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hello everyone Karen Glasser here and
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this is life Uncorked I am sitting here
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with Marilyn Harris the co-founder along
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with her husband Ren of Paradigm Winery
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in Oakville in the Napa Valley and this
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is Marilyn's story so Mar Marilyn
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welcome to the show how are you today
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thank you so much for having me I'm very
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excited to be here I think I'm even more
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excited than you as you know I'm a huge
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fan of yours and of Paradigm um I've
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been drinking Paradigm wine for as long
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as I can remember which is a good thing
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I absolutely adore it but let's talk
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about your story let's talk about how
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you even got into the wine business now
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I know that your family has roots from
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Italy right correct okay so tell me the
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short story of how you ended up in the
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wine Biz running one of the best
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wineries in the valley all right um well
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it we go back to 1903 when my
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grandparents Came From
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Italy um fast forward to 1936 when my
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father and mother bought a big vineard a
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Farmstead we were really only in
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the 90s is when we actually all the
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family started wineries in the 90s
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91 and it it it's interesting because we
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were first in agriculture and we sold
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our products to everyone in the valley
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we I think what what really excited Us
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in the 60s know maybe
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this maybe the 70s was there was the
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wine home wine making
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craze I remember that we got into it and
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we had the grapes and we got into it in
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a small way but we just loved our own
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wine and we went well what are we doing
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you know selling our grapes when we can
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make wine well it took us a little while
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longer I you know at that point I was
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raising children and and they were in
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the 80s they got into high school and I
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said I'm going to stop being an at home
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mom doing my thing I'm going to go out
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and find the world here I love that left
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um meeting up with Bernard Porte at clo
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of wall and I asked him if I could have
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sure and I went was in Hospitality but
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it was a small Winery at the time and a
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few employees and it was wonderful and I
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thank my lucky stars I ever did it
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because I learned more about wineries
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than I've ever known my entire life um
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and that really I worked there for about
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10 years years and in
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1991 Ren and I said we need to start a
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winery and that's when we did it and the
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rest is history right the rest is
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history yeah so you're you're in
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Oakville we are in Oakville in the
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appalation and there are quite a few
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wonderful wineries here you know there
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so many of the wines in Napa Valley are
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wonderful they they really are and what
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I really love about Paradigm is is it's
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very much a boutique kind of thing when
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we come to Paradigm we literally are
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going to what appears to be a house
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right and um it's very personal and
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every we anytime I go and when I bring
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visitors with me um everyone says the
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same thing that you're so welcoming and
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it's so friendly and it's not what they
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experience at some of the much larger
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wineries in terms of that so kudos to
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you you you have really set the bar very
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very high um and I I love that about
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that so you are um you and rener tire
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tireless advocates for the Oakville
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appalation um eco-friendly farming and
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environmental stewardship so give us a
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little bit of an overview what that
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means um what that really means it's
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it's just caring our our heart is in the
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fact that it starts in the soil we are
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really agriculturalist
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vineyardist and it it starts in the soil
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and whatever you do in the soil is going
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to be when you make the wine it's going
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to be there and so it's very important
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to us we're it's the grape we're we're
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more of it's the grape that makes the
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fine wine and if you have the fine grape
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the wine is going to be wonderful and we
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also have a wonderful wine maker Heidi
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Barrett Heidi Barrett oh my God been
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1991 bless her heart she puts up with us
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all these many years but she's wonderful
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she's and she's a woman and and what I
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find fascinating she's a woman and
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that's right and and some of the best
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wine makers in the valley are women
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which I think is just wonderful because
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you know being one and and all of that
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so Marilyn what drives you at this stage
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of Life what keeps you going oh I don't
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know I get up every morning and I say
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I'm gonna have a wonderful day
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and I you know I try to stay busy and I
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think I'm pretty busy for my age um and
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you know I try to be in the moment
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because if I'm out of the moment I'm
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worrying about something so I'm in the
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moment and I cherish the moments and I
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just go from there you know it's it's
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sometimes we and I always say to to the
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staff you know don't second guess
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yourself just go for it and if it fails
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it fails exactly because what's the
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worst that could happen if you don't try
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you're not going to know and I I agree
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with you 100% on that so what
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inspiration and I think you're kind of
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telling me right now can you give to
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someone who's looking to start something
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new in this chapter of Life are you
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going to tell them go for it I'm sure
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I'm going for it I I've got a couple of
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things that we're doing right now I I
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love Modern Art and I happen to meet a
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local modern artist who has many
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paintings quite large 4x6 or whatever in
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his home and he he is just passionate
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about painting and I said well you know
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Jose I could I could probably find a
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place to put those paintings so I am
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setting up showings for him and he can't
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believe it because he's the kind of man
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at this stage in his life where I ask
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him what what do I pay you for this
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painting and he says we'll name a price
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oh wow I mean and and he is just so
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passionate about it and it's just a warm
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I just am so excited to be doing that uh
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what else are we doing oh my husband and
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bought um ponches bar in yville which is
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historically very uh historically
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prominent in life and times um
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um we purchased it and we're going to
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make we're going to keep it as ponches
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dive bar now which is a dive bar right
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it's a dive bar I love there are no
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windows in this building I mean can you
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imagine no one knows who's in there or
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what they're doing I mean really but the
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the real reason we did it is the solise
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family who have owned it since 197
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75 used to be employed by us Poncha was
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actually the cook in our cook house oh
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my 70s and 80s or 60s 70s and 80s and
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the sons and daughters I daughters were
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were our babysitters I mean it's just I
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mean the family goes back a long way and
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it kind of broke our heart when Co habit
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then they closed the the bar and and
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just need to be out now and so we said
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we'll buy it I and I love this it's like
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a neighborhood it's a neighborhood
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community place right where where um I
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was speaking um to somebody who who's
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near and dear to you your
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daughter-in-law she was talking to me
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about the fact that this particular
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place is where all of the uh Pickers the
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wine picker the The Growers would go to
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this place because quite
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frankly French Laundry goes they're not
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gonna right go there I mean everyone
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went there I mean movie stars would come
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in from out of town and they had to go
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to ponches it was the place to go and in
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um uh Playboy magazine had the top
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five uh dive bars in the country and
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ponches was number one so when are you
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opening again you bought it when are you
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reopening uh probably about three months
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we have to clean it up
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I I'll be there I will be there right
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yeah invite all your friends I am
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totally I am just so thrilled Marilyn
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you are an inspiration to anyone that
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listens to your story where you have
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come from where you are right now and
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where you are going I want to thank you
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so much for sharing your story with us
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because quite frankly I think that we're
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all aging like a fine wine what a great
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show thank you so much for joining us
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