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Sep 11, 2017
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hello everyone this is Karen Glasser and
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I'm here with my buddy Gary Garrety hi
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everyone
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hey Joey good to see you we're here with
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women inspiring women rise together and
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today our question is how does your
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business rhythm impact your personal
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life so Joey what does that actually
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mean
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what is a business rhythm I don't even
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know what that means well it was just
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interesting because Karen and I we were
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talking last week rolling out on the
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other side of her recent show with the
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captain sandy on and we were talking
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about our rhythms and so a business
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rhythm is really something that you
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identify early on and then you
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organically build your entire company
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around it it will help you so you like
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for instance i'ma fir to myself as a
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green horse so I walked fast I talk fast
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eat fast everything I do has to be like
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going a thousand miles a minute
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I love to go go go go go go right well I
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wanted to develop my entire company
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around that rhythm not necessarily where
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my clients because not everyone wants to
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move as faster than me right so so
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rhythm is yeah and we've talked about
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that because my rhythm is maybe even
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faster than yours I I think you're
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always laughing at me saying whoa wait
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wait wait you've already got the step up
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so how does it impact our personal life
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then I mean so let's use this an example
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you go go go
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this is how your business is how does
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that relate and translate in terms of
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what you're doing in your personal life
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well I think something that I'm always
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grappling with or what I'm working on
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right now is finding balance because it
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rolls over my personal life mm-hmm like
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I want to constantly be moving all the
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time and always be in forward motion and
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moving at like it like a freight train
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and so what I have had to do is I've had
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to find ways for my personal life to be
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able to slow down enough in order to be
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at peace with others in the room and so
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that's where yoga meditation has been my
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key components for me to slow basically
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slow you down our viewers if you have a
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comment about how your business rhythm
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is impacting your personal life go ahead
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and put it in the comments
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we'd love to hear from you so continuing
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the conversation I know for me as well I
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I probably should be doing yoga or
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meditation but every time I think about
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it I think oh my gosh it's just way too
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slow I could not possibly slow down
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enough to do yoga yeah I mean that's
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that's all that's fun what's right for
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you right but meditation yoga has
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because what it does is it forces me to
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stay on the mat long enough to be in the
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moment and just to be and that
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translates into my business where I
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allow myself just to be in my business
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and not moving a million miles an hour
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because what are we doing after a while
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Karen when we're moving so fast like you
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know we're talking about this what is
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this really about the end of the day for
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you and I we love to get over finish
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lines right right the huge component for
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Karen and I that's why we're very close
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is when we met we got along very well
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very quickly right because we're like
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two little mirrors and and I know Lisa's
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just talking about mirror Lib and yep we
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need a balance for sure right Marilyn
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has been a game changer for me as well
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as this woman has taught us the
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technique of mere love in any man that
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does not know about this yet please
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reach out to Lisa Laurent and learn from
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her
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but it's about finish line so let's talk
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about that because that was what really
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came up for us when the show was sandy
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with captain city aunt yon when we were
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on the other side of it right right is
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that we crossed the finish line what
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what how is that impacting the way we're
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showing up both in our personal and our
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business life because that's part of our
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business rhythm it is it is and I think
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I mean we it was rush rush rush right go
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go go and yet I think for and for me
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personally it sort of feeds me it is
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sort of like the fuel that feeds me as I
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do what I do is to go go go I don't know
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how you feel about that but it literally
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is the fuel it's like the gasoline point
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gasoline on the fire and I just go go go
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and how about you well the the the
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constant need to get over finish lines
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is something that I've had a I've really
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had to work on over
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couple years with my business itself
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because everyone has their own business
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rhythm right right and so I've had to
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learn how to times let someone else but
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get and let them have their own rhythm
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and maybe we're not gonna get over the
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finish line as quickly as I would like
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for us to did you just say I went I
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literally have an anxiety attack
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thinking I'm not gonna pass the finish
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line and and you know we I'm just
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storing up comments as we're chatting
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you know one of the things that I'm
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starting to do you talked about balance
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and you talked about finding balance and
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let's say we got soap reported on true
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preneur it is hard not to mesh the two
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as Carrie knows it's hard not yeah it is
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it's hard not to stop but one of the
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things that I'm starting to do is that I
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used to literally have my phone with me
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all night long no matter what I was
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doing and an email would come in and
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boom I would respond to the email I am
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working really hard to allow the emails
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to come in without me responding I told
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the next day that's my little itty-bitty
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step of trying to slow myself down
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even though ultimately answering those
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emails are gonna get me past the finish
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line quicker okay that's a perfect
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example that Karen thank you so much for
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sharing that cuz I'm the same way
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I believe it's part of how we're
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organically built and also with my
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background in Hollywood I was trained to
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immediately respond right away and if I
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didn't there would be repercussions on
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the other end right right so as an
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entrepreneur I think we bring a lot of
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the old corporate stuff into our
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business rhythm today that's actually
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not doesn't serve us anymore
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brazen serve us so I love so here's what
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I've done to at 10 o'clock at night
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which is huge for me I literally put the
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phone away because I was like you know
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sleeping with my phone I still am kind
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of sleeping with my phone don't tell my
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husband okay he thinks I only sleep with
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him I actually sleep with my phone so
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April says I do the same thing
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his work as soon as an email comes in I
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feel compelled to read and reply
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instantly so as to get it out of the
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queue so one of the things that I have
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been told is to identify during your day
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and if you're just going to talk about
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email right now identified during the
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day the times that you will actually
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follow up on emails like you identify in
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the morning I do emails between you know
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nine and ten and then I do it again
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between three and four and you literally
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let people know that I'm going to answer
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emails between this time and this time
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and that time in that time so that you
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manage the expectation for me it's
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always been about managing expectations
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people now expect me to respond on the
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dime right and yeah it's sure like I I
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think for us as green horses
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this whole chunking time a win we're
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gonna exactly respond to emails I don't
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know if it if it's a if it works I don't
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know if it's the right fit for us
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because we want to be moving so quickly
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so here's a little white secret I was
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talking to someone the other day that
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told me that they literally saved their
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emails and because they're responding so
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quickly and they're doing it late at
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night like I used to do so that they
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don't go in till next day because I
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don't want people to think that they're
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up mm-hmm
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midnight what a morning so were you and
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I we're in a good like world like
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there's a lot of a lot of us in the same
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boat I think what's the real question
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behind all this is why do we feel so
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compelled to get to get back to someone
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right very quickly and I think that that
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is learned behavior I do I think that
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they were for me I listen studios or
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corporations they're just one big fat
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corporation I think we're trained very
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young to be responsive when you're in in
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service components and now that we're of
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service I feel like I can turn things
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off differently but then I use my
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business rhythm that the the freight
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train because that's how I'm built
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I'm born this way right and I use it in
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other ways so that so that I can be in
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my national rhythm all the time
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so I think the message for for everyone
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that's that's tuning in today and if
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you're here on replay we would love to
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hear what you have to say put your
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comments down there below is that we
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have to within ourselves figure out what
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that business rhythm is and then take a
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look at what we're doing in our personal
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lives to see how we might shift it you
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know that balance word is it's a is an
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interesting word I'm not sure that we're
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ever going to do balance oh there's my
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dog actually he's very happy with me
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right now um you know balance to me is
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both my work and my personal life or
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kind of merged together that's my
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balance because I do love my work and I
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know that you love your work too right
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Joey I mean it is part of who you are so
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it's finding that quote-unquote balance
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which I'm not sure what that means
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exactly but for all of our viewers find
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that business rhythm are you speedy are
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you slow are you not even on like the
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blip of the radar you know so figure out
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what your business rhythm is and how it
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is impacting your personal life any last
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thoughts Joey that we can share both
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yeah there's techniques and tools out
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there that will help you to balance out
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out there and once so for the speed ease
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like you and I it is very common I read
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a lot of articles on this etc and
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there's very common where they suggest
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over and over again yoga and meditation
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because it forces us to be able to sit
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even though that is not organic for us
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it forces us to be able to sit in it
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which has helped me tremendously in my
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business because when I have clients
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that aren't don't want to go a million
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miles an hour I'll okay with it now I'm
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just like I'm like listen you don't want
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to get over the finish line
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for her six months I'm okay with it but
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before Karen it would have been very
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difficult for me
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yeah Airy difficult I would have taken
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it personally that they didn't want to
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get over the finish line at the same
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time as me and now more open hearted
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about it and a mindful I'm very mindful
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and I'm just like hey I know your rhythm
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this is mine it's all cool I love that I
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totally love that
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sunshine sue Wood says combining work
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and life is the reason we are
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entrepreneurs hear hear
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exactly and and April is chiming in
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exactly what Robert said I had put his
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post up there as well we're delighted
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that you're here with us we know that
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you have a choice as to how you spend
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your time and we want to thank you
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because you're here with us today so
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look forward to seeing you in a couple
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of weeks we do these women inspiring
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this share this with the people in your
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life to see how maybe their business
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rhythm is impacting their personal life
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we'll see you next time on our next
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