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I'm Karen Glasser here and welcome to
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life Uncorked today's segment is all
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about aging like a fine wine and who
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better to have on the show is Tara
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Bennett Smith the producer director
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Mom and she likes to say she's living
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her bigger B Bolder better self every
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day say that 10 times fast welcome to
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the show yeah welcome thank you thank
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you for having me bigger better bigger
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better bigger better Bolder better and
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if you get it and you say it and that
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that's good I'm glad you said that
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because it helped to remind me to say I
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haven't said it in a while well there
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you go I think of that when I think of
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you uh because it's a great it's a great
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tagline so let's just start from the
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beginning back when Tara you back then
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how did what's your journey like to get
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to where you are right now it doesn't
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have to be a whole to do but tell us the
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short version of your journey well the
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short version I grew up in New York um
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my mother uh in what's considered the
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South Bronx not when I was growing up it
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was just the Bronx and then it became
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the South Bronx but I'm told now it's
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being gentrified so now it's
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SoBro uh but anyway so I grew up in what
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they call SoBro now and um in the
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projects and my mother was a single
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parent for most of when my parents got
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divorced I don't remember how old I was
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but in order to keep us nice and busy
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and off the streets she kept us involved
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in the Performing Arts so we start I
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started dancing at the age of five in
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Elie Andrews dance school and then went
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on to do theater musical theater and
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vice versa and that kind of was my bug I
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I've never been a I never really enjoyed
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School the way they teach and I probably
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because if back then I'm I'm might have
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been diagnosed with a learning
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challenge uh but no one you know back
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then you weren't diagnosing you just
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couldn't focus you know basically is
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what we were dealt with right so I
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always knew that I love the Arts and I
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would find any way to perform whether
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putting on my own little talent shows on
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on on the balcony we had a Terrace on
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each floor in the building where I grew
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up and I would do shows and you buy
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tickets and all my friends would be in
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it so that was kind of my beginning but
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I didn't realize how it was it was
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nurturing and and it was nurturing Ing
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and and teaching and grooming me to
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become a producer director I just knew I
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wanted to perform but I didn't know that
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me putting on my own shows producing
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them getting the talent getting the
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tickets was basically producing right so
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I started doing that and then over the
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years um you know kind of got sick of
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doing musical theater because that's
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most ofly what I was getting in New York
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and then I moved I got my first two
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commercials and I got my first Broadway
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show in my teenss wow and then I started
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a record label in my teens and got an
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opportunity to tour Europe because I
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wanted to sing so I said well if I
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nobody's gonna give me a record deal I
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started wow with my godfather and a
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friend of mine we started a record label
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so that's kind of the backstory then I
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moved out to LA and got a real record
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deal with RCA records with another with
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a girl group and started doing more
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television which I was excited about the
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very first thing that I booked was a
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pilot a SP off for The Facts of Life uh
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Natalie's character was moving to New
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York it was going to be called Big Apple
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blues and I was going to be one of her
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roommates with David Spade and Richard
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greo and I forgot the other young ladies
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Nam so we were all roommates in the city
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it didn't get picked up but it was a
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nice experience so my very first thing
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that I booked out here was a television
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pilot ah which taught me a lot about the
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fact that I can have those things you
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know that I could have a record deal and
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I'm capable doing this capable of doing
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though somewhere in the back of my mind
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when you grow up in poverty or you grow
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up with lack or you know you lose your
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mother very early which I did at the age
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of 16 I lost basically was parentless um
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I had aunts who took over but didn't
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have you know a parent um so with that
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said there's a lot of ying and yang that
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goes on inside of myself you know that's
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the pull and pull push and pull so
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outside of that I started um doing
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uh in front of the camera and someone
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asked me to direct something and I just
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did it for the fun of it and found out
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years later which adds in to where I'm
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what I'm doing now that I ended up being
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a director and a producer I think part
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of one of the reasons is I like the
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freedom of doing things the way I like
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to do them you know I'm not very good at
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a job that I don't like tried I've tried
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a few of them and um yeah you would fire
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me with what's interesting Tara is that
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you you create what you want to do you
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you actually create those entities those
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opportunities maybe when nobody else
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might give you that opportunity and so
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you have spent your career at least it
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would appear creating those
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opportunities not just for you but for
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other people as well very much so and
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and with that comes a lot of headache
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just to be honest it's not always the
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easiest Road right but it's a road that
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fits who I am better than
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sitting around waiting so so what would
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you say is driving you right now what
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basically that there are no other
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options you know if I don't do it what I
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love then what happens you know I'm kind
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of here until we are no longer here
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until we make our transition if you're
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not trying to push forward and finding
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new ways to to to live your life and be
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creative and go after the things you
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want then what is part what is the point
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of this journey that we're doing right
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right yeah so I guess that's what drives
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me is the fact that I just won't take no
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for an answer and it may not appear to
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work one way uh so I look for another
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way to get around it I don't like
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anybody to put a brick wall up in front
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of me even though I may want to cry that
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particular day because there's a brick
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wall in front of me you know I I'll cry
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and then I figure how to kick the wall
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down and how to kick the wall how to
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kick the wall it's just a desire that as
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long as we're here we have an
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opportunity to as long as we're here we
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can move we have sane mind we're
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physically able to get up and move about
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right we have a duty to ourselves to
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honor us as individuals because you know
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I have friends of mine who who are
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younger than me who are struggling
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physically with health issues that you
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know I know that if they would give
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their limb to be able to get back up and
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walk the way they used to walk not be
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going to the doctor every day or not be
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trying to figure out you know I would
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just love to be able to do my craft or
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do my art and when you don't have that
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opportunity um things look different and
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I don't want things to look different
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because I I let it sly or I didn't give
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it my best I think it's so important
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what you're saying I I mean truly and it
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is very inspiring and the next I was
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going to say what inspiration can you
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give to someone who was starting uh
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something new maybe in this this chapter
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in life and you're kind of already
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saying it is don't stop yeah you know um
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this is my this year 2023 was the year I
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senior official senior as they say high
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five Tera okay five and um you know
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seniors when when we were told about
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them they did not look like us to me you
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know I mean maybe I'm wrong but I don't
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remember them you're not wrong you're
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not wrong right I don't remember you
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know too many that I knew could just go
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you know hike four or five hours to work
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out lift weights you know take classes
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you know I don't remember that so I
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think for me for you whatever age it's
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like until you're dead you're not dead
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agreed until they come to get you you
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to to reinvent yourself right now I'm
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CCO Chief content officer of a new
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company called inani I've never been in
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the C Club because I straight away from
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jobs but this particular Adventure spoke
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to me because I get to do everything I
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plus plus be a CCO being charged with
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the way I love so that's something new
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for you very new this all happened this
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so that is for you what's next and
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what's next is the opportunity to travel
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and be on and and to employ myself in
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any of the fields that I love and then
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to be of service I'm opening up
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2024 a creative art center I'm starting
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small with the Venture with a friend of
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mine I have that going I have anani
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um I'm exhausted I'm exhausted listening
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to you those are the those are the
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things I I'd love to have a creative art
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center that a place that I used to go to
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when I was young you know that helped me
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to hone and hone my crafts and my craft
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and um just you know have a camaraderie
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with other like-minded artists so yeah
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so for those of you and I know it's a
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lot of you out there would like to stay
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connected to Tara you can go visit her
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website at reclaim haven.com what are
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they going to find there Tara they're
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gonna find a lot of things that uh we I
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have workshops and things for women
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especially for women who want to
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redesign I do a thing called redesigning
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your blue blueprint and rewriting your
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script so you know you can do it at any
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age so that's what you're going to find
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there plus some things on you know what
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do in my workshops and and a little bit
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more about me and they can find you on
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Facebook at tab Bennett Smith and they
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can also find you on Instagram atthe
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Terra Bennett Smith any last thoughts
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you would like to share with our
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audience just my quote that I say on a
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basis you woke up this morning
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profit yes I want to thank everyone for
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joining us today we know you have a
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choice go out and give someone an
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awesome day and terara thank you again
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and we'll see every next time bye bye