 (Some links on this video page may be affiliate links that can result in small commissions & help support the channel, they DO NOT cause you to pay any extra money for an item)
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welcome to the little white lie digital
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network with Karen Glasser the little
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white lie is all about the lies we tell
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ourselves about getting old and how to
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love the age you are in
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hello everyone Karen Glasser here and
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thank you for joining us again we are so
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happy that you're here this is such an
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exciting day we are launching the
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premiere issue of the little white lie
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digital magazine and I've got lots and
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lots of amazing contributors here that
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are going to be sharing some thoughts
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and then we are going to do the reveal
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of the magazine cover so as I always say
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if you're here on replay make sure you
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let us know put comments down below
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because we won't reply back to you all
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of our guests take today we'll go in and
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reply back to you and go ahead and share
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this to the network out there click that
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share button either on your mobile
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wherever you are go ahead and send it
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out I am really excited about the first
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guest that I'm going to bring on today
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and the reason why I'm excited about it
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is that she is basically the big reason
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that we decided to do this magazine so
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I'm gonna go ahead and bring Joey
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Garrity in she is from 113 branding she
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is the founder she's a brand strategist
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she's a marketer she's an author she's a
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speaker and she is the visibility Queen
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that is why that is why we all love Joey
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well how are you Karen and really great
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and I love love love that we're both
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weeds right because we're all not
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collaborating absolutely and and this
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all came about back in May at the
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California Women's Conference right and
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we started having this conversation in
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the rest is history
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right we were just we were people first
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like that's the first time it did alive
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is because Karen had been really
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encouraging me and supporting me to do
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it and that was a game changer so we
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started doing them together and then I
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was just like why don't we do a magazine
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it would be so fun to get other
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collaborators out there other ways and
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other people that they could be sharing
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their tips and strategies so that every
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so everyone can have a ha moments and
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and it's amazing because from that
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within a very short amount of time we
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this amazing premier issue I keep saying
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it because it's so so exciting so
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exciting
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Joey I would really love you to give a
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shout out to your a tape I mean because
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we couldn't done it without them
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yes the 113 branding a-team Heather
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Robinson she is a genius designer and
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she just is so generous with her gifts
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and talents thank you so much Heather
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and also Angela Mosley who is also an
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editor and she's always so generous with
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their gifts and tones Thank You Angela
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so much again
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we can't just alone right that'd be
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impossible right we can't we can't and
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you know what quite frankly I wouldn't
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want to at this stage in my life as now
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that I know what it's like to
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collaborate and to work with amazing
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people why would I want to be a lone
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wolf
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seriously
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so Joey I just want to thank you for
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just making this happen you are awesome
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and I so appreciate you I appreciate you
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in the movement and I'm so behind this
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movement Kara because we really want
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women and men out there not to get
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caught up in these stereotypes right
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because that's what slows us down out
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there and we don't thrive in the store
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together if we're getting caught up in
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old stories and robots that's so true
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it's so true so I'm going to go ahead
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and drop you out into the lobby and I'm
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going to bring in our next guest
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so our next guest is one of our
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contributors in the magazine her name is
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Kat Willeford and she's a pioneer in the
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field of coaching and transformational
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self development and she's appeared as a
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guest expert on the Maury Povich Show
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and she's coached on LA's ABC talk radio
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amongst many many many things so I'm
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gonna go ahead and we're gonna bring Kat
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Williford into the show how are you know
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so so so so so so exciting I can say
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that lots of times so so so so so
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exciting you can't say that so many
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times so when you were on the show with
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me a while back one of the questions
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that we asked was what are you hiding
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behind those masks that you wear so tell
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us a little bit about these masks why do
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we call them masts and what are we
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hiding you know I love what you and Joey
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were talking about earlier
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because we were talking about the lone
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wolf right you know we're talk about the
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lone wolf and I think for women in
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particular but I've seen it in the men I
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work with as well this idea that we can
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go it alone actually brings up our masks
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and they're based on the shame or the
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embarrassment that we feel that we
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actually might need help right and so
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the masks hide our vulnerability they
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hide the fact that we all need to ask
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for help I mean I am so living that
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right now in this moment I'm in Port
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Arthur Texas helping my mom deal with
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her home after harvey's floods and you
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cannot do this alone and so it's really
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had me thinking and the work I'm doing
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with my clients even as I'm on the road
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is all about let's not pretend and those
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masks make us pretend they make us
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pretend that we can control everything
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that's the chief operating officer of
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control one of my favor I I think I wear
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that one too and her sisters perfection
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ista and the steamroller you know we can
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get in that mode and what that does is
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it halts collaboration the key here of
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what we hide is our vulnerability and
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what's under that is of course our fear
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of enough are we enough do people see me
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as enough and ultimately that question
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can only exist if we are questioning our
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own worth if we're questioning am i
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giving enough am i doing enough am i and
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here we go with the litany am I pretty
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enough am i skinny enough am I do I have
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enough money whatever those messages are
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by any of us they poison and they make
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that mask thicker that's so so important
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what you're saying and I I know that you
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have so much more to say and for those
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of you who want to learn more about Kat
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Williford and find out what her little
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white lie is make sure that you click
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the link that I'm going to put in the
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description up there after the show go
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and get that magazine the little white
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lie virginal magazine Oh
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it because you're gonna find out more
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about cat Willeford thank you so much
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for joining us today cat and thank you
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Karen for the service you're doing for
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all of us oh thank you right back at you
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all right so another one of our
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contributors her name is Darla Claire
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and I'm gonna bring her up in just a
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second she's a pioneer in the field of
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coaching actually she's not she's a
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lifestyle architect who also coaches
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there you go sorry about that she's an
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entrepreneur with over 30 years working
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in the business and after ending a
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25-year marriage she chose to reinvent
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herself and her lifestyle so we're gonna
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go ahead and bring Darla Claire into the
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show and here she is hey Darla how you
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doing today I am doing great I'm so
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excited
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Caryn's I am so excited for you to be
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here as well you know we we all have so
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many stories that we tell ourselves and
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that we are actually living through
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right now as well and one of the
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questions that that we talked about on
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the show was actually okay I've designed
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my life now what and we had a really
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great conversation tell us a little bit
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about what we talked about well we
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talked about there's so many and I'm
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including myself in this there's so many
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women and that have dreams and desires
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and they want it and they designed a
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look they they've got it planned out and
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what it is that they want you know once
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they've discovered what it is that you
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want what kind of lifestyle you want the
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key is is like how do you get actually
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make it so you can be successful and you
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can make it and not stop short I used to
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I used to design my life or make plans
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and for some reason I wouldn't be able
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to follow through with them they never
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happened to me until I started actually
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introspectively thinking about what is
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it that's stopping me what are those
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things that that's going on in my
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internal mindset which is our
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subconscious mind that's stopping me
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which is limiting beliefs negative
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emotions and so when once we clean
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things up so they're not a hindrance to
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us and we can have be empowered and
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the other thing that we talked about is
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also then having what you want out there
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the design to life or that design
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business that you want to be so powerful
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that it pulls you instead of push it
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instead of you being pushed by anything
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negative that it's pulling you towards
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your goals and then you get what then
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you get that lifestyle that you want and
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we all want that right we all want to be
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able to have something to strive towards
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and to be pulled towards which is why
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what you do is so important any other
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tips that you want to share well one of
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the things that I think is important at
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least for for me and and my clients too
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is to take the time to do an inventory
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just like Katt was talking a little bit
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about those masks that we we wear a lot
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of them some of those things we are
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aware of them but a lot of things we're
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not aware of them it's just taking an
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inventory and and just ask yourself what
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is it that could possibly be blocking me
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from getting to where I want to go and
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and just being introspective and then
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also getting getting help when you need
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it we're all here to help each other so
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it's getting help absolutely hot thank
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you so much for that and I know that
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we're gonna have lots and lots of people
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that want to learn more about you Darla
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and find out what your little white lie
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is so as we said before make sure that
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you come back and at the end of the show
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and look at the link above there click
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it download the magazine and find out
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what Darla Claire's little white lie is
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thank you so much for joining us Darla
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Thank You Karyn thank you so much I'm so
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excited
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I love this new party that's happening
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and I love the fact that you're were all
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supporting each other here I'm so
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excited about it
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absolutely thank you so much and so our
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next guest actually is not here he went
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to Disneyland and he was so ready to be
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on with us today that he actually rented
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a hotel room so that he could go to the
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hotel room in the middle of his day at
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Disneyland so he could get online and of
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course we know technology is only as
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good as it is on any given day and it
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was not very good and I know he's very
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frustrated I want to tell you a little
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bit about him though
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his name is Casey Everhart he's an
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internationally recognized speaker and
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trainer and while his all of his
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kindergarten friends were grappling with
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what do they want to be when they grow
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up or maybe not even thinking about it
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he was already a serial entrepreneur he
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was selling stuff in the neighborhood to
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the other kindergartners and that set
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him on the road to be one of one of the
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top income earners in a network
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marketing company that's out there and
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one of the things that I asked him was
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can you teach an old dog new tricks he
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had some really great responses and I
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know that you're gonna want to find out
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what he said so just like before make
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sure you click that link up there and
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make sure that you download the magazine
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so that you can find out what Casey had
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to say about teaching old dogs new
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tricks and what was his little white
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lies and now this next this next
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wonderful woman that I want to introduce
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you to her name is Susan Jacobs she's an
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image professional who helps her clients
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increase their confidence credibility
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and profitability through authentic
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style she has been featured on
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television radio and numerous print
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outlets and I'm gonna bring her in right
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now hello Susan Jacobs hello Karen
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Glasser and friends I am so happy you're
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here you know I've been following you I
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love how you do what you do you are the
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real deal I've told you that before and
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I'm just thrilled that you're here and
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the question that we talked about when
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you were on the show was what does the
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best version of you look like and we it
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was a great conversation went back and
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forth all over the place
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tell us a little bit about what you
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thought about what people said and some
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tips that you might want to share so
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that is a question and Karen thank you
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for doing this thank you for having me
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here this is so exciting and I'm happy
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to be part of this we movement the wee
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little white line movement so the
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question is you know when I ask my
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clients this my first style of women
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Klein last question order room of women
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what is that best version of you what
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does that look like when it's your
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favorite feel good look for you
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so Karen I can tell you that one of
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three things happen the first one the
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woman can't wait to explain her outfit
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she's very excited and she'll tell me
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where she's wearing it and you know
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that's great I know that that woman has
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done the self work and she's owning it
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the second scenario that can happen is
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someone will say oh I love it
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here's my outfit you know I love to wear
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my jeans I really you know I've got over
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jeans and a pair of beautiful pumps and
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a fun top and I said great so do you
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love your jeans well yeah you know not
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so much I'll say well do you wear them
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well I would I would that's the look I
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would wear
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right away not there yet and the last
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and unfortunately this is the most
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prevalent response and on a radio show
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it would be a disaster but for me in a
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crowd I kind of like this because when I
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ask the question
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it is absolutely dead air quiet people
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are uncomfortable and they're wiggling
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around they're looking up to watch their
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fiddling with their hair they're looking
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anywhere of the bee because they have no
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idea and it's like okay that's good news
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for me because that's a challenge and I
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think you know what we're all in this
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together as Darla says this cat says
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we're going to stop that right now
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and I'm going to help you put you on
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your own to do this and we're gonna have
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more fun I love that put yourself on
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your own to-do list that is such a great
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great comment so I know that people are
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wondering what your little white lie is
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but we're not going to tell them right
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they have to go and download the
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magazine from the link above to find out
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all about you and all the other rest of
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the stuff that we talked about and and
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just more information about you as well
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as what your little white lie is so I
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want to thank you from the bottom my
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heart for joining us today
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Susan thank you so much thank you love
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you guys thanks a lot thank you okay
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this is
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really really exciting right now I can
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barely stand it so first before we even
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go into the I'm gonna show the magazine
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cover in just a minute
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but before we go there I I have a couple
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people that I want to thank from the
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bottom of my heart the first person is
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Betty Ann green Betty Ann green and I
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have been working on all the print
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information that has come out all the
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blog posts in the content things that we
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have done from the very very beginning I
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could not do this without Betty Ann
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green she has this innate ability to
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take the stuff that we put on live on my
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shows and then to take it and put it
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into a blog post it actually makes sense
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because if you left it to me we have no
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idea what it would actually look like so
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Betty Ann green a shout out to you you
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are an awesome woman and I am so happy
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that you are part of this amazing team
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of people that have helped put this put
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this magazine out there okay so I'm
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getting ready now to throw up well no
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I'm not getting ready to throw up but
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I'm getting ready to throw up
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the cover of the magazine onto the
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screen and before I do that I have one
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more thank you and that is to Stacy
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Bloodworth Stacy Bloodworth is a gym
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it's one of those one of those times
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that when you meet somebody and you
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click she is a photographer like no one
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I have ever met in my life I actually
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went in and met up with her and she's
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the one who did this amazing cover the
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photo that's on the cover that I'm about
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to show you and and also all there are
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other shots that you might be seeing me
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put out there at this point this is all
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from Stacy Bloodworth how blessed am I
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to have somebody who was able to capture
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me in a photograph that we could use on
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the cover of the magazine so who's ready
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to see the cover of the magazine say yes
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in the comments right now you're ready
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to see the cover this magazine because
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I'm getting ready to reveal it right now
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at the count of three we're gonna say
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one two three and here is the cover of
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the premier issue of a little white lie
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virtual magazine so as we we look at
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this I have to say that for me I'm
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stepping into a vulnerability here in a
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way that
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I have never ever done before I am so so
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proud of the cover this magazine I'm so
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so proud of what the magazine looks like
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on the inside and I am so so proud that
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I have so many so many people in my
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world that are with me on this
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so I thank everyone I thank all of you
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that are out here making these amazing
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comments thank you thank you thank you I
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can't wait for you to see what's on the
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inside but before I send you up to the
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link above I'm now going to come into
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the screen because I do want to share
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something believe it or not it's going
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to be one year my birthday party of my
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little white light one year in November
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so guess what we're gonna have we're
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gonna have a birthday party on November
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15th and you can't have a party without
18:21
a present right you have kept presents
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on the party so I have a present that
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I'm going to be giving away to one lucky
18:28
winner
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it's an Amazon fire stick now the reason
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why I'm giving away an Amazon fire stick
18:34
is that you can stick that little Amazon
18:37
fire stick into your TV you can download
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the free Facebook app and guess what you
18:41
can do you can watch our shows right on
18:44
the television screen how cool is that
18:46
so we're gonna be giving away a fire
18:49
stick now you may be wondering well how
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do I get myself into the running to get
18:53
the fire stick well I'm gonna tell you
18:54
right now you're going to go over to the
18:57
little white lie Network group page and
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I would have put the link up but as we
19:02
had some technical difficulties I don't
19:03
have it written down here but we put the
19:05
link in there you're gonna got going
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over there and if you haven't already
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joined the group you need to join the
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post at the very top of the page and
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it's going to talk about the contest and
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it's going to say in order to enter you
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need to comment down below and say what
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what your little white lie is and so the
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way to actually be in the running for
19:29
this Amazon stick is to go to the page
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and put your little white lion then I
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will pick somebody from that list it'll
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be a blind pull we'll take all the names
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put them in a bowl have somebody pull
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and then that winners gonna join me on
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November 15th on a live show where I
19:44
will present the Amazon stick and we
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will
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we share your little white light I am so
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excited about this I just want to thank
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you again for joining us today we know
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that you have a choice as to how you
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spend your time we want to thank you
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because you chose it to spend it with us
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and we are very very appreciative of
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that don't forget to go up there and
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request after you click that link and
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so go ahead and click the link we'll see
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you next week on the next episode of
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little white lie see you later everyone