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Jul 18, 2019
You Have the Power to Change the World! Caren Glasser talks with Facebook Specialist Adaire Palmer on the this episode of The Super Boomer Lifestyle Show! http://www.TheSuperBoomerLifestyle.com #superboomer Check out more shows here: http://www.carenglasser.live. Follow us on Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/carenglasser Follow us on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/carenglasserlive Follow us on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/carenglasser Visit The Super Boomer Lifestyle store: https://thesuperboomerlifestyle.com/ My Direct Links, Programs & Equipment I use for my Shows & Promotion: BeLive: http://bit.ly/3p7E0DB Get Your Book In Front Of Thousands of Potential Buyers! https://bit.ly/2HJ38Qu Logitech HD Pro Webcam: https://amzn.to/362BuXP Wired Earbuds with Microphone: http://amzn.to/3p1pmOi Lavalier Lapel Microphone: http://amzn.to/3p9EFVo Blue Yeti USB Mic: https://amzn.to/395hExi ATR2100-USB Cardioid Dynamic Microphone: http://amzn.to/3qzEy5A LED Video Light Kit: http://amzn.to/360Qg1w Neewer Ring Light Kit: http://amzn.to/392bON2 (Some links on this video page may be affiliate links that can result in small commissions & help
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you have the power to change the world
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you do and I talked about this and more
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with my guest face book specialist Adair
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Palmer on today super boomer lifestyle
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show hello everyone this is karen
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Glasser I am your livestream host and I
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am delighted that you're here with us
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today the super boomer lifestyle show is
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for super boomers clearly that's pretty
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obvious right and beyond and how we
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enhance our lifestyle or health our
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empowerment and more if you're here live
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make sure you make a comment down below
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and we will put you up on the screen if
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all right everyone today my guest is
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Adair Palmer she is passionate
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I mean passionate about bringing people
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together and one of her superpowers
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which I absolutely love is helping small
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businesses grow and using Facebook and
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developing communities so she's joining
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us today from Adelaide Australia to
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change the world with us so welcome
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Adair how are you doing hello Karen how
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are you I'm doing very very well
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it is quite early in the morning here
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and I'm actually in Brisbane at the
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moment not in a delay Oh
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normally I am normally in Adelaide and
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today I'm coming to you from Brisbane be
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your traveler your traveler I love this
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obviously for Bieber and I can go where
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I want get it can yes you can't and I'm
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so glad you said that because that leads
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us into the very first question you know
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and that's how do you describe a super
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boomer now I describe a super bloomer
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not by their age I just I describe a
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super boomers how they show up in life
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so
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dare take it away how do you show how do
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you describe a super boomer well for me
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a super boomer is somebody who isn't us
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afraid to throw caution to the wind and
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go on the adventure of their lives no
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matter what age they are like you were
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saying it's not an age it's about your
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attitudes and the way you approach life
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because there is so much to experience
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and so much to do and well around me I
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see so many cautious people who are too
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scared to really step out and do things
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that are just new and different and
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exciting and it's really sad but anyway
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I've chosen not to you know I know that
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and love if it is say I don't know I
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don't know where it comes from actually
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I don't know why I think the media tells
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us one thing maybe our friends and
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family well-meaning as they are
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sometimes they tell us something else
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right and even our kids oh my gosh our
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kids I know my kids oh yeah I think they
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think that I'm so old that maybe I'm not
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even here anymore but you know I think
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that we're guided by what other people
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say and at the end of the day it's what
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we think isn't it it's absolutely what
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we think and what the what's what's in
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our own hearts and where we can you know
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because they'll know I can live your
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life for you and I was just reflecting
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on when I had a corporate job in state
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government's Department and I hang on to
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that for grim death because it was my
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security it was a very well-paying job
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and a female in corporate this is going
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back I started last century
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doesn't that sound weird oh but when I
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when I started and I thought that was it
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that was going to be I was going to live
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out my days and I was going to you know
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in that job and I was going to get get
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my retirement and do all that you know
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after my wife left there probably about
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six seven years ago and
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life is just now full of excitement and
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adventure and there's lots of things
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happening so I know surviving not just
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surviving I'm thriving you're thriving
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and I think that's the I mean I I get
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exhausted watching everything that
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you're doing out there you have multiple
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groups in multiple communities you
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really do not just talk the talk you
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walk the walk and in fact your tagline
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is and I just absolutely love this
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helping people help people tell us a
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little bit about that what does that
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mean well that came up when I started
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when I actually left government I was
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going to die didn't know what I was
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going to do and I was I was actually in
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a pretty bad space and I ended up just
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took 12 months off to lick my wounds and
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nurture myself and rediscover myself and
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it was always about helping people
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excuse me and I've got my morning voice
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on carry says hello you got your morning
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voice guys if you're wondering
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white-white adara saying that for those
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of us who are in the States whether it's
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Eastern Time with Pacific time it's
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Wednesday around 2:30 or 5:30 depending
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on where you are what time is it where
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you are in Brisbane
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Adele right it's just gone 7 is just
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after 7:30 a.m. on Thursday morning so
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we're just subtly well in the future I
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love that Georgie says that what you
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were talking about it's so very true you
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know about helping two people so let's
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continue I'm sorry to interrupt you but
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I I just I realize we're watching people
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here and they don't know why you are
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saying it's so early I kept that spot
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and I can't see the comments otherwise I
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would say hello to everybody
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Georgie Georgie was on you know at
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Georgie because Georgie Fitzgerald is on
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and she is from Down Under as well and
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they're friends of mine and from the
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States we have Joey Garrity and she says
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helping people help people love it I
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mean it's a great slogan a great slogan
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and I know Joey as well hello Joey and
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hey you I think you need to talk to
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Georgie I'll put you girls in touch
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afterwards
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she's an amazing person so helping
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people help people I actually retrained
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after I came out from under my under my
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funk I guess
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and I'd retrained as a hypnotherapist
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because I was really passionate what not
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and I still AM about helping people were
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not found as a result of that that I was
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really really good at attracting clients
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using social media for one reason or
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another right and when I found another
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hypnotherapist was saying to me how do
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you how do you get your clients and I
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started just use Facebook and so they
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asked me to show them and so I showed
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one and then I showed two and then I
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showed you know I was actually around my
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dining room table and I actually had to
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cap it at six I had castles for a year
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once a fortnight around my dining room
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table and I had to cap it at six because
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my dining room table wasn't that big Oh
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interesting about this Adair is that I
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mean it's same thing happened with me I
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mean we we are super boomers and and we
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are not you know 20 year olds and 30
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year olds we are we are women who who
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have embraced our age and we have
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stepped into technology right we have
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stepped full full-on into technology you
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are a Facebook specialist and I know one
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of the things that I'm always asked by
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super boomers of a certain age I'm too
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old to do that I'm totally hoping today
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right sorry to cut you off Karen but I'm
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so passionate about this because when I
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hear people say that I have to remind
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them about why they're here because I
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work with hypnotherapist and coaches and
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masseuses and people who do bowen
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therapy and people in the alternative
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healing modalities because I understand
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the industry and they are so passionate
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about what they do but they're not
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marketers and so they need you they need
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people like you are there and they need
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people like Joey Garrity and they need
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people that know how to maneuver and and
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then actually show us that it's not that
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hard we just have to wrap our minds
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around
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and then step into our power you know
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one of the things that we have in the
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super boomer lifestyle store is our is
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our court case because when we travel oh
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my gosh when we travel how many courts
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do you have you have you have your phone
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cords and your computer your laptop
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cords and your iPad and your your tablet
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right so one of the things that we have
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in the store you guys might want to go
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check it out that's our bag smart
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double-layer travel cable organizer
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because there's nothing right there's
9:27
nothing worse than having to dig down
9:28
into your bag right and try to find all
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the stuff that's in there so we
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encourage you to do that let's talk a
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little bit about about your why and the
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fact that you want to be a part of
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creating a better world and that's where
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the title came from today that we're
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changing the world so talk to us a
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little bit about that when I when I came
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out of the funk again it all comes from
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there B and I think the things that the
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big learning for me was that wonderful
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things can come from really shitty
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experiences haha and I know I was I've
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got a background in community
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development and adult education and I
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did too a lot of self-exploration I'm
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still on that journey and still doing a
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lot of self exploration and you know
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spiritual growth and it's something that
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came about was I want I want to be part
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of a better world and I could see that
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where the focus was for people was on
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all the negativity that was happening in
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the world and I wanted the unicorns
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farting rainbows so we have to we have
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to retrain our minds to be able to
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recognize the beautiful stuff and the
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abundance that's happening around us and
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I just sort of tapped into that and go
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and there is so much good there are so
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much amazing stuff and so many amazing
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people in the world that if you choose
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to see them that's all you see and it
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really does inspire you to was inspired
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me to step up and and become a
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a person because I want to create a
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better world so and well and and in my
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world so I focus there I focus on what I
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can change and what I can do in my own
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world so we have some friends from San
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Mateo Silvia bum bruh and Joey coming in
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from San Mateo that just in case you're
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wondering is up in the North Bay
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Northern California so they're they're
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dialing in from there you do a lot of
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live streaming you do a lot of
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laceration so let's yes a little bit
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about that I'm gonna you can see in the
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picture up there this is my my webcam of
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choice this is the c920 and I just click
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it on to the top of my computer I can
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take it with me and use it for different
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things is do you encourage people that
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they have to go out and get the top line
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of everything in order to do this kind
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of stuff where you say start where you
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are start where you stand I'm actually
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I'm actually on my phone and I think
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I've got my set up over there in the
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corner but I believe that if we think
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that we need to have everything and
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that's something that we do it stops a
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lot of people is this big oh my god it's
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all too hard it's all too big it's all
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going to cost you much more in actual
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fact it's not too hard it's not too big
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and it's very very very inexpensive it's
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really weird
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it really is that that that's the
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brilliance of this it is so simple to
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get started yeah so how did you get into
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the life how did you decide to jump into
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the life you've been doing this for
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several years now I know and what was
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the empire's was it the platform where
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the people why did you decide to jump
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into life I could see it as what when I
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started as hypnotherapist I was looking
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at other hypnotherapist business pages
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and seeing what people did well and what
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they did poorly and I happen to be awake
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and alert when I saw what was happening
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on Facebook with the live streaming now
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I was terrified of live broadcasting
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public speaking is one thing live
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broadcasting this exit
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level it says though I'd done
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conferences and and you know panel
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sessions and public speaking before it
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there'd always terrified me but I did it
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my broadcast is just a whole different
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base that go that when you're talking to
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this little hole up here I don't know
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about you but when I started I was live
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streaming back in the 90s believe it or
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not and then and then fast-forward when
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it became a little bit more ease of use
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we could we can do this via Facebook and
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then of course I used be live and I
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believe use be live as well as part of
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the platforms that you use and when we
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started doing this you know the first
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time out when I first started doing it I
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sucked I was so bad and when I would go
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and watch the show afterwards I'd
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watched the recording I did I would pick
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it apart and say oh my god look at I
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look like why am i doing that why are my
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hands moving they still move by the way
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guys I I talk with my hands and and one
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of the things that I realized is that
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with anything else practice practice
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practice the more you do it the more
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comfortable you get and it's not about
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age it is not about 8 it is just about
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saying I'm gonna do it I'm gonna step
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into it and if I don't if I'm not good
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the first time out oh well neither was
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anybody else right I think that is
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absolutely just something we need to
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hang on to because when I saw that live
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streaming was an opportunity to get the
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message out there so what I do and a bit
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of advice for people who are terrified
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of live broadcasting is that it is to
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remember when you come on here remember
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why remember why you're here so when I
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first started it was like I was
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terrified and I would do I would
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actually started do a story pre-recorded
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videos that and I would pre record a
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video like 200 times and then not post
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it so but what I what I wanted to share
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with people is remember your why
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remember that the biggest thing I had to
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do was get over myself I still don't
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like the way my lips look when I talk I
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still got I still don't like the sound
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of my voice but you know
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actually quite happily ignore that
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because I feel I've got a bigger Drive
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and a bigger purpose having gotten over
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myself because I want to help people
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help people and I want to create a
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better world and that's where I focus is
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I love that and and again you know when
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people say I hate the way I look on
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camera yeah that you know get over it
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guys snap out of it because you look
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exactly how you look in real life we're
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just not used to looking at our faces on
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a regular basis like this so it's funny
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you say that you know it's the way your
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lips are this I blink a lot and every
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time I see myself on camera go oh my
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gosh I'm blinking but you know what I
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realized
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everyone's looking at themselves they're
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not really looking at you right I know
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there was a little treat scuse me and
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there was a little trick that I did that
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I absolutely loved and I just thought I
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see people smiling because when I'm
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going to do something I study what other
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people are doing that have or a doing
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what I want to do and I just saw them
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smiling and now I just go I like to
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smile when I talk and I tell you what
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that can't be a bad skill to have kids
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no it can't and I think that's such a
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great tip if that's all you walk away
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from a smile guys smile because we are
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embracing who we are we're embracing the
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technology if you go on alive and you
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decide you're gonna jump in and do it
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then as as Joey says everyone do a live
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show this is we're gonna we're
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gonna actually we're gonna actually give
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you all of you that are watching whether
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on live or replay go out and take your
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phone and push the live button on
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Facebook and go do 30 seconds and let
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people get to know you and then come on
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back and let us know that you did it we
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would love to see what you're doing
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we'll go check out your lives because it
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really it sounds scary but it really is
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not right it's really not so you know if
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so here you you're doing your live
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streams and you use a particular camera
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you want to get a little more fancy you
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can actually incorporate lights none of
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these things by the way are expensive
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this is very in if you can pick up a set
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of lights if you see there you go oh I
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love that you can put that around your
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camera or you can use big ones you know
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that's it oh that's awesome
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I don't have one of those I should
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probably go out and get one of those
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again it's it's equipment you can piece
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it together you can start with the
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camera and then maybe add on the lights
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and maybe after that you want to add on
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something else and so again this is this
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is something that you can take it slow
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or you can jump in altogether and just
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do it because you know Adair and I are
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here to tell you that you can do it you
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can change the world by what you how you
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feel and your message that you want to
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get out and that's what we mean by
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changing the world your message is
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important you know I know that people
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want to get in touch with you and find
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out more what you do on social media
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specifically I know that you work in
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facebook but you have a lot of different
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things also you have communities of
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people that come together in Australia
18:34
both live and virtual and that you can
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get in touch with Adair by going to her
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Facebook and just type in social media
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with a dare and her per Facebook
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presence will pop up if you want to be
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following and I suggest you do on
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Twitter you can go to at Adair zero one
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and if you want to follow a dare on
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let's see on Instagram you can find her
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on at Adair lower score or underscore
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Palmer you can check her out there any
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any last comments and or any any last
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things that you'd like to share with our
19:11
audience and our viewers any tips about
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changing the world helping people help
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people any other suggestions tap into
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what it is that makes you get up in the
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morning and if you haven't found what
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that is
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do it focus on that because it is
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something that is going to give you a
19:34
life purpose and meaning and while
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Facebook is the vehicle that's helping
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me live my passion right now that may
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change in the future whatever I do it's
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it is about creating a better world and
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helping people helping people help
19:50
people so it just tap tap into what your
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Y is and that's that that'll give your
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life purpose and meaning and you don't
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have to be a superfood but to do that
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you might
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stay a day job and that's perfectly okay
20:03
but if you feel like you are in a rut
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and you need to get out please do it
20:08
because you will survive you while he
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survive you will thrive you will thrive
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these people who are excited about life
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amen amen and you know we're both here
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to say that we are two people amongst
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many out there that are saying the same
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thing we are saying get out of your own
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way get out there be fearless expose
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your superpower right exposure to power
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and and go and do it Adair i want to
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thank you for getting up early I know
20:36
that your kids are getting ready and
20:38
you've got a household full of people
20:39
getting ready to do start your day over
20:41
there in Brisbane oh thank you thank you
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thank you for joining us today on the
20:46
show I'm gonna drop you down into the
20:48
green room and I'm gonna have my super
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boomer moment but I want to thank you
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again bye thank you okay so now is the
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time that I like to talk about my super
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boomer moment this is a something that
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came up in the show that it's gonna
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stick with me and and one of the things
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that actually I dare said towards the
21:07
very end and that was to tap into your
21:10
self tap into your superpowers tap into
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your passion tap into your talent get in
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tune with yourself
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because when you do that you are able to
21:22
take that next step in your life and you
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can go out and change the world and
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that's absolutely what we want to do at
21:29
the end of the day right we want to
21:30
change the world we are powerful we are
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fearless and we are here we are here to
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change the world I want to thank
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everyone for joining us today we know
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that you have a choice as to how you
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spend your time and I am delighted that
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you chose to spend it today with a dare
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and myself on the super boomer lifestyle
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show and so as I always say go on out
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give somebody an awesome day and we'll
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see you next week on the next episode of
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the super boomer lifestyle show goodbye
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