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What does the best version of you look like?
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Aug 9, 2017
On this #LittleWhiteLie we talk with Image and Wardrobe Consultant, Susan Jacobs and ask the question "What does the best version of you look like?" http://www.TheLittleWhiteLie.com Check out all of the shows here: http://www.TheLittleWhiteLie.com My Direct Links, Programs & Equipment I use for my Shows & Promotion: BeLive: http://bit.ly/3p7E0DB Get Your Book In Front Of Thousands of Potential Buyers! https://bit.ly/2HJ38Qu Logitech HD Pro Webcam: https://amzn.to/362BuXP Wired Earbuds with Microphone: http://amzn.to/3p1pmOi Lavalier Lapel Microphone: http://amzn.to/3p9EFVo Blue Yeti USB Mic: https://amzn.to/395hExi ATR2100-USB Cardioid Dynamic Microphone: http://amzn.to/3qzEy5A LED Video Light Kit: http://amzn.to/360Qg1w Neewer Ring Light Kit: http://amzn.to/392bON2 (Some links on this video page may be affiliate links that can result in small commissions & help support the channel, they DO NOT cause you to pay any extra money for an item)
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okay hello everyone welcome to the
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today I'm really excited about our guest
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I'm the question that we're going to be
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asking is how do you figure out what the
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best version of you looks like and who
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better than to have Susan Jacobs joining
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us she is an image and wardrobe
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consultant who helps her clients
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increase their confidence credibility
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and profitability through authentic
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style at the leader in the industry sue
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has been featured on television radio
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numerous print outlets and she was
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actually the host of her own TV show sue
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around the city that's kind of cool
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actually and was thrilled to be a
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member in the industries featured member
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on the industry's magazine aici global
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she inspires men and women to align who
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they are on the inside with how they
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want to present themselves on the
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outside by making strategic wardrobe
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choices that leads to a newfound
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confidence and unstoppable energy so
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without further ado I'm going to bring
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in our special guest Susan Jacobs hey
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sue how you doing today I'm wonderful
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thank you for having me here oh my gosh
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I'm so excited you're here we've been
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chatting it up right before the show and
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we have so much to talk about but Before
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we jump into the question I want to ask
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you would I ask all of my guests what is
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your little white lie do you know what I
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thought about that so I will share no
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judgment okay and I love your parents so
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I have to say in the last couple of
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years probably three years those little
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white lies can change so this is a
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recent one I was used to being always
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having a suntan so when the summer came
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you know I would sport around in dresses
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bare legs you know skirts to the knees
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but then I had you know a little bit of
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scare with stun and I I do not do that
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anymore so I feel like a little white
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ghost
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so I mean on this I think you can hide a
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lot of things we can have a great tan so
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I avoided yeah and I mean Here I am
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saying don't worry about it ladies you
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don't just get out there and have fun so
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I thought why am I wearing in sweltering
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weather cute little dresses and tunics
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and then it would have the cropped
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little Tillis tights on and it was
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restrictive and I'll tell you do what it
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was darn hot and I would get it in the
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car turn on the air-conditioner bill oh
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my gosh can't wait to get home and feel
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these off and then it was like you know
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what I need to embrace this because I
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know that I'm the one that notices those
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white legs that aren't as perfect as
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they were
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so do you know what I'm just going to do
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it so it would you know what this is
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liberating because I know yeah and I
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know that I'm the one that notices the
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most right now I know that some of those
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people that might be watching Oracle
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maybe for a minute there is a you can
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check it out but really it's just
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another we are our own worst critics so
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oh so true and it is the mindset I mean
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it is definitely the mindset we look in
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the mirror and we go and we pick
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ourselves apart right oh I don't like
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the way that looks oh my legs are too
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white
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right oh my gosh yeah so that's it if
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you have so if you have a great pair of
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shoes or some cool jewelry no one is
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looking at those legs so that was white
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by and I'm so happy because I love color
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I totally love that no I mean tell us a
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little bit about how you became this
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image and wardrobe consultant a little
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bit about your story and then we're
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gonna jump into that question on you
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know how do you figure out what looks
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best so to be very succinct I was one of
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those people who other people came to
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throughout my career as a teacher in
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education just say in my friends in
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university what should I be looking feet
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I should wear and to be quite honest
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Karen I had to wear school uniform for
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13 years all through grade school so you
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know the creativity came on the weekends
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and I'm kind of just do it so but I kind
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of used to like to play with clothing
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and still do and it evolved and the
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other part of the piece of my role is an
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image and wardrobe consultant is I came
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from a place of as a kid where
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confidence wasn't something that came
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easy to me I was not the most confident
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youngster when I stepped into that
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confidence realizing wow what a waste of
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time to be focused on what I wasn't
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because I know these other things right
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I feel like I bring that to the table I
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can relate I guess that feels like to be
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very hostile cockiness or one area but
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not you confident in other areas so but
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kind of where it landed so I mean would
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it be would it be fair to say that
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people come to you to to help
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then figure out what the best version of
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them looks like they need help with that
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it that when it come to you yes that's a
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great summation because you know that
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without looks like to each person is
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different there's parts of that story
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that we sort out along the way because
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oftentimes they will call for one reason
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and by the end of that first call it's
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like wow diamond even why I called you
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so guys this is what I really need you
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can help me so is there like a single
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one little tip that you want to share
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that somebody might like answer the
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question that might help them towards
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that figuring out how the best or what
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the best version of them looks like with
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your piece a tip that you might want to
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give us I I would say first of all if
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you hear that question and you have no
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idea it's time to do some self
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exploration haha some time and think
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about it oh my goodness so this is very
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timely the post I shared span on my
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business page with an email comment from
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a client I haven't seen for you haven't
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met her or work with her but she does
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have the homework that I sent and she
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wrote the word that this is where I'm
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going to say she said when I read the
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question what is your feel good what is
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your feel good look for you she said I I
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had no idea and she's like I feel
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embarrassed about that
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but you know how did I reach this
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pinnacle in my business career and not
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know what feels good for me I think
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women need to take some time and just
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think about that what yeah what when do
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you feel I've got this you know let's
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not look like and trying to duplicate it
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more often that's a great question so
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I'm asking this ask our viewers right
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now I put the question up on the screen
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what is your feel good look for you what
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would that look like for you give us
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some comments in there and if and if you
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put them in there we'll put them up on
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me on the screen right here
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and then we're going to continue right
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so what do you suggest for those who
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want to start they're gonna look at
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themselves in the mirror right and are
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they going to just look at the different
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pieces of them or try on different
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clothes or how does this work exactly
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what's the first thing they should do
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you think
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I ask my clients of pregnant clients you
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know do you notice that you get
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particular compliments when you wear a
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certain something or maybe it's a color
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or what is it that you find that you are
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drawn to when you go shopping you don't
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know and if they go on like this then I
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think those are sort of some cues to
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help you focus in zero in on it are you
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a person who loves scarves okay do you
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have some ah but you don't know how to
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tie them okay we can solve those
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problems there are many people who have
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beautiful jewelry but they don't know
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how to accessorize they don't know how
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to put it together so that is something
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that I really love to help people put it
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together I love I like that it's so we
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have somebody online sue that says a
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tunic and leggings earthy jewelry
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something fun and relaxed
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that's her go to feel good and then
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we're gonna put one more up Joey says I
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love wearing she can easily easy with a
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little happy face I am NOT an accessory
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girl instead I like a closing piece to
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be the accent so that's interesting
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there's two different things they saw
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those Joey works with you and I know
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that you don't know that so yes and the
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thing is too that both of these women
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couldn't be more contrasted style
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personality so that's really important
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and if you don't know what that is
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that's something that I do and I'm so
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appointment figure out what coop are you
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are you someone who's dramatic and you
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love to wear hair basically are you
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someone who is more about organic and
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they love all things cotton limited
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tackle e in boho and feminine classic
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chic yes any of those this is great
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carry this feminine and classic I just
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put that up there and Darla here I'm a
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jeans and classy boho girl I like
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bracelets not necklaces this is great
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great comments guys thank you so much
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for participating in this I want to push
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this a little bit farther because you
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know this whole movement is about loving
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the ages are in and and acknowledging
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the lies that we tell herself and we
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know that this is how it started with me
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correct and for the longest time as I
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looked at
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self in the mirrors this was starting to
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come out it was not resonating with me I
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was looking and I had this whole mind
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SEC going that I was no longer sexy I
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was no longer good-looking was something
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wrong with this and once I'd push my way
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through that I realized that really what
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I was looking at was that I needed to
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change some of the things that I was
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wearing some of the makeup in fact I
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literally put makeup on I put lipstick
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on before I come on shows now because
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the coloring has to change my coloring
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correct so as we get older would you say
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and as our coloring changes as we get
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older maybe what used to look good on us
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no longer does this is so true and this
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is curative ladies out there if you are
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still doing what you did five years ago
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I'm even going to say ten because I know
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that happens life is busy okay time for
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a reboot right and I want to say also to
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it's not that difficult it does take a
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step back and you said to me you know
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what would be the best version of you it
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does take some time to think about that
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but it does start inside right it
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definitely because you can be all dolled
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up as the most expensive beautiful
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outfit but if you don't feel it it's
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right and and I know that Michael style
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has changed I mean if you if you go back
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ten years I was the girl who wore
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five-inch heels I was the girl who wore
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earrings that literally I mean I'm gonna
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say this out loud because that's what we
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call them we called them nipple dusters
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they saw earrings and that was my style
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and that was how I showed up and I was
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known for that it spiky hair and the
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whole thing now we move forward into
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tears later I've got great silver hair
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that's coming in I can't wear high heels
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like that any more nor would I want to
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I'm going to break my neck and even
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though I I still think that high heels
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are really look great for legs it's just
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not it's just not feasible and
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physically possible and sometimes you
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have to acknowledge that our bodies
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change right and we can't do what we
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used to do it doesn't mean it's a bad
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thing it just means there's something
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even better out there to start using
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right it's so German it really tops your
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Creator
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sigh and I tell you I love that look by
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the way that you described I can
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resonate my mare would be down to here
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very early and the higher the shoe the
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better isin like a better shoes let's be
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honest we can still be all that and miss
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top and modern and current and relevant
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in our age that way we are exactly the
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way we are right because there are ways
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to camouflage all those bit sets and
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let's just say let's showcase all the
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beautiful aspects and every single woman
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has many of those we want to shift
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around and start focusing on a lot do
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you Morgan I will tell you for yes I
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tried to iron my hair because I didn't
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like the curls oh that was such a
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nightmare that it's like you know what
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let it go and and I get it because you
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know I was coloring my hair every three
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weeks because I did not want to be this
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way and now I can't even imagine going
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back I mean truly I can't imagine going
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back so you know this is this has been a
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really interesting conversation and
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we've so many great tips to everyone
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that's out there and we've had some
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great you know comments from from the
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group and keep make sure you keep
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commenting because I know Susan and I
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are going to go back in there we're
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going to respond and we're going to keep
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that conversation going but for those of
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us and I'm sure there's lots of you who
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want to know how do you get in touch
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with Sue where you're gonna go to
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personal style consulting.com you're
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gonna go check out her website all of
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her great stuff is there and you're
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gonna get to know her better that way
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and then you're gonna make sure you
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tweet her because she's on Twitter at
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Sue in the city I love that and I love
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the fact that you had a TV show that was
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like that as well thank you very very
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cool we didn't even get to that we're
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gonna have teddy bear talk about that as
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well also on instagram at su ra e that
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is AJ right there and finally go check
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it out her Facebook page
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it's called personal style image and
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wardrobe consultant and you will
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actually go right there and go and like
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the page and interact with sue okay
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because that's what she's there she is
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as you know what Joey you absolutely
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right Oh
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totally totally agree you know you're
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awesome and any last thoughts that you
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want to share with our audience because
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we're getting ready to end I can't
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believe we're already done so any less
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nice so for ladies who were out there
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for maybe you know this is jogged a
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little something in you look around what
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do you surround yourself with do you
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have a pond in your yard do you love
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flowers do you like clean and shiny at
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all brand-new that is an indicator of
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your personal style if you are someone
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who's surrounded by all or the elements
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but you are decked out every day for
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work in the corporate structured suit
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there's going to be a dissonance there
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you need to embrace those things that
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are saying they're thinking from the
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inside to come out and say we're me so I
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love it great camp you know I want to
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thank you for being on with us today and
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I especially want to thank our viewers
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and we know that you have a choice as to
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where to spend your time we are
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eternally grateful that you chose to
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spend it with us today so we appreciate
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that go out and give somebody an awesome
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day and we'll see you next time on the
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next episode of the little white lie
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good bye everyone bye
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