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hello everyone Karen Glasser here and welcome to the super boomer lifestyle show brought to you by the super boomer
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lifestyle dot-com it's your one-stop-shop for brands we know you will love today we welcome entrepreneur
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and speaker extraordinaire KC Eberhardt to the show today's topic which I absolutely love
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never done this topic before expectation versus reality flipping your live script
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we have lots to talk about today but before we get into that let's talk about the super Boomer Pick of the Week so
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today we are talking about well I'm gonna put this on so low we are talking about one of my favorite books only
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because hey I'm one of the authors in it but that being said the reason why I pulled this book conversations with
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experts and I pulled this book because KC Everhart our guest as well as myself
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and eight other amazing amazing business owners out there in fact we look back at
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this book and say oh my gosh I can't believe that these people actually were in this book this is a great book it's
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all about doing what you love and getting paid for it so I encourage you to go over to the super boomer lifestyle
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show and I'm going to put this up here and you can pick up your copy and if you see KC at any event coming up maybe in
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the future maybe one even this weekend you can bring it in him and I'm sure he's gonna sign it for you right I'm
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sure he will so I'm gonna do a little intro for KC before we get on it it
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really is a little intro because KC no longer has his whole long thing that we say he basically says when you ask him
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what do you do he says I'm an IND entrepreneur and I'm fascinated by that and I'm gonna bring him in right now
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because one of the things that is great about KC is that we have been working
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together for a very very long time and I'm really excited that he's joining us today so KC welcome to the show awesome
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Karen it is it is an absolute honor and pleasure to be on the suburban or
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lifestyle I've watched almost every episode I've been a huge fan of the show and it's just it's it's awesome to have
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watched what you've been able to create this fantastic Becky says hi everyone hi Casey welcome
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Becky is an amazing amazing woman out of Long Beach San Pedro California is up to
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some big things as well so hey Becky I'm glad she joined us on the show you know the first question that I like to ask
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all of my guests is how do you describe a super boomer now I describe a super
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boomer by what it's not I like to say what a super boomer is not we are not defined by our age we are defined by how
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we show up in life that's my personal definition of a super boomer so KC
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Everhart how do you describe a super boomer you know Karen I you know I
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thought about this a lot because I know you asked that and I really in my head when I hear the word super boomer I
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think about living life large whatever that means to someone right for me I
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like to live my life in on a journey where I create a series of mic dropping
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moments and mic dropping boom so I just have this visual of a super boomer
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somebody that goes through life on their own terms on their own journey I was like this like BAM you're right now look
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you're seeing in your rearview mirror if I'm on to the next thing or I'm moving for it on the live stream you know we
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don't have any I love that I love that so if you're watching live watching on
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replay either way tell us how you describe a super boomer put it in the comments I'm always intrigued by what
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people say and I promise you that Casey and I will come back and we will respond to your answers as well if you're just
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tuning in guys we're talking to Casey ever heard and we're talking about flipping your live script very
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specifically the expectation versus the reality so let's just jump right into
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that what exactly I'm gonna talk about your title first so you say that you're
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an entrepreneur I'm an entrepreneur too what does that mean to you though what's an entrepreneur so it's really funny
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Kern so first off I just have to give a huge shout out to the conversation with expert book I mean when I when I saw you
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when I saw that that was the Pick of the Week I've blown away because that was really for
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me what am I very first what I would consider life dropping mic dropping
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moments I was published in a book with some amazing amazing business owners and
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so it was just a fun project I'm super excited I'm actually gonna go find my
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copy and reread it because I just remember such a great set of experiences
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around that that will experience so you know here's the thing I think so often in life we get told and
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we get put into boxes and told you know um we were talking before before the
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show and I was explaining this and so I kind of expand a little bit on it you know I work with a lot of business
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people and on business people but a lot of business people and what I have found is that a lot of people have
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expectations of how somebody in their fellowship or followship should behave
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write your things like focus on one thing you know focus follow one course
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until successful right or don't stray too far out of this get in your lane do
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only one thing you know if you can do one thing for 10,000 hours you'll be an
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expert in a perfectionist at it well you know what some of us live life a little
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bit bigger than one thing for 10,000 hours for me personally I'd rather do 10
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things at a thousand hours and be 10 percent access successful or 10 percent
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fun or more fun having a broader range of the journey right I I totally
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understand that you know and and I used to call people accidental entrepreneurs because it's what you called yourself
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when you were out of work exactly like calling yourself a human exactly you
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know qualification right and it's less embarrassing and it's less it feels less vulnerable right oh I don't work it's
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better to say I'm an entrepreneur and I'm discovering what I'm gonna do next but that's not what you're talking about
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here that is not what you're really describing as an entrepreneur you know you and I have known each other for a very long time we met
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oh I think ten years ago maybe even longer than that and we started on a journey together where we traveled back
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and forth across the country and literally back and forth across the country because I wasn't smart enough to do with two events in the same location
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but we went back and forth and we've grown we have grown a lot we let's let's
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keep this in perspective chairs being very nice she was my boss the promoter and a producer of an amazing lifestyle
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tour called promote your passion and it was really designed to go around the country and give people the opportunity
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to be exposed to people that have found a passion and a way to profit and put a
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business together around it right so Karen you know you that that event that
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that series I think we did like 40 of them it sounds a lot we did on the matter oh and yeah did we make some
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mistakes along the way perhaps but it was all we created a mic dropping moment
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at every city we went yes right I mean there are moments about those events
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that to her that I can sit and and go wow there was a pivotal moment there
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right one in Boston where you and I sat in the back of the room and looked at this this panel of people we you haven't
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know we're just like wait I don't know what I don't know what leprechaun just went over some rainbow you get this
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group of people I remember you actually saying to me do you know who you have in this room right
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now I tell you who I said that about I know I can remember and I actually back
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in those days I was and even in these days I'm fearless if I wanted somebody I would pick up the phone and just say
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would you do it because if you don't ask you don't know right and it's because of that um I can even
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remember being in Boston where we had a there was a guest coming that I was
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blown away from and I literally told you I'm like you're no longer matters I'm an audition mode auditioned for for an
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entrepreneur that was in the room and because of that because of that one audition if you know ten years later I I
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can trace that back to a huge chunk of business the relationships I've had have been
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giving me the opportunity to speak in front of literally tens of thousands of people because one moment so so when you
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say I should have been smart enough to do it in two or three events I'm like I'm glad you were an idiot because at
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the end of the day what you did and what you created was the ability for people
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all around the country to have an engage in a mic dropping moment and so we I'm
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proud of that and we and obviously we got you know as we as we petered out to the very end it wasn't even a petering
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out we did they promote your passion crews and we had I don't know 55 60
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people that were on this cruise business owners they came on to do this I want to
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make sure I answer your question so when I think you're on to the newer Karen what that means for me is that I can
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live a life of having it all and I cannot complain my spinnings also be people that want to live a life of
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having it all you know I run a coaching program right now and our tagline is
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from vision to profit having it all nice what that means to me as an entrepreneur
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is it means excuse me if I want a one-day talk about cryptocurrency
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awesome if I want to talk about real estate investing awesome if I want to engage in a network marketing
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opportunity awesome but it's really about creating that journey at all
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versus being put into one box you know doing the best free throw or the best
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when we talk about the expectation versus the actual reality I'm sure that
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our listeners I'm sure that you have you know thoughts that fall right into that I know I do we're gonna talk about a
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couple of them but I think that as we go through life we have expectations we think that certain things are gonna
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happen right there's an expectation and then the splash of water on the face when we realize okay it was an
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expectation but that's not really the reality and I think as we get older at
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different stages and it doesn't matter how it is at different ages when you turn 30 or 40
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or 45 or 50 or I'm gonna be 63 next week as you get older you look at everything
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and you go oh I expected it to be like this but here's the reality right I mean
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I have a situation that very few people are aware of about six weeks ago I lost
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vision in my right eye I still have no vision in my right eye and I had a
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choice to make at that point because my expectation was that happens - you know I'm I thought the worst thing that was
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gonna happen to me is getting older was that my hair was gonna be great right and here I had this thing I had to push
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through it and I decided I wasn't gonna let it define me so how about you the expectation versus what the reality
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actually is yeah so I'm you know it's very funny I look at my I look at my my
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life really as only one movie right I
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don't look at it as different chapters I don't look at it as their I really look at it as one one long-winded several
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intermission several intermissions of a one movie and one thing I learned early
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on in my life was and I'll paraphrase it
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but it's it's kind of how I've tried to live which is that expectations are
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resentments under construction and so and I actually picked that up from a
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12-step program called al-anon like in the way way back machine I'm maybe a you
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know I think there's a lot of lessons that can be learned from a spiritual and religious and gurus and all of that
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stuff and and when you realize that expectations set yourself up for the
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reality and that reality may not match up to your expectation that's where you
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get yourself into Quagmire's and how we think I'm a failure this stuff's affecting this this isn't
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how my life's turned supposed to turn out you know and so if I take that kind of thing of expectations under our
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resentments under construction and then I also practice a a process that I actually trained into
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our platinum inner circle members and that is how fast can you get off it right which means that when something
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changes or that expectation versus reality are exactly the marketing
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message match um how fast can you get off it and be able to pivot and go okay that wasn't what I
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expected I lost vision in my eye well that's gonna make it hard for me too one two
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three four or five okay great I can have a pity party go get yourself some cupcakes and go get yourself some
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crepe paper and stream it around um you know how fast can you then go okay great
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now here's the new set of cards I've been well you're the new reality so as
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long as we can continuously work on trying to live in the reality versus the
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expectation we should be okay we should be okay you know when I look back in when I look
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back at when I first started in this game of business you know I became a pretty successful in several different
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well you meant movies your Academy Award winner for God's sake guys I know
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whether you're listening now and replay we're talking to KC Eberhardt who he started when the moving industry watch
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Li didn't starting with you started in the amusement park industry and and you won an Academy Award for becoming John
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Malkovich so you him yes but you got an
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Academy Award for that and when you said movie that that actually I was I wanted
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to say that earlier so here's the thing I mean did you have an expectation back in the day when you were doing movies
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that this is what you were going to do moving forward or did you know back then that you were going to continually
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reinvent yourself Sharon I can go back I can go back to five years old five years
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old and and nothing nothing where I am today I had any expectation I didn't
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have when I when I was working working at when I was taking raft rental
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tickets and selling lockers at an amusement park I didn't have an expectation that I was going to end up
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being in charge of the joint when I was in charge of the joint I didn't have an expectation of having to get bought by a
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new set of owners I didn't have the expectation that when the park got sold
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that I was gonna I mean at that point I kind of knew that I was gonna move to Los Angeles but I didn't know what I was
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gonna do I rolled in here I didn't know I was gonna be working in the movie business I didn't know two years later I
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would be asked and honored to come become part of a team that was going to make history on a lot of levels in the
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real business I didn't understand um I didn't get caught up in thinking that
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there was so many paths laid out in front of me I I wish that I had that
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skill set maybe but I'm not a great trying to lay out 10 20 30 40 steps in
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front of me without the caveat that if something else comes in the way of the
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journey there may be the ability or challenge or breakdown or breakthrough
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that allows me to move to a different reality right right and that's I think
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the big key I think you know what I have when I talk to business owners and friends and you know people coming into
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retirement I have a lot of friends that are are within five ten years of the quote retirement age they're like well
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it just wasn't supposed to be like this I was supposed to be this or I was supposed to be this why isn't supposed
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to be this I wasn't supposed to get divorced I wasn't supposed to lose my arm I wasn't supposed to get cancer I
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wasn't supposed to doc doc I write great the end of the day that's all a big BS
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story that you made up in your own head in the first place and with that to me what that does is it robs us of the
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ability to live in the present right IIIi agree I agree so and here you are
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now fast-forward and you are you're continuing to flip your life switch
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you're an investor I am you are investor in real estate
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I am I very full you know I don't know why you
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keep saying that I kept thinking of a cornucopia right and I have this vision
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of a cornucopia as Thanksgivings coming in and we're closed in that in that in
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that in that part of the year but the cornucopia is like a feast it's like
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filled with vegetables and fruits and foods and all these different things and it's made out on this big massive spread
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in front of us and we get to choose what we're having for dinner right yeah and
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and and does it mean that everything on the table we need to consume it doesn't even mean
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that we need to try they I hate beets I don't know why beets were ever invented
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they are the vegetable of the devil but I know that I have the ability to have
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these I hate olives I think olives are wanted for real Casey
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I can make a list of things that you don't like include not a ton shredded lettuce already here's the weird thing I
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can see and say I hate shredded lettuce but at the end of the day watch me eat a salad a salad shows up and then I shred
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it myself so I know where I'll figure it out go figure you out good luck um but when I what but you
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know every once in a while if somebody puts enough olives in front of me I'm gonna at least try it to reinforce the
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fact that I either like them like them right and I think with life that's part of the challenges I think sometimes we
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are so quick to block things off and not take a look and not stay open to
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opportunities and not take and I don't even mean the opportunities just in terms of you know here's the financial
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opportunity a love or a dating opportunity you know I have friends of
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mine that have very non-traditional sex lives and non-traditional families mm-hm
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and and it's always interesting to me that they all feel like people are
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putting them in a box and I think sometimes we as a society we're so trying to put people in our own layer of
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boxes and it just doesn't serve anyone it's like look I think it's fantastic if
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somebody wants to do something and it's between consent adults and it works for them and it
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works for their lifestyle and it allows them to increase the happiness and the
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write their own mic dropping journey then you know they're lucky right it's
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their reality it's their life not anybody exactly and you know what that's where on the flip side of that I think
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sometimes we have our own expectations and I think the faster we can remove
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expectations doesn't mean you have to move remove hope you know although I hope I don't think Pope is a strategy
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but um but I think sometimes we have so
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let our lives be consumed by not only our expectations of other people our
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expectations of ourselves yet right we can fill the expectations and other people our parents our friends our
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family our measure green CEOs whatever have of us then it really just it gets
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all muddy and all of a sudden you just find yourself going I mean an unhappy marriage or I'm in an unmarked business
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I've been for ten years that I should have left a year into it right right right um I've made a real estate deal
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that I shouldn't have been a part of her I should have never said yes it was they're sure of what is I think I think
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one of the things that I have struggled with in the past personally is I love trying new things
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and I love being an opportunist in terms of that all I'll jump on an opportunity so I'm a pretty easy mark when somebody
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says I've got a new opportunity or I want you to look at an opportunity I'm I'm a pretty easy guy to to say yes and
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the fact that you are a speaker on the world stage you don't just speak here in in the stage you just got back from
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Australia and you're laughing because as soon as we turn the camera off my jetlag
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is kicking in so bad but speak everywhere and I think that because you
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have spoken everywhere around the world it gives you the ability to look at things maybe differently than those of
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us who are who are kind of in our box Inlet I'm in California in my little box here in
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I don't get out much I'm an entrepreneur too and I sit in front of my camera and my desk all day long so I think it gives
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us a different perspective but you also do your own events yeah and I would be
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remiss if I don't mention your networking riches which is you happen to have one that's coming up this this
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weekend but even if it's not this weekend and you're watching the show you know six months from now Casey does
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these all the time and even if it's not within where you live there is still a
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way that you can get engaged in this right they if they go to networking Rich's calm you can actually purchase
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for very little amount of money and a lifetime of experience you can watch it
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live virtually right there on your screen you're gonna get recordings you're gonna do the whole thing and I've
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been to your events I've been to them a couple of times so I know the value that you give so I encourage people you don't
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even have to encourage them I'm gonna encourage people that you need to get your dose of Casey Everhart whether it's gonna be this weekend or next neck
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networking riches or if you happen to know that it's gonna be on a stage somewhere else what can people expect to
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get at the networking riches we'll look I think it's very sweet of you to say to get a dose of Casey Everhart let's not
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scare people I think what it actually networking riches really does is it
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gives people the ability to learn a system a way to be on purpose and
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intentional in building the group of people around you that allow you to move
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through your journey quicker faster and easier right so networking riches is is a is a tool that you'll learn over the
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course of a day and a half on how to go into a networking event or a church
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event a barbecue wherever and be able to be there with intention on purpose show
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up presently and be able to figure out how to help other folks get what they want so
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ultimately what you're doing is you're building out your own network of valuable resources and and by the way
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that can mean a lot of things to a lot of people so right we have people that come through networking riches that are
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you know own brick-and-mortar businesses you know we call them bricks and sticks we own we had people come through that
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are part of network marketing we've had people that are coming through that are real estate investing stock trading
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investing we've had spiritual gurus come through there is really a day-and-a-half
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event of fun but it really teaches a purpose and a system and a formula in in
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a world that seems somewhat chaotic and not a lot of people have kind of cracked the code right I hear that so all I
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really am is the key to a lock that that will help someone unlock up a conveyor
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belt you bring them what they need and Becky says I also recommend to attend networking riches I've been in the room
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and you will not believe how much you learn thanks Becky I know that Casey appreciates that and I agree with you
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it's true it's it's it's and and by the way it's not an event about Casey
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Everhart at Paul I can't leave I just use myself 1/3 first that's not good another tool it's really about arming
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people that were on this entrepreneurial or business journey a skill set that I
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don't think is really taught very well by their folks like I just don't get why
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we can't live a life of having it all and an abundance mentality and and
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living a life of our own desire and our own making and and creating our reality
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out of our own expectations and what I'm sorry just went up just to finish this
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spot when I hear flip the script and I talk about flipping the script I mean I
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can even think about it in terms of whether you're investing in a stock or a piece of real estate you buy something
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that needs a little spit shine you shine it up a bit you you fix it up it becomes more valuable right a little bit of time
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and a little bit of effort that's what it does there's really about flipping the script is whatever that is whether
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it's a relationship whether that a project or you look at it it's it's totally how you how you look at it if
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you're just tuning in right now we've been talking to Casey Everhart about flipping the life switch and how
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expectations versus reality in how it shows up in life if you want to follow and I know you do if you want to follow
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Casey on Instagram you can follow him at Casey got Everhart you can also follow him on Twitter at double your check
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which is we didn't even get into that which is a whole nother conversation maybe at another time we can do that and
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you can also go to Casey's ever Casey ever Hart's website at WWE and the
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business comm you've got a lot of things going on any last-minute thoughts that
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you would like to share yeah you know let's listen guys are like our life here
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on this planet is very very short you know you're you you basically got three
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three things you got you got the date you were born you got the date you were transitioned right and you have
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everything that happens in between right and when our headstone everything that happens between the date we were born
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the day we the date we transition is a little teeny teeny tiny - I mean
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half-inch my inch if you're rich cuz you got a bigger headstone right our duty
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our job our purpose for being here is to make that - as thick and as full as we
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possibly can in the short amount of time we're here so instead of trying to
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create a set of expectations that problem you're not going to be met right focus on your reality and moving the
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needle forward in how you can create the reality of your dreams of your desires
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and your interests and take some friends along for the ride and leave the planet
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a better place than when you got here leave your legacy in the things that you
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stand for and who you've become and what you've accomplished and what you've created so that the day that you
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transition you can go out with one giant mic drop I love it I love it Casey you
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are awesome I just want to thank you for taking the time because I know that you
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just got back from Australia you are in serious jetlag and you're going back well we I'm not actually we decided I
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decided I'm gonna drop you into the
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green room don't go away I'll be back to meet with you in a second but we're gonna go into our super Boomer moment so
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hold on how do you say thanks guys bye so this is the time that we talk
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about the super Boomer moment and Casey at the very end you said something and
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there's a great poem that's out there it's called the dash and it's it is all about what you just said that you're
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born and then you die and what happens in between is what's the important thing
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the reality of the reality part of this title of the show today expectations vs.
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reality it's what you do in the - it's up to you and you can keep reinventing yourself if you want you can stay the
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course on one thing if that's what you want but it's what you do and this is all about you not somebody else telling
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you what you should be doing and for me that is the super boomer moment and if
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you tuned in a little bit late and you didn't see the book go check out at the super boomer lifestyle calm
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conversations with experts it is actually a book that I'm an author in Kasey's an author in and some amazing
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individuals go check it out at the super boomer lifestyle so hey guys here's the thing you have a choice as to how you
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spend your time and I am always going to be grateful that you chose to spend it
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with me and my guest Casey Eberhardt today so I encourage you to go out give somebody an awesome day and we'll see
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you next time at the next episode of the super boomer lifestyle goodbye everyone
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